Annoying Appointment Request! UGH!!

Even an Alien understands me! Gasp! Must be an alien gentleman! Do you have any tentacles? Originally Posted by samantha thom

Just one And Yeah, momma raised me to be a gentleman, and I do try!.

Sometimes the beast comes out, but only when invited.

How about this response to late night PMs?

"Thanks for contacting me, I see clients between the hours of X and XXX. If that fits your schedule and you wish to see me during those hours, please let me know. Have a great day!"

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Yes, I understand that the info was in your ad. Originally Posted by TheDuck

Thats how i normally handle such a situation...politely. But if you get it a lot at once.. it gets annoying.

as for Trying- pftt! I was simply trying to stop thebashing from the ones who keep complaining because the assumed it was because of the time of night she got the pm. Keep trying to get laid tho... you sir, can simply put me on block...but u would rather rant too. Imagine that?

Keep trying to get laid tho... you sir, can simply put me on block...but u would rather rant too. Imagine that? Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

Lacy, you know who that is, don't ya?
Don't waste your time on him.

CG

Like most things, the only way something like this can upset you is if you let it.

Im suprised this is still going. When both sides have said their sorrys and mad a later appt. Should we start another topic? I say yes. Let me know sam

i would side with the guy on this one. Maybe you should make your hours of operation "more clear". Baby batter can really loud one's judgment. Besides, it isn't like he contacted you for a 4:00am appointment. Its fine if you didn't want to see him, but I assure you that your meaningless thread about the whole situation is more annoying than he is.

I find it amazing you guys expect a woman who doesn't know you to come to your place after 1 in the morning. For heaven's sake - just go to an AMP!

JL I agree

Well, I might as well add my $.02 as several others have done. So here goes...
The reality of it all is, people have different schedules and differing points of view. For many people, asking a provider for services at 1:00am is certainly not out of the question. Many upscale providers offer very late night/early morning appts. and it doesn't have to be a trailer-trash-bash, low class thing, if the setting is done at that kind of hour due to whatever circumstances. I think even the hour notice isn't horrid to think possible, and, you just never know until you ask. Especially since she had no prerequisite hours of notice listed. It isn't usually a possibility, since we all (most of us men) know what kind of time it takes any woman to get ready or make it through the door, once prepared. Again, possibilities are always there, since she didn't originally specify what times she would not take appointments, the after 4:00pm outcalls, leaves it open-ended and not inappropriate to ask. You never know, her original 1:30am appt. may have just cancelled and she's burnt out on crappy late-night television. Although he may have a very slim chance of pulling this off, we all know that it surely isn't out of the question, and I doubt he meant any disrespect by sending the inquiry. On the flipside, I wouldn't want to ask any woman to be out and about, for any reason, at that hour. Unless I was there as her personal escort and bodyguard, of course! I too, am impressed by her change of attitude and modifying specifics in the showcase to help minimize future issues. No more hostility folks... Lets just all get along...

What part do u guys not understand? She isnt bitching about getting the pm late at night. She is upset that a guy would ask to see her within an hour at 1am ! Like we are all awake just waiting for a 1am booking with just an hour or less heads up for screening and preparing... when her hours are clearly stated on her site that she is not available at that hour. She isnt upset that she got a pm or email at that time.. its the fact that the idiot expected her to be sitting there ready to drop everything and see him in less than an hour. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE ACTUAL PM. I get PMs all the time late at night, usually because thats the only time a guy can get away from the SO. Its the point that he wanted to book for that hour! Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

Yeah, what she said.......

Thank you, Lacy!!! Hayden and Lacy understand my point perfectly. I think we should hhave a girls night out, do dinner and dancing or something. I could use a company of good girlfriends. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Samantha, anytime....well, within my posted business hrs....lol jk

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