Whats the right thing to do when providers photos are way out dated

Psssst... Sam. There's someone behind you in your showcase.

What's the appropriate action if the providers photos are like 20+ pounds over weight? Is it appropriate to 1. Leave for not being what you said you were. 2. Negotiate new amt since you don't look like your add. Is it okay for some of them to do this? Not all providers do this and some are gems even though they have quite a few pounds extra on board. I like having hotter than what I have available, and even a better experience which I can use by reviews. Sometimes I find people not being honest about the appearance of the provider.

Does anyone feel that their should be accurate photos? Especially if they are pricy.

Obviously bait and switch does not apply here. Originally Posted by Texxx1

If you do your homework, you rarely have to worry about this happening ...

But, don't rely on Reviews alone ... lots of guys on here are so horny it makes them nearsighted ... like raving about that pudgy Thai girl saying how much she looks like a hot pornstar ... SMH. I rarely visit if I don't see any face pics, regardless of the Reviews.

Leave ... that's the simple answer. All you have to do is say ... "Sorry, I think I made a mistake" ... and jet.

^^^ Well said hon. And usually the most photo shopped are the ones that yell the loudest about others when they look nothing like their photos once the makeup, weave, injections, fake nails, fake tan, eyelashes and painted eyebrows come off. (We won't even start on the bad boob job).

The gents don't take into consideration what we may have to stomach when we see you. Where our minds have to go and just "why" you aren't getting the eye contact you desire. At least with us you get an idea of what you're getting. Many gents want to be mind fucked and that's not always realistic. Stroking an Ego and great IOP okay but, damn; everyone has limits. Most people physically change over time, some for the better, some for the worse. Stuffing your face with food, booze and whatever else people choose as an excuse for "their choice in Lifestyle" is just that, an excuse. So, look at yourself before you openly judge others.

Ladies, we do have a responsibility as Providers to maintain our showcases, we are running a Business. There is someone for everyone around here. Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

Many black guys work out, and tend to look better naked.

But you wouldn't know anything about that.

Exactly.

And part of the fantasy IMO is that we represent in person the image we sell on our showcases/ads.
In my case I have never rep the "basic bitch look" aka the *natural look*.
Clients pay me $300 an hour of course I'm going to make sure that my make up it's on point, I don't know about no weave though, but I make sure my hair is done, mani, pedi, soft glowing skin just like I showcase it and of course impeccable hygiene.
I honestly see that just as part of my job, and I enjoy getting ready for my dates.
And clients appreciate that, most of them already have the "natural look" aka *lazy house wife who stopped trying* at home, I doubt they care of how we look when we rolled out of bed, they care of how you look when they come to see you and look forward to see someone who they know took their time to get ready for them, at least in my case.

Now I'm actually low volume and can take my time to this every time. I guess for some high volume whores who have to take 5 dicks + at them disgusting, cheap ass motels on the daily to make their numbers, that may not be an option for them time wise or they just simply straight up lazy...
There also can be an age issue in some cases, when you get to that point in life, where, age, and your bad habits just catch up with you and no matter how much you work out your old tired whoring ass, no amount of make up, fake nails, hair or eyelashes can help you hide or play off them damn wrinkles that showed up on your face and are there to stay and just get worse. And every time you smile in the mirror and see those wrinkles you wonder why can't you just stop going to Spec's and start saving for those Botox injections you've been thinking about?
But then it hits you again... *Too late for that too* and go back to sip your bottle...


AnywhoooooO this is starting to become a good thread, but for now...




Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

Beautiful and eloquently stated post.

Many black guys work out, and tend to look better naked.

But you wouldn't know anything about that. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

You coming out the closet?

•How many Naked black guys have you seen?

Mmmmm bumping a thread that was already on the second page..

Originally Posted by Azebella_amor

Heh. Fine and funny.

Well, I guess I'll have to spend an hour convincing you of my...orientation, one day, no?

The gents don't take into consideration what we may have to stomach when we see you. Where our minds have to go and just "why" you aren't getting the eye contact you desire. Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

That's the case with any PROFESSION involving a "service" business, which most PROFESSIONS involve. We take them they way they "come into the door" .... as the case may be. If you don't want the money from certain "types" of "customers" advertise your "standards" and enforce them so there will be no misunderstanding by a discriminatory or arbitrary selection based on the $$$$. If I need to give you a factual scenario, let me know!

Heh. Fine and funny.

Well, I guess I'll have to spend an hour convincing you of my...orientation, one day, no? Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Creed .. explain to the "lady" one does not have to see someone naked to understand they take care of their body. Although I do "appreciate" her lack of imagination.