BBW'S, OLD PROVIDERS, TS'S and JUST UGLY GIRLS

That's a stretch IMHO. Many hobbyists are married and frequent providers because of the lack of a commitment many times required, or at least wanted, in the non-provider world. Same with many non-married men who would rather just have a no-worry sexual encounter. Over the years I have been to many socials and parties where there are men who would have no problem hooking up in the non-provider world if they so desired.

With that said, I am totally against many of the statements of SL. But I certainly support his right to state them, no matter how much s**t he's getting himself into. Originally Posted by SpeedRacerXXX

Things are never the way they seem... stay tuned!

And he is a wonderful person. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Let's wait and count all the votes at the end of the thread!

[QUOTE=shayla84;1053930057]No sweetie were called thick lol thats how I am built smaller stomach wide hips with an ass, sadly I dont have the boobies I want some though some day lol hour glass.
And someone was right its not that you have a preference, and really I dont care what you like cause for one that doesnt like me 5 others do. But its how disrespectfully you flaunted it. And posting or pointing out certain people as examples or what have you and degrading them is a poor lack of character, you could have gotten your points across in a respectful manner and gotten the same postive results with out all the negitive, unless like I said before, you were trying to get a rise going.
And I agree the girl up to is nicer, my point Was hes talking about others being big or thick but hes posting girls that are thick.
After this I am done, because this thread as people call it doesnt have shit to do with me cause I dont care what anyone thinks about me when it comes to how my body is...

Its no secret so I will just say it, I have had 6 kids, I have hardly any stretch marks, I do however have a little bit of some love handles, but I think I look pretty damn good for having 6 kids since the year 2002, so I am gonna tute my own horn, lol and all the other ladies should too. looks fade and so will peoples bodies, shit points south sooner or later, people get old, but the way people are and personalities stay the same forever. Maybe thats why you have to do this SL, because your so super fical.[/QUOTE]

State my preferences? You call it what you want I guess. I thinck "super fical" is one word: Superficial.

In between taking shots at me... perhaps some of you "ladies" can clarify a few things for us guys. Or at least for me anyway. (Not you Lilly, you don't qualify I don't thinck!)

BBW: What does it stand for? I always thought BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. But then I have read BIG BONED WOMAN and BIG BUTT WOMAN as well.

Is there a minimum weight to be a BBW?

Are Curvy, Voluptuous, Athletic and Thick used in place of BBW?

If a provider is 200-250 LBS. can that be Curvy and at what weight are you automatically a BBW? It's kind of confusing when a lady who weighs 130 LBS. says she is Curvy and one at 200-250 does the same.

After you guys help me / us with this, I might have to change my preferences. Because I see many providers in the 130-150 range. But I have never considered them BBW'S. So when does Curvy stop and BBW take over?

Its no secret so I will just say it, I have had 6 kids, I have hardly any stretch marks, I do however have a little bit of some love handles, but I think I look pretty damn good for having 6 kids since the year 2002, so I am gonna tute my own horn, lol and all the other ladies should too. looks fade and so will peoples bodies, shit points south sooner or later, people get old, but the way people are and personalities stay the same forever. Maybe thats why you have to do this SL, because your so super fical. Originally Posted by shayla84

People's personalities do NOT stay the same forever. This is a fallacy.
Personalities are constantly changing over time. Why do you think people divorce after being together for so long and find out, "they weren't the same person when I met them?".
The change may be gradual and then punctuated when certain life events occur. People's perception of their own change his highly skewed, which makes sense because they have a rather large bias.lol!
Sorry your argument seems to be assholes, will always act like assholes with no hope of change. Why do you want to believe that?
I have a few suppositions, but I'll keep them to myself.

I also feel like this business is based on superficiality. On some level the person must be superficially attracted to what they see or maybe they have quite an imagination..

But keeping business would be based on looks and personality. But I sincerely doubt people will want to extend themselves to others they don't find attractive.
Those are usually called friends.
Last time I checked I don't pay my friends by the hour

People's personalities do NOT stay the same forever. This is a fallacy.
Personalities are constantly changing over time. Why do you think people divorce after being together for so long and find out, "they weren't the same person when I met them?".
The change may be gradual and then punctuated when certain life events occur. People's perception of their own change his highly skewed, which makes sense because they have a rather large bias.lol!
Sorry your argument seems to be assholes, will always act like assholes with no hope of change. Why do you want to believe that?
I have a few suppositions, but I'll keep them to myself.

I also feel like this business is based on superficiality. On some level the person must be superficially attracted to what they see or maybe they have quite an imagination..

But keeping business would be based on looks and personality. But I sincerely doubt people will want to extend themselves to others they don't find attractive.
Those are usually called friends.
Last time I checked I don't pay my friends by the hour Originally Posted by expresso

Well said sir! Most people change significantly every 3-5 years. I'll give a few examples. Ladies... are you the same at 15 as you are at 20? I thinck not. How about 20-25? Many things change in peoples lives. In some cases it changes how they look at everything and the importance they place on things. In the hobby world while there are older providers many start out in there 20's & 30's and move on to newer and better things. I'm sure many will look back at their hobby experience with different opinions as to how that effected their lives.

Just my opinion, but I think people do change. I have seen and met many people who have had many a challenge from abuse, to drug addiction, homelessness, sickness, being criminals, broken families and god knows what. I have witnessed them get up after being knocked down, dust themselves off and make a new life for themselves. We all deserve second chances in life. Some of us even three or four.

My eyes hurt, I am getting a headache from all the spelling errors alone ... not to mention that I do not get some of it due to that fact alone ...

Or may be:
Me eares herd, I am nutting a hattrick from all the spiller arrows all done ... nut to motion that I do not got sum of it do in the fact all done

Good points, expresso. It's all psychological. ;-)

My eyes hurt, I am getting a headache from all the spelling errors alone ... not to mention that I do not get some of it due to that fact alone ...

Or may be:
Me eares herd, I am nutting a hattrick from all the spiller arrows all done ... nut to motion that I do not got sum of it do in the fact all done Originally Posted by fun2come

Time for a Scotch and a little nap? Works for me!

Instead of bbw..I like to say hourglass with with extra minutes :-)

If a provider is 200-250 LBS. can that be Curvy and at what weight are you automatically a BBW? It's kind of confusing when a lady who weighs 130 LBS. says she is Curvy and one at 200-250 does the same. Originally Posted by Still Looking

One of my favorite local fuck buddies likes to talk about his big cock and he's probably 5.5". I don't correct him because I like what he does with it and it more than suits my needs. Some girls are chubby at 130lbs others are a bag of bones. Most labels aren't really important so long as pictures are recent and you aren't being misleading with the ones you do select, i.e. being a TS provider and hiding it in marketing. Besides, most of the labels that are inaccurately used are outed by the user pretty easily, i.e. it ain't easy to fake being classy, educated, low-drama, etc.

Instead of bbw..I like to say hourglass with with extra minutes :-) Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

Excellent euphemism for a classic cliche! ;-)

In between taking shots at me... perhaps some of you "ladies" can clarify a few things for us guys. Or at least for me anyway. (Not you Lilly, you don't qualify I don't thinck!)

BBW: What does it stand for? I always thought BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. But then I have read BIG BONED WOMAN and BIG BUTT WOMAN as well.

Is there a minimum weight to be a BBW?

Are Curvy, Voluptuous, Athletic and Thick used in place of BBW?

If a provider is 200-250 LBS. can that be Curvy and at what weight are you automatically a BBW? It's kind of confusing when a lady who weighs 130 LBS. says she is Curvy and one at 200-250 does the same.

After you guys help me / us with this, I might have to change my preferences. Because I see many providers in the 130-150 range. But I have never considered them BBW'S. So when does Curvy stop and BBW take over?

Originally Posted by Still Looking

BIG BROAD WOMAN!!! BUT KNOW ITS CURVY!!! NO MATTER HOW YOU SLICE IT, ITS STILL FAT AT THE END OF THE DAY!!!!!


Rocker

Instead of bbw..I like to say hourglass with with extra minutes :-) Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

hmmm. guess it depends if the extra minutes are at the top of the hour , or at the bottom of the hour?

One of my favorite local fuck buddies likes to talk about his big cock and he's probably 5.5". I don't correct him because I like what he does with it and it more than suits my needs. Some girls are chubby at 130lbs others are a bag of bones. Most labels aren't really important so long as pictures are recent and you aren't being misleading with the ones you do select, i.e. being a TS provider and hiding it in marketing. Besides, most of the labels that are inaccurately used are outed by the user pretty easily, i.e. it ain't easy to fake being classy, educated, low-drama, etc. Originally Posted by JennsLolli

what do you mean 5.5" aint a big cock
thats fuckin HUGE!!