I appreciate a person's right to chose. But as an AA client, I do appreciate some notice on the ad. "No black men", etc. That saves me the trouble of contacting a provider that doesn't want to see me. Originally Posted by wmnizer122Regardless of is it right or wrong for ladies to place "No black men" in their ads, this is the correct way to respond to it. Its an adult reply and I continue to shake my head and ponder why anyone would continue to contact a lady who clearly states that she doesn't want to see him for whatever reason (race in this case). Well done sir.
A business chooses to refuse service for numerous reasons. I would refuse service to a guy for numerous reasons, if I saw funky spots on his dick, a terrible B.O. problem that wasn't solved with a good shower, etc.I have been refused service due to being overweight (which I have never hidden from anyone), for being younger (another thing about me I've never hidden from anyone), or because I am a mod. I would rather be told ASAP so that I can say thank you and move on. I don't hold hate towards anyone who is upfront and simply just tells me instead of waiting until I'm at the door, which has happened a couple of times ( Once she didn't realize I was 30, I look a little bit younger and she said she never sees anyone under 40, the other said I was simply to big and fat which is the story I told earlier in this thread).
I asked this question and no one has yet to answer it......
Why does anyone else care who a lady chooses to see? Some ladies don't see heavily overweight men, younger guys, older guys, etc. and I don't see posts about those choices. Originally Posted by MsElena
Btw those choices arn't posted because it isn't considered taboo to exclude these individuals. Most don't want to see overweight folks in the mall let alone naked on top of them. When something happens to an overweight person the typical reply is "stop eatting so much fatass", not that sucks he can't control his skin color.
Younger is a safety issue, so I have heard. I have been told younger guys tend to be rude, think they are better than they actually are at sex, and aren't as experienced. Also some ladies are younger and they feel that if they see a younger client it hits too close to home.
Seeing an older gents puts a barrier between them where feelings are far more difficult to develop. Older guys, I am guessing 65 plus or so, it could be a safety issue and I have heard ladies discuss how older gents show up, have trouble getting it up/keeping it up and sessions end badly with disappointment.
The problem with the hobby is that most pimps are black. Pimps have been known to attempt to see ladies as clients, then strong arm them, or try to hussle/sweet talk them into coming to work for them. If that doesn't work they may move on to more aggressive measures in an attempt to either force the lady into service, or force her to leave the area/business so that it removes a business threat, but not always. The few typically do ruin it for the many, it has always been that way and will remain that way until the end of humankind.
I am not saying ALL black clients are pimps, just that the majority of pimps (at least 51%) are black. Perception is reality, and sometimes its harder to change perception than reality.
Originally Posted by MsElena
