What if anything could provoke you into taking your own life?.

I knew you had a soft spot in there. My apologies Becky for veeerrring this off course.

LOL, okiedokie deal.
I apologize to any ladies I may have offended in this thread or any others , (that includs Mr Giz, TRich and most of all you artman!).

The rest of you hard weenies will just have to take what ya dish out! Those three gents is all I will make an exception for! (They're on meds! So lets be gentle) Originally Posted by WTF

Don't listen to Ans or atl, they're from Atlanta you know!

WK= Wiley Knockers

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=wiley

Don't listen to Ans or atl, they're from Atlanta you know! Originally Posted by WTF

Yea we are! You should come visit and let us take you out.

Yea we are! You should come visit and let us take you out. Originally Posted by Ansley

Go out in the Atl....why don't we all go pick up up tar balls on Florida's beaches!



Good job artman! Beer and first lap dance is on my dime. Hell even our titty bars are smoke free.

WTF
Get that crap out of your sig line!

WK stands for White Knight. Which is kind of like a kiss ass. Ya know that thing we have been accused of.



Once again they are moving those smiles around. Originally Posted by Ansley

I know! I’ll finally find a smiley face that I really like and then one day , poof, it’s gone! Like your sass-a-frassing mad face isn't on the list now!

I know! I’ll finally find a smiley face that I really like and then one day , poof, it’s gone! Like your sass-a-frassing mad face isn't on the list now! Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Yea it is. Look at the bottom left corner of the smilie display box. Click on 'more' and that mad man is there. How far you have to scroll down is beyond me. I don't remember because thay keep moving them around.

WK stands for White Knight. Which is kind of like a kiss ass. Ya know that thing we have been accused of.

Originally Posted by Ansley

Oh no, and here I thought I was being accused of something real nasty, and uncalled for lol

On a serious note...check out "Stumbling on Happiness''. It talks about death of loved ones and how we precieve we will act and how we actually do.

I think you will like it Becky

http://www.randomhouse.com/kvpa/gilbert/


What would you do right now if you learned that you were going to die in ten minutes? Would you race upstairs and light that Marlboro you've been hiding in your sock drawer since the Ford administration? Would you waltz into your boss's office and present him with a detailed description of his personal defects? Would you drive out to that steakhouse near the new mall and order a T-bone, medium rare, with an extra side of the really bad cholesterol? Hard to say, of course, but of all the things you might do in your final ten minutes, it's a pretty safe bet that few of them are things you actually did today...............

. Originally Posted by WTF

My first thought was I would want to hug my dog for my final minutes, because that is the way I would want to feel as I left this world.The sad part is it will most likely be the other way around when the time comes, and that thought does break my heart.

I do agree with the idea of the book( or, at least from the small part that I read) that we spend so much time planning for the future we forget to live in the present.It is good to soak up as much time as you can with the people , and animals who are important to you , and not put things off to a time when they are no longer there.

It does look like a cool book to read.

I knew you had a soft spot in there. My apologies Becky for veeerrring this off course. Originally Posted by Sa_artman

No need to apologise, going off course is the norm around here ,but thank youI promise not to send Edward after your cat

WTF
Get that crap out of your sig line! Originally Posted by John Bull

LOL....OK Mr Bull but Sa_artman asked me to put it in there!

Your new tag should be "fucn chit, Ima moron". Originally Posted by Sa_artman

I'll take it out but only because we are politically aliened!

No need to apologise, going off course is the norm around here ,but thank youI promise not to send Edward after your cat Originally Posted by Becky

I don't know Becky....that cat gotta go! Come on artman, ditch the cat. I'll buy us another 12 pac.

I don't know Becky....that cat gotta go! Come on artman, ditch the cat. I'll buy us another 12 pac. Originally Posted by WTF

I promised not to send Ed after him, but Ed can have a mind of his own lol. Edward did not earn his nickname Dr K by sitting around sniffing the flowers.

I don't know Becky....that cat gotta go! Come on artman, ditch the cat. I'll buy us another 12 pac. Originally Posted by WTF

I'm a dog person, but I have an affinity for pussies...and who doesn't love a pussy with headphones. I even found one for you WTF...



It's time for us to break out the keg J Bull the love is free flowing

Ah, the love!

I liked it better when they were at each others throat.

Wading through the pages to find out if the thread got unhijacked. So let me try.

About a month ago a received an email from the daughter of a Sugar Baby I had met just once in December. She was advising those in the address book of her mom, that her mom was going, inferring she had taken her life. I was shocked and in tears and really had a hard time hiding it.

her mom had messaged me about a month earlier saying a bullet would take car of things. I told the mom that it was selfish and would devastate her daughter (daughter lived down south she was up in Long Island), and some other reasons not to. She emailed later and said thanks. It did concern me that it was an outright call for help. With distance and other factors, direct or indirect help wasn't viable. Obviously, I should have made it viable.

Another Sugarbaby I mentioned it to (actually haven't slept with her, everything has been via email and we may never hook up but we get along) who said don't take it for face value (the message from the daughter). I inquired a few more times with the daughter. I don't think she know about the sugardaddy/sugarbaby thing, including the website we met on. It may have opened her eyes more than she wanted. I did ask what happened in one email but didn't hear specifics.

ironically today the daughter emails me about a guy the mom knew who is texting and emailing really harsh cruel stuff. The daughter didn't want to disable the phone (to remember the mom) but this schmuk was really upsetting her. I knew the mom had met a few not nice people and said as much. But I also said there are nice people out there, just like life in general.

So I know that was a bit long. It still has me thinking about the mom. Did I treat her right, did I push into further depression by not continuing a relationship. It just had and has me shaking my head.

As an FYI, my dad did himself in over 30 years ago. Manic depression and alcoholism made him tough to treat. He hit low and didn't come back up. Sad because he was a talented creative type. Ahh what could have been.

So Becky and Ed, it will take time. maybe a lot. If ya need a shoulder to lean on, you know the email.

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