Scheduling appointments

I just think this has gotten really far off topic and I'm shocked a mod has gotten so emotionally involved in it.
This hobby is fun, interesting, different, you get to meet all kinds of interesting men, you get to live comfortably, you get to experience mind blowing things in bed, you get to really explore who you are sexually, you get to be a rebel by stepping outside of the rules of society, and you get to really enjoy being a woman BUT I don't think it should be someones life path. I don't judge people that chose it even though I think it is careless and lacks logic.
I couldn't imagine doing this full time and starting to hate men like most providers that do it full time for years and years and years do. I absolutely LOVE men that is why this is my hobby, the money is a plus but the variety of men is the real icing on the cake. I don't want to become some old dried up jaded provider that has to compete with spring chickens and depend on this for a living( mind you, it is a very comfortable living if you play your cards right). If you chose this as a life path, heaven forbid what if something happens? You have no sick time/personal time/vacation time/medical leave/maturity leave... or any form of PTO like at a real job. How much do you have to pay monthly to buy your own dental, medical, optical, chiropractic, and alternative medicine insurance that real jobs give you or would you just do the unthinkable and go on welfare/medicare/medicaid and skim off of the real tax payers and put our country even further into debt?
I would also be just sick over letting my masters degree rot in a frame on the wall.
These are just the reasons why I would never do this to make my living, I like to see the bigger picture and worry about my future. Yes, I have used this to help secure my future and I would NEVER regret ever having this as part of my life, I am a provider and proud of it. By doing this I have paid off 90% of my student loans, gone on amazing vacations, bought 2 cars, bought a house, totally re-renovated a house, and now I am house shopping for my dream home with an extremely small mortgage and big down payment so that I wont be under debt for the rest of my life... why would I ever regret any of that? Why would I be ashamed of taking control of my life and making it wonderful? So please save the "How dare you look down on hookers" BS
Originally Posted by Lexxxy

lexxxy..yeah i got involved..when someone is gonna take hits on me in regards to how I handle my biz and where I advertise and other very personal things in my life...you can bet your 2 cars 4 houses, 15 other side jobs 15 degrees you carry that Im gonna defend myself..regardless how it shocks you!
you and brooke honestly are cut from the same cloth..I cant stand fluflu hookers!!maybe thats too ghetto for you to understand..let me know if you need
clarification on where Im coming from with it!!

I just think this has gotten really far off topic and I'm shocked a mod has gotten so emotionally involved in it.
If you chose this as a life path, heaven forbid what if something happens? You have no sick time/personal time/vacation time/medical leave/maturity leave... or any form of PTO like at a real job. How much do you have to pay monthly to buy your own dental, medical, optical, chiropractic, and alternative medicine insurance that real jobs give you or would you just do the unthinkable and go on welfare/medicare/medicaid and skim off of the real tax payers and put our country even further into debt?
I would also be just sick over letting my masters degree rot in a frame on the wall.
These are just the reasons why I would never do this to make my living, I like to see the bigger picture and worry about my future. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Unfreakin believable - A mother who happens to be a mod is attacked and you can't understand why she's emotionally invested??? Unfortuantely, a masters degree does not guarantee someone won't end up on welfare or some other public assistance program. I hope you use a ladder to get off your high horse.

dont even try to redeem yourself now lexxxy . dont forget your still here being careless & lacking logic. fyi...as a reminder, your masters is rotting away on the wall while your hooking and doing porn Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

Actually, I have a very steady comfortable career in which I use my degree.
The hobby is just that, a hobby

where is brooke hiding now? must be busy washing her feet

Miss Anita you are always involved and like always were flaming the fire before personal attacks were made. YOU actually made the very first personal attack in the thread and if I remember correctly it was on me


I am done going back and forth over this, I am out of the spa now so I wont be on the site on my Droid anymore this evening. I have to catch up on emails and get ready for a dinner date and an overnight.

bonfire, why what do you mean ?????? LOL

its screening in its finest from.

thanks for the PM buddy.


This thread is almost as good as meeting in person to screen each other. Without having to buy her a drink. The 3 I see are never afraid to tell me off.

wish I could see nita and nikke right now. I bet both are cute when pissed LOL. Just glad Its not me pissed at.

listen richbritches...I involve myself where I need too..are you now trying to tell me I cannot post in the places I want to post? You got a major attitude towards alot of ladies
in this biz..and the funny part of it..you suck dick the same way they do..you are no better than the rest of us...but yet..you feel you need to put the rest down..here's a nickel..go buy yourself some class and bring back the change..

Sweetie... I won't be here 2 years from now. I'm not making a career out of being an escort or companion.

Lord I'll shoot my self if I ever depend on this as a means of a living for the rest of my life.... I know I'm better than that.

While in school.... wth why not. To raise a family or make a career...nah no thanks. Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

I don't look down on woman who choose this to make a living. I just know I have an educated background and can do better for my self then be a full time provider. I would look down on my self and be extremely dissapointed in my self if all I ever became was an escort. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting better for yourself!!!! And Lexxxy nailed it. I fully agree with her 100%!!!!



Heard what....? I have never stated I am in this business for 1 month, 1 year or 2? You must have me mistaken with someone else. After all GP wasn't it you that thought I was Mary and in hair school.....

Come on... anyone that knows me, knows I would never feel comfortable cutting someones hair. I won't even buzz a guys hair thinking that I may mess it up!!!



Again sweetie... I haven't emailed you since last year. After ALWAYS NEVER hearing back from you. Your lack of TCB skills suck needless to say. I tell men all the time, oh and FYI a guy today just used you as a vouch that I do not accept you for a refrence due to your lack of responding. You cannot even let a lady know that you won't give out vouches.

Just because I don't actually email you and say So and So is using you for a vouch... doesn't mean I don't know who your sleeping with. So I stand by my point if any lady doesn't want anyone knowing her business and who she is screwing... they probably shouldn't be here.



That to me translate a very lazy person.... but thats IMHO. What you can't work 40 hours a week like the rest of us? I have always had a full time job while doing this. Spring will be the first time ever that I don't work full time... but going to school is a full time job.

Oh and depending on the college degree depends on the demand for a job.... I'm pretty sure there are a shortage of nurses...Looks like I'll have no problems finding a job Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Brooke,

For your sake, I wish you would not start threads like this and then fuel the fire with statements that are contradictory and/or highly inappropriate. You have filled this thread with posts that people will find offensive and don't paint you in a positive way. For instance:

You can't say things like you'd shoot yourself if you didn't become something better than a provider and then say that you don't look down at women who choose this as a career path.

You can't expect guys to enjoy the prospect of seeing you if you demean your profession that way either. Most of us don't want to think we are going to see a lady who hates what she is doing and feels compelled to do it as a last resort to pay bills. We would prefer at least the fantasy that you enjoy seeing us just a tad.

It seems hypocritical that you have been upset at guys who you think may have told you how to do some TCB things , and then wonder why the ladies get upset when you tell them how to do their business.

You are dead wrong to believe that being a nurse or some other "real job" is in some way better than being an escort. In my profession , I know many nurses, and have 2 in my immediate family. I don't want to be too critical of them, but frankly, there are few who merit the respect of many of the ladies I have frequented on this board. The providers here may not be in a job that a portion of society condones, but the service they provide is extremely valuable to the portion of society who avail themselves of it.

I hold my lady friends from this board, a few who have commented in this thread, in higher regard than nearly all of my nurse aquaintances -- and believe me , most of the people I know in nursing got into that job not for the good of caring for others, but rather because they thought it was a high hourly wage for the time it took for the education. Getting paid well to work fewer hours is no crime -- in nursing or escorting.

GP probably confused you with Mary as she used to make some of the same inane statements that were a slap in the face to the career providers. Believe me, after 15 years in the hobby, I have a pretty good feel for who the best providers are. There are a few good short timers, but as a group, the women who have made a career of it, or at least a career long enough to have financial security tend to be the best. Not only have they taken a liking to the job, but they understand the need for excellent TCB and BCD skills to keep a good client base. The result is that they study their craft. They get better. They learn the men's psyche. They make us feel wanted and as if they want to be there with us. When we believe you like us and like your job, we have more fun and we return. Success for everyone. There are a few who are using this as a stepping stone to a different career who have mastered this (eg. Lynn) , but more often it's the ladies who are in it for a longer term/security/providing for their family (eg. Nikki and Anita) who have developed those skills.

If you feel the way you do about this job, maybe you should take the advice you gave to Ms E and get out yourself. If not, you should probably keep the friends you have by not being so critical of others. That is just some friendly advice as I genuinely wish you well and don't see how it can be good for you to alienate yourself that way.

I can read what activities were taken placed.... I take it with a grain of salt, they could be made up to look good. But anyone can read a review. I just can't comment on it. Anyone without PA can read the jist of what happened during a meeting. Obviously....

Now if your suggesting I use the leaked site... blah I have better things to do then go on there .... just sayin' Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Now this I find very

Originally Posted by Deepthinker

I didn't want to quote everything you typed. But


Very deep man



Well said Deepthinker




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ummmm..no..not exactly brooke...i have seen many a man that has done certain things with other ladies and they know I dont offer that sorta activity..
yet they will still book with me..I think its more a diff spice that they are gonna go for..they want something diff...
they ask..i say no..they say so and so..I say....
"I ain't so and so..and i'm bout to prove it right now.. sooooo grab your hair cuz its gonna blow up in here!!!!!"

yeah..i say that stuff...they grab onto anything that's grounded..u know to the floor..all..chained..grounded. .whatever..
taint that hard to bring it..im a diff chick..i do things differently that the last girly...

as well I can host a gent within an hour of him calling me regardless where he has seen my ad due to the creativity I invoke within my biz and screening....

I have been around for a few years..(*laugh at a few* cuz its been more than that)..however I look at it as its helping me be a well rounded provider and being able to
work it as only as a well rounded provided can do..
sure..
i fall off every once in awhile...as a previous post points out.. life happens..we all are alive and living beings..life affects us all..

some of the clients really have to work to get with me..but i as well have to work really fr**kin hard to make the time and day with him..its a two way street for those that are serious about this...

..but you can bet your hottest high dollar I'm gonna make it up to that fellow and give him a discount and still warp him beyond his beliefs..why..cuz this is what i do...

I have opened my market up to same day..with in an hour to an hour and a half..1 day prior..2 days in advance..beyond that they cannot book with me..things happen.more often than not that their schedule changes or mine does..
it's life..it happens. Im a short notice kinda gal...

but some ya'll others aren't...and there tain't a thing wrong with that..you do you and be proud of it..

If they want a certain date and time its up to them to keep me refreshed,,and they do,,they pm me..email me and call me to make sure they get that day and that time..and they do..

..also..I do phone as opposed to email..

ha lexxxy... it makes me laugh that you talk about catcalls..(im sure your rollin your eyes right about now)..hahahahhahahahahahhahah oh k....still gonna put it out there ....

Do you know how many men have seen me due to that "catcall"...and still come back to see me...love those guys... cuz they show me luv..and they appreciate that I'm able to see them that short notice..and actually I have captured a few texts of .."rates" gents as repeat "clients"..catcall or not..they be good guys!! That's how they are..that's their personality..
And they may not know it..but I adore them..I know them and I trust them..streets sometimes goes along way in this biz..helps you be able to read folks..

anyways..i took this thread way off target..it will happen with me...but perhaps if you really read my post you'll see its not off target as ya'll think...
any rate..yoyoyodiotoyo!!!:huglove : Originally Posted by anita germane

that wasnt an attack on you..it was me telling you that..I make money off catcalls..

Im sure your rolling your eyes now too...

Brooke,

For your sake, I wish you would not start threads like this and then fuel the fire with statements that are contradictory and/or highly inappropriate. You have filled this thread with posts that people will find offensive and don't paint you in a positive way. For instance:

You can't say things like you'd shoot yourself if you didn't become something better than a provider and then say that you don't look down at women who choose this as a career path.

You can't expect guys to enjoy the prospect of seeing you if you demean your profession that way either. Most of us don't want to think we are going to see a lady who hates what she is doing and feels compelled to do it as a last resort to pay bills. We would prefer at least the fantasy that you enjoy seeing us just a tad.

It seems hypocritical that you have been upset at guys who you think may have told you how to do some TCB things , and then wonder why the ladies get upset when you tell them how to do their business.

You are dead wrong to believe that being a nurse or some other "real job" is in some way better than being an escort. In my profession , I know many nurses, and have 2 in my immediate family. I don't want to be too critical of them, but frankly, there are few who merit the respect of many of the ladies I have frequented on this board. The providers here may not be in a job that a portion of society condones, but the service they provide is extremely valuable to the portion of society who avail themselves of it.

I hold my lady friends from this board, a few who have commented in this thread, in higher regard than nearly all of my nurse aquaintances -- and believe me , most of the people I know in nursing got into that job not for the good of caring for others, but rather because they thought it was a high hourly wage for the time it took for the education. Getting paid well to work fewer hours is no crime -- in nursing or escorting.

GP probably confused you with Mary as she used to make some of the same inane statements that were a slap in the face to the career providers. Believe me, after 15 years in the hobby, I have a pretty good feel for who the best providers are. There are a few good short timers, but as a group, the women who have made a career of it, or at least a career long enough to have financial security tend to be the best. Not only have they taken a liking to the job, but they understand the need for excellent TCB and BCD skills to keep a good client base. The result is that they study their craft. They get better. They learn the men's psyche. They make us feel wanted and as if they want to be there with us. When we believe you like us and like your job, we have more fun and we return. Success for everyone. There are a few who are using this as a stepping stone to a different career who have mastered this (ie. Lynn) , but more often it's the ladies who are in it for a longer term/security/providing for their family (ie Nikki and Anita) who have developed those skills.

If you feel the way you do about this job, maybe you should take the advice you gave to Ms E and get out yourself. If not, you should probably keep the friends you have by not being so critical of others. That is just some friendly advice as I genuinely wish you well and don't see how it can be good for you to alienate yourself that way. Originally Posted by Deepthinker

+1, you hit the nail on the head.

Great to see two ladies fully admitting they dont screen at all!!!! Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

gee one, guys complain it hard to get past her screening


and the other took me from 2007 till 2010 to get past her screening
(glad I met her)

I need some

edit: great post deepthinker

Wow Brooke, I thought you were kind of cute and I thought that it would be nice to meet you some time with your posts about your interests in food and what not. THat was really ugly, and I for one just scratched you off my TDL because your attitude is disgusting. And that has nothing to do with your dog either because I like a cold snout up my a$$ every once in a while.

I really think that this thread and the nastiness and insults have been going on too long. This is a fun board for all of us to enjoy, BOTH men and women. Personal attacks and treating each other with disrespect is not needed. I am fine with anyone being able to state their opinion on any topic and anyone else being able to disagree and offer a rebuttal,. BUT this is now turned into a pissing contest. I urge you all to take it private and if you must continue, PLEASE do it by PM. Thanks