Well I sat here and read this entire thread. I am a excellent, highly reviewed and recommended provider of the thicker variety.
1) For the slimmer girls to assume that bigger girls offer a larger menu because of insecurities is a little off based. If you have never been bigger than you are now, you can't really speak for us.
2) I can only speak for myself. I do not offer things that I wouldnt do otherwise simply to get business. I have proven my self over the years. For the service I offer in and out of the bedroom. For example, I offer fetish scenes. I get offers constantly to do sub scenes, if I was hurting to much to take whatever money I could get, I wouldn't turn every single one of them down.
3) Every woman in the world is beautiful. Yes I love pussy just as much as the men here.
4) Yes bigger girls are probably going to go above and beyond to try and please the partner. In and out of the hobby. A slim pretty girl as been chased and persued her whole life. She doesn't have to try very hard to get attention. I see the same pretty young skinny girls get bad reviews over and over. Because guys will just keep trying. While I believe that I am beautiful and I love my body, the fact is that today's society I am not the "ideal" woman. So yes, if I continued to offer bad service and NCNS' then I probably wouldn't get much business. It's that simple. But yes a bigger girl is more likely to do more to please her man. This is actually a joke, I have told many times.
A skinny girl can always fall back on her looks, and she can say oh well he can leave, there will always be someone else.
A big girl says fuck that, I better cook awesome dinner every night, clean this house like a maniac, suck his dick every day, and make him happy.
CALM DOWN LADIES ... Its just a joke from a girl who has been thick her whole life that does have an awesome menu I love because I love doing it not because I have too.
Originally Posted by Naughty_Jezabelle
There has been a lot of truth to what most are saying but I will have to disagree with the original poster. Although it's a common thought that big women are easier or sluttier or do things because they're bigger. And this isn't true.
And this thought also transcends what one poster said about bbw's and trailer park types (which is rude to say about a person, btw) are the ones who will do more in bed.
I will share with you this, though. When I started, I was CBJ (God, I hate acronyms) and had no intention of ever performing oral sex without a condom.
I did because of the pressure here in Dallas. It had NOTHING to do with my size because nearly 99.9 percent of the escorts in Dallas do it. So I accepted the practice and now, it feel weird to do it with a condom.
AND ... I used to be one of those ladies (I liked what Naomi said about this) who never really liked CIM or the taste. But like a fine Scotch or wine, the taste is a developed preference.
Now? Well, it's pretty alright most of the time. Again, if I hadn't bowed down to some societal pressure, I would probably still be doing CBJ's and often have thought of reverting back. But I've done more research and I find it to be a safe practice.
Now back to the original idea. The thought that fat girls do MORE because they're large. Well, I'm not so sure about that. I certainly know a lot of skinny women who offer just as much "service" as I do. I've also seen a large majority of slave/master and kink parings that have a lot of submissive ladies who are pretty huge.
Does that mean they're being a slave because they're large? Doubtful.
Perhaps it's just that some are more experimental. Unless we have awl4knot do research, grin, then we'll probably not really know.
What I DO know, just from my experience, is that I haven't heard other escorts put me down because of my weight. There was a person who said to one of my clients that I had seen a lot, and he wasn't polite telling me this, that she said, "What is it about Elisabeth that guys want to see? I can't imagine anyone wanting to be with her!"
No biggie.
I will finish by saying that I've had plenty of clients tell me that some of the younger and more gorgeous of escorts have just sortof stood there and thought that just by being in the same room that they should have an orgasm. And they weren't into it.
I believe that this is an individual thing. I know plenty of skinny women who are as passionate as I could ever be.
It's nice to speculate. But I consider this type of topic to be along the same lines of what race or type of man is a better lover or DOES more or has the biggest cock. (Might I suggest Polish men would win that award?)
See ... as you gasp about that last statement (which has some truth to it
), all of this is subjective small talk that doesn't mean too much when you get right down to the grit of it all. The topic itself is just speculation at the very best.
Elisabeth