Wow can't believe how many people judge or down BBW WOMEN FOR THERE SIZE AND NOT FOR WHAT THEY ARE IN SIDE! !!!!!!!!!!

I guess I'm screwed in this business. LOL Originally Posted by SexySeven

Do you disagree with Vyt's statement?

Do you disagree with Vyt's statement? Originally Posted by Codybeast

I don't agree or disagree.

I can tell you what a man likes BCD by the choice of words in an email Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Now that is COOL.. kinda like the Mentalist! Originally Posted by harkontume

I know huh? A provider with a mentality is freakin COOL!!!!

How does that work? Originally Posted by harkontume

Well, glad you asked. You taught me a bit about how to recognize a certain “type” of hobbyist.
I saw you twice BCD, and that was 10yrs ago.
About 5 months ago, a certain Lady you were pursuing asked me about you.
I was able to tell her in detail about you & your tactic.

After a few years in this business… recognizing the different patterns in men is not that difficult.

you teach it to other providers? Originally Posted by harkontume

Yes, I do. I have actually taught a couple Ladies how to “handle” you.

What am I thinking now? Originally Posted by harkontume

I just hope you are actually thinking now.


Guys, you talk about the business aspect of this hobby, but in reality, none of you seem to actually believe, or recognize that this is actually a Business. Much less that a woman that gets paid to “provide” could actually have the mental ability to treat it as a business.

Being a Provider is being in Sales.
A lady needs to sell to her appropriate market.
A hot young thing does not need to worry as much about the business side of the hobby. Their looks will make them money & customer service is not a priority.
A BBW needs to put effort into the business side. She has to learn to market herself.

There is a market for everyone in this hobby, and plenty of money to go around… Some ladies need to work a little harder, be a little smarter, but in the end, a BBW can prosper tremendously in this business.

I do think that a lot of providers spend too much time crying about not having business instead of trying to figure out other ways to increase their business.

I was recently told that a large number of ladies will sit in-front of their computer flagging the ads of other ladies if it is posted 30seconds after the allowed time.
Ladies, I promise, that is not going to get you any business.


Something else you guys might want to ponder…
Your buddy is not going to tell you that he fantasized about a bbbj while standing next to you at the urinal.

Your buddy WILL go see a “Provider” and tell her all of his most intimate sexual secrets.

Fetishes are extra for a reason. If you guys sucked each other off & did each other in the bootie… no need for Providers to put on a strap on for a lil extra & fulfill his fantasy.


You guys really believe you have any clue of the weird shit men enjoy sexually?

You guys really believe you have any clue of the weird shit men enjoy sexually? Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

and do you believe that the subset of men who see providers, then a subset of those men that you market to as a more seasoned provider give you an insight into the mind of majority of men?

It might be more believable if you said the majority of the men that see you fantasize about sucking dick... though that would make me wonder where you're marketing.

I have learned this business from many diffrent aspects. Partly to make money, partly for my own curiosity. I am a seasoned provider today, but I was the new girl in town 12 yrs ago. I learned this business with time n eperience. I have worked side by side with many ladies of all shapes, color n ages. I have learned from each.

I do not speak from just my own experiences, but from what I have learned in this hobby from others. The good, the bad, the pretty n the ugly.

age does play a big factor in our sexuality. I am a lot more open minded today than I was 10yrs sgo, I know what I like, want n need sexually n I have learned how to make a nice xtra income in a healthy positive manner. BTW... I do not like fetishes.

I have learned this business from many diffrent aspects. Partly to make money, partly for my own curiosity. I am a seasoned provider today, but I was the new girl in town 12 yrs ago. I learned this business with time n eperience. I have worked side by side with many ladies of all shapes, color n ages. I have learned from each. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Irrelevant.

I do not speak from just my own experiences, but from what I have learned in this hobby from others. The good, the bad, the pretty n the ugly.

Even if you had every pro tell you about the majority of their experiences, and let's not forget that those tales that they would be volunteering are the more bizarre, exotic, weird, or crazy, you still would not have insight into the mind of most men who hobby. Even if you had insight into the mind of hobby men, that still does not give you license to claim most men have the same fantasies.

age does play a big factor in our sexuality. I am a lot more open minded today than I was 10yrs sgo, I know what I like, want n need sexually n I have learned how to make a nice xtra income in a healthy positive manner. BTW... I do not like fetishes.

Again, your business savvy, sexuality and age is irrelevant.

Now that is funny.

I just started "seeing" anyone BCD until 4 years ago.

VickyLyn was my first lady in this Hobby. Heck, I didnt even live in Austin 10 years ago.. lol


It is OK though.

I am just pleased to know I have a tactic!

I mean I would have a tactic if you actually had seen me.

But don't let reality interfere with your self aggrandizement.

I know huh? A provider with a mentality is freakin COOL!!!!

Well, glad you asked. You taught me a bit about how to recognize a certain “type” of hobbyist.

I saw you twice BCD, and that was 10yrs ago.

About 5 months ago, a certain Lady you were pursuing asked me about you.

I was able to tell her in detail about you & your tactic.

Yes, I do. I have actually taught a couple Ladies how to “handle” you.

I just hope you are actually thinking now. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

I'm certainly thinking as well as a few others I am sure about what the hell needed handling about this guy....

Seems this may have crossed a line into some overly personal arena....

]Well, glad you asked. You taught me a bit about how to recognize a certain “type” of hobbyist.[/FONT]
I saw you twice BCD, and that was 10yrs ago.
About 5 months ago, a certain Lady you were pursuing asked me about you.
I was able to tell her in detail about you & your tactic. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Not until this post did I actually believe you were COMPLETELY full of sheeeeet.

The whole men sucking cock thing I figured was just air headed banter but this is borderline delusional.

Could it be you're just having fun story telling figuring the more bizarre the story the better?

I hope this is the case and that you don't REALLY believe you remember a session with a monger 10 years later or 10,000 dicks ago or that some provider randomly asked you particularly about him 5 years ago which you also happen to remember.

If you're trying to ruffle monger feathers at least do it Whispers style with some intellectual thought put into it lol

Please tell me there's more upstairs than this.

Absolutely nothing because the only reason to avoid eating food with gluten is if you have celiac disease. Originally Posted by Vyt

not true, most people are actually allergic to gluten to some degree and getting off gluten can seriously help you drop weight. while it is the approved way to combat celiac disease is not its only benefit.

You could stand to get off the booze man...... I tell you what... I can support that in you.... COme have a drink with us and your first glass of water is on me!

I'll even pay for the good bottled stuff! Originally Posted by Whispers

is that really the only argument you can come up with against me? I am so sorry that its not working. I could just as easily come up with some weight argument and throw that at you instead of debating you.

We've met in person what, three times? judge much you fatty? <---fatty added for emphasis to your stupid and baseless insults.

Budman
You and Whispers really do need to get a hotel, consummate this relationship and get rid of all that sexual tension.
I've never seen two male posters who LOVE to squabble with one another as consistently as you both do.

Either one of you could've simply pressed the ignore button ages ago but clearly neither of you desires to do so which means you really aren't nearly as pissed at one another as you are in love. lol

is that really the only argument you can come up with against me?

I'm sorry.... It's not an argument... It's an excuse for your behavior.....

I am so sorry that its not working. I could just as easily come up with some weight argument and throw that at you instead of debating you.

You don't debate shit man.... The same as you don't contribute ...

We've met in person what, three times? judge much you fatty? <---fatty added for emphasis to your stupid and baseless insults. Originally Posted by budman33

your rep as a drunk precedes you man... I didn't have to meet you to hear of your drunken exploits...... it has been commented on as well as complained about by ladies as well as by gents..... The inane drivel that comes out of you lately can be explained one of two ways.... Either you have had a vast loss of sensibility and smarts...... or you are posting drunk....

You don't debate....you spin conversations into other directions.... you seldom seem to comprehend what is being presented... instead of trying to grasp concepts you go off on tangents.....

it's apparent to everyone that pays the remotest bit of attention to the boards.

You pose no realistic solutions to problems brought up.....

You start no informational, fun or useful threads....

Your not participating on the boards... You are logging in... searching for my posts and taking shots....

I politely approached you off the boards and involved the mods in trying to put a stop to this shit..... You declined and went so far as to try to come on here and suggest there was some other conversation going on.....

Bottom line is I will respond to every comment and shot you want to take at me with everything that is available to show you in the light you deserve....

Of as suggested more than once... you can drop all this online stalking and put me on ignore.........

Dear Ms. Fran

I have given this a few days for you to check your facts. Call your friends. Look at other subscribers with the same avatar as me and place your retraction.

1. We have never met.
2. I have only been "Hobbying" approximate 4 years
3. I was not even in Austin 10 years ago.

I try on this board to bring some light quirky humor in discussions to remind everyone we are here to enjoy life. Not beat it up.

I have treated every provider I have met with respect and some with a loving heart.

I may not be the smartest or best looking or richest man you will meet here but I am a Gentleman.

And unless I see a retraction I will have to say.

You Ms. are no Lady.

Dear Ms. Fran

I have given this a few days for you to check your facts. Call your friends. Look at other subscribers with the same avatar as me and place your retraction.

1. We have never met.
2. I have only been "Hobbying" approximate 4 years
3. I was not even in Austin 10 years ago.

I try on this board to bring some light quirky humor in discussions to remind everyone we are here to enjoy life. Not beat it up.

I have treated every provider I have met with respect and some with a loving heart.

I may not be the smartest or best looking or richest man you will meet here but I am a Gentleman.

And unless I see a retraction I will have to say.

You Ms. are no Lady. Originally Posted by harkontume

I really wouldn't worry about it. I seriously doubt one single soul on this entire board believed a single word of it. It did however make her come out looking like a complete air head.

If her intent was to ruffle your feathers then you are letting her know she succeeded by even entertaining the absurd statement. Let it go. It's saturday night. Go get laid.