THE OTHER WOMAN CALLED.....

Who the fuck business is it that someone is married?

Who the fuck business is it that someone is married? Originally Posted by pyramider

Take a deep breath and reach for your beta blocker!

Whether you think it's no one's business or not, the simple reality is guys either ARE or ARE NOT married. No one's asking who else is or is not, people are just expressing their opinions in general. Nothing to get bent about.

Not bent but how is marital status relevant?

It's really only relevant if it causes a provider to get pulled into some drama.

I apologize for the tone of my remarks. My opinions stem from being falsely accused of cheating for the better part of six years every time I wanted to hang out with the guys.

Married fellas go on seeing providers, they need your business too! Just be sure to take care of your business before and after you do!

Who is married is nobody elses business. These were just general comments.

Not bent but how is marital status relevant? Originally Posted by pyramider

It's only relevant if it affects how a person feels about themselves, or if--as Doc says--it bleeds over and affects the other person via some drama. I think this can happen in either direction, married or not.

true , true

Why would any one care if some one is married? None of my business! Now if were talking about a provider, thats a totally different issue! I need an SO chasing me down Hwy 35 like I need Rambo being a guest speaker at my daughters etiquette class! LOL

don't even think of that...

Why would any one care if some one is married? None of my business! Now if were talking about a provider, thats a totally different issue! I need an SO chasing me down Hwy 35 like I need Rambo being a guest speaker at my daughters etiquette class! LOL

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Rambo Creed gives manners courses to the young ladies? We had idea he was so well rounded.

I see their marital status as none of my business.

Rambo Creed gives manners courses to the young ladies? We had idea he was so well rounded. Originally Posted by pyramider

I'll borrow the word you left out... NO! One thing about Rambo, if you want an opinion he'll give it to you! Like it or not! What’s NOT to like about Rambo? When I read his posts I start laughing before I even start reading!

Just happened y'day:

Me: Hello?
Female; <My real name>
Me: (eyebrows raised) Hello?
Female: <My real name>
Me: (whothefuckisthis?) Hello?
Female: This is Lori (batshitcrazy) <last name>, so&so's wife.

NOW - this guy's wife popped him like three years ago. He left his IM on ...and it was not good. She found his hobby acct, went to a local board that he was a "big dawg' on, read his posts & reviews....then called the last girl he reviewed, asked her if she knew so&so, idiot provider thought wifey was a provider asking for a ref and gave the wife a good reference. This crazee ass heifer tried to contact every woman her hubby had seen. This was THREE years ago. For three years she has been calling one of my girls..over shit that happened 3&4 years ago. Can you imagine this poor bastard's life? Just crazee.

Suddenly, after all this time....she calls me.

Say what you want - but I am not paid to put up with your batshitcrazy SO. When you give meeting details, my name, my family info etc...you broke confidence. Not me. And I ain't the one. No sirree...

Crazy ass is NOT going to call MY phone, tell me (tell me me!) that I am not going to hang up on her, tell me what I am or am not going to do? The fk? I aint the one.

I didn't go into any damned cover story. Told her flatout she had no biz contacting me & if she rang my phone again, it'd be harassment and hung up.

3 voicemails later of her threatening me, my kids - MY KIDS, my job and her home county Sheriff Department had enough evidence to call her dingbat ass and let her know; Yes, I can and will have her charged with harassment if she contacts me or mine again. Her name, my name and a complaint are lodged. One more contact and yes...she gets arrested and yes, I have no problem doing that.

Why providers put up with this nonsense is beyond me, cause..damn straight..I aint the one.

This situation was actually my whole reason for deciding not to ask for or give refs over the phone.

Thats right babee, I love it. .... tell us more. Love it when babee goes to writing.

I think it is lousy when providers go through this crap. As is there isn't enough information plastered every where on how to hobby safely! I mean GEEEZ!