As a hobbyist, I respect your decisions and admire your courage in stating what you believe is correct. I, for one, value the rest of my life more than the hour or two I would spend putting it in danger. GFE seems to mean whatever someone wants it to mean to them. After having a "disease" scare (thank god it wasn't what I thought it was) after DATY I've moved on to only see providers who think the way you do.
But, I have no problem with what other people do. To each their own and it is their life to gamble with, not mine.