Providers and their S.O.'s

If I was worried about adultery I think I would need to find a different hobby! Originally Posted by BusyLiving

I might be really weird and alone on this one; I know i'm a bit odd. But for some reason, the idea of being responsible for possibly screwing up someone else's marriage is a real turn-off for me.

Maybe it's because I've had too many friends get divorced because of cheating spouses, so it hits close to home for me - I've seen (and nursed some of 'em through) the fallout that sometimes ensues...especially when kids are involved.

I guess I just don't want to knowingly be responsible for that kind of heartache.

Is that dumb? Maybe, but it seems to be the way I'm wired.

Good thread Sonya!

I might be really weird and alone on this one; I know i'm a bit odd. But for some reason, the idea of being responsible for possibly screwing up someone else's marriage is a real turn-off for me.


I guess I just don't want to knowingly be responsible for that kind of heartache.
Originally Posted by fragtasticator

I wholeheartedly agree with this statement and it is by far what troubled me (and still does trouble me) the most about my job when I first got in this industry, not only that I could be breaking up a marriage, but also that I would get the good 'ole "what goes around comes around" and I myself would never be able to get married to a man that would be faithful to me.

After dozens of hours of thinking about it I just had to tell myself that I am not the one that made promises to anyone else. I was not married nor lying to my husband so the "lie" was not coming from me.

I also came to realize that I do not solicit these men. All I do is place an ad and put up my website, if they decide to contact me, it's 100% by their own doing. I never send text messages or emails to anyone, I don't PM random guys asking for a date, so I feel secure in knowing I am not pressuring anyone to do something that they were not already going to do.

And finally, after years in this business my outlook has shifted quite a bit, I now feel compassion and empathy for what many of these married men live with day in and day out. No passion, kisses, sex or oral sex from their wife. No intimacy what-so-ever. It's really heart breaking and it is the reason years ago I decided I want to get my PHD and specialize in martial counseling and sexual therapy for women.

Brooke there are others of us that would be lonely as hell with out you ladies that make our lives more vibrant. I was married faithfully for nearly 50 good years. After my wife passed my daughter told me to do some thing with my life. I have met mostly wonderful ladies on here and I am living my second childhood. I just returned from a fantastic party in Killeen with bunches of friendly women.

No passion, kisses, sex or oral sex from their wife. Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

I have consistently said that wives could severely damage the providers' books of business with a weekly hot sex session and a monthly enthusiastic blow job. Unfortunately most American wives stop sucking immediately after saying I do and loose interest in sex almost completely after having a kid. At that point even the good guys have to make a choice between being sexless or nearly sexless during the best years of their lives, leaving their kids, or cheating through affairs or providers. (My opinion that the dumb and the poor have civi affairs, where your chances of getting caught go way up, and the smart see escorts, where you pay them to go away and keep quiet.)

Don't feel guilty girls...very few guys are going pick the sexless option.

I have consistently said that wives could severely damage the providers' books of business with a weekly hot sex session and a monthly enthusiastic blow job. Unfortunately most American wives stop sucking immediately after saying I do and loose interest in sex almost completely after having a kid. At that point even the good guys have to make a choice between being sexless or nearly sexless during the best years of their lives, leaving their kids, or cheating through affairs or providers. (My opinion that the dumb and the poor have civi affairs, where your chances of getting caught go way up, and the smart see escorts, where you pay them to go away and keep quiet.)

Don't feel guilty girls...very few guys are going pick the sexless option. Originally Posted by kingforaday

+1

Marriage is a useless institution...

Marriage is a useless institution... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Incorrect........I prefer fucking married women.......ijs

Marriage is a useless institution... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Nope - I have had more married women fuck my brains out..purely out of revenge from their husbands cheating...

Incorrect........I prefer fucking married women.......ijs Originally Posted by dearhunter

Agreed - marriage leads to divorce..which leads to the creation of more girls wanting to have meaning-less sex...and there's always some tard there waiting with his dick in one hand and a credit card in the other...

I think providers save more marriages than marriage counselors.

Fucking married woman is the best. I know I am going to hell but fuck, It's not like I am out there seducing them and talking them into going to poundtown with me. Obviously they were going to suck some guys dick so why not mine?

But yeah my first experience was when I was 19 (5 years ago) and ran into a mature woman 36 years old. Husband worked the night shift for a construction company (they worked on airports) and I would come over there and absolutely destroy that shit. Was always a little exciting that while her husband was up there jackhammering concrete, some 19 year old was jackhammering his wife.

Truth be told, if karma exist, I will probably get married one day and walk in on jamal and the boys having a mandingo party with my wife

Fucking married woman is the best. I know I am going to hell but fuck, It's not like I am out there seducing them and talking them into going to poundtown with me. Obviously they were going to suck some guys dick so why not mine?

But yeah my first experience was when I was 19 (5 years ago) and ran into a mature woman 36 years old. Husband worked the night shift for a construction company (they worked on airports) and I would come over there and absolutely destroy that shit. Was always a little exciting that while her husband was up there jackhammering concrete, some 19 year old was jackhammering his wife.

Truth be told, if karma exist, I will probably get married one day and walk in on jamal and the boys having a mandingo party with my wife Originally Posted by PipelinerTx

I like your sense of humor...and if you do ever walk in on your wife getting triple penetrated by the Mandingo Team...you're just going to have to chuckle and say.."aaah well this is my payback for f-ing that dudes wife back in the day"...

P.S. you're lucky that guy never got off early from work...My cousin (who's Italian) walked in on his wife getting nailed by some Puerto Rican guy...beat the shit out of him and cracked 3 vertebre in the guys neck. Puerto Rican never walked again and my cousin got 10 years but he got out in 5. True story...

Fucking married woman is the best. I know I am going to hell but fuck, It's not like I am out there seducing them and talking them into going to poundtown with me. Obviously they were going to suck some guys dick so why not mine?

But yeah my first experience was when I was 19 (5 years ago) and ran into a mature woman 36 years old. Husband worked the night shift for a construction company (they worked on airports) and I would come over there and absolutely destroy that shit. Was always a little exciting that while her husband was up there jackhammering concrete, some 19 year old was jackhammering his wife.

Truth be told, if karma exist, I will probably get married one day and walk in on jamal and the boys having a mandingo party with my wife Originally Posted by PipelinerTx

Too funny! If you're going to jackhammer someone's wife, make sure it's at your place or at least not at her home, good way to end up shot or like SNL's cousin & you're way to cute for that!




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Brooke there are others of us that would be lonely as hell with out you ladies that make our lives more vibrant. I was married faithfully for nearly 50 good years. After my wife passed my daughter told me to do some thing with my life. I have met mostly wonderful ladies on here and I am living my second childhood. I just returned from a fantastic party in Killeen with bunches of friendly women. Originally Posted by tucson

Tuscon is such a pussy cat.

and he is such a sweet cat!!