I Can't Go For That (No Can Do) - Dinner Edition

Hey can you guys stay on topic and take personal gripes elsewhere. This topic is interesting. Originally Posted by Sonya

Thanks, Sonya.

So...do you think that being paid a nominal fee for the dinner portion of the date might help to keep things on a more professional level?

Lol. WU with the no regard for human life goods. I'll be dam if I pay someone to eat with me. I'd be like Jim Carey in Liar Liar and start kicking my own ass. Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

Hey babe! I took the day off, wanna grab lunch? I'm thinking seafood, I'm starving

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Thanks, Sonya.

So...do you think that being paid a nominal fee for the dinner portion of the date might help to keep things on a more professional level? Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Yes i think it has to. Perhaps at a lower rate. Unless you want to foster hope for more. Its like the foot rub analogy in pulp fiction.

Lol. I just have a guy a foot rub the other day because he had something I needed. Worked like a charm...

LM69 said: Truth be told, I think $500 for a dinner date that includes 3 hour dinner and 2 hour "dessert" seems fair. How's that different than just paying $250 an hour BCD? I mean sometimes it might turn out to be 4/1. Or 2.5/2.5 or 2/3 or even an overnighter ... Sometimes you're getting a bargain...sometimes you're overpaying a bit...but I don't fault either side when it comes down to essentially $100/hr if it results in a happy ending.

I fixed that for you. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Almost forgot to comment on your fix. That's completely correct. Many times it will just naturally to into the night or to morning.

I assuming many providers would think they should get paid for the extra time. I don't. I think you chose to stay...it was fun...it was good ratio ship building. But does that blue the lines? Cross boundaries?

I'm the first to admit that I'm not great with boundaries. I tend to form very intense connections with people it like quite quickly.

I'm just curious to see where the line is for people. If you stay the night and don't get paid more, does that make it a social date?

Hey babe! I took the day off, wanna grab lunch? I'm thinking seafood, I'm starving Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

Hey lover and friend you're so sweet. We better shoot for dinner I just love me some spicy tuna sushi especially the latina kind.

Just fyi - this will be my next attempt. I'm warming up the vocal cords.

Would it be possible for the two of you to get a room?


Unless you'd like to share the financial and social ramifications of the two of you sharing a meal together...

Almost forgot to comment on your fix. That's completely correct. Many times it will just naturally to into the night or to morning.

I assuming many providers would think they should get paid for the extra time. I don't. I think you chose to stay...it was fun...it was good ratio ship building. But does that blue the lines? Cross boundaries?

I'm the first to admit that I'm not great with boundaries. I tend to form very intense connections with people it like quite quickly.

I'm just curious to see where the line is for people. If you stay the night and don't get paid more, does that make it a social date? Originally Posted by LilMynx69

If she stays the night for fun off the clock than normal hobby lines were crossed but hey shit happens.

Would it be possible for the two of you to get a room?


Unless you'd like to share the financial and social ramifications of the two of you sharing a meal together...

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

That's not going to happen. One handle is too busy hyping the other one.

Yes or no...
Which of you ladies would be receptive to a couple of hours BCD and dinner after.
Just a yes or no is all that is required.

Yes

Would it be possible for the two of you to get a room?


Unless you'd like to share the financial and social ramifications of the two of you sharing a meal together...

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Sure! But no room will be involved this time, you've inspired me for an off the clock meal, thanx hon!

Enjoy! Had drinks with one of my favorite hobbyists at Trulucks just yesterday. Of the clock of course...

Yes or no...
Which of you ladies would be receptive to a couple of hours BCD and dinner after.
Just a yes or no is all that is required. Originally Posted by tucson

Most definitely!

Enjoy! Had drinks with one of my favorite hobbyists at Trulucks just yesterday. Of the clock of course... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

LilMynx, aren't you always off the clock?

Or, off the rocker?