And the Men's Locker Room will invariably have it's discussion about some poor soul who took a Ladies actions for more than what they really are, and he will be asking, "why doesn't she love me". Or the old "what do you do when you fall in love with her"
I do not look at Hooker as a derogatory term, I think it is a rather benign way of saying "prostitute" or "whore".
You Ladies need to understand that there are a lot of guys out there who take any benevolent action by a Lady as an act of affection. You are opening yourself up to all sorts of hassles and grief by forgetting the basic facts of the Hobby. That is, the Ladies screw Men for money, and the Men pay the Ladies for the pleasure. It's when you start venturing from that basic tenant is when trouble begins.