What can a provider or hobbyist say to turn you on or off?

Turn on is hearing "You've ruined me for other men" although it is starting to get old.

Turn off is listening to an egg timer count down (actually happened).

From a Provider, you don't want to hear:

1. I had beans for breakfast, so if you go down on me and.....
2. I don't swallow
3. I'll vomit if you cum in my mouth
4. You're good with me not having showered, right?
5. Hey babe..lemme go vomit up my lunch and I'll be ready.
6. Did I forget to flush my doodies?
7. If you wanna eat me it's still gonna taste a little funny
8. Don't touch my titties..they're really sensitive
9. Ewww..you just ate me and now you wanna kiss me!
10. Don't yell at my dog! He's just curious what your butt smells like!

Tara like Dougy
Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Dougy like Tara

Dougy like Tara Originally Posted by doug_dfw

Tara waiting for Drinks with Dougy

Off: DATY ok, but CBJ only.

Turn off: Calling me "Daddy" or telling me "You're so big/thick" (not in reference to my belly) Originally Posted by Von Spieler

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Von Spieler; I'm confused. Why would someone telling you you're big and thick be a turn off? Unless you think she's lying and just says that to everybody.

But if I see something that actually is big, or thick or both, I'm going to comment on it! For some reason, I've seen a lot more of that type since I've been in the hobby than in real life. But the main reason I mention it to them, is to let them know they are going to have to go slow, use lots of lube and be patient. My Va Jay Jay is NOT one size fits all.

Turn-Off: "I've never been with a colored girl before"

Turn-On: "What kind of flowers do you like?"

turn off - she asks, "Is it in?"

Turn offs:
Waiting until we're about to begin the session to tell me that it's $80 more than what was advertised and what was brought.

That's extra

ANYTHING about another client

ANYTHING about any other appointments you've had

Anything to remind me in person this is just a business transaction. All of the business part (other than me putting the fee on the counter) should have been done before meeting face to face.
That includes counting the money right in front of me. Total mood killer. If you've screened me it should not be an issue.

Fake moans and groans...I know I'm not satisfying you so don't go over the top with this.


Turn ons:
Pretending to be excited to talk to me in PM or in person. Just make it believable.

This might be one you didn't think of. When replying to a PM sometimes emotions or intent get lost in the words. Use emotes and exclamations and things like that...it makes a HUGE difference in how your reply sounds.
Example Yes, I'm free on Wednesday.
Or
Yes!! I'm free on Wednesday!
The 2nd one makes me think you're glad I contacted you.

Really listening to what I want in a session before we meet and then making it happen during the session.

A great greeting...hug, kiss, SMILE
A great goodbye, hug, kiss, SMILE....I know it's time to go, you've walked me to the door but make me think you'd like me to stay longer. I won't stay but it feels good and makes me leave with a GREAT feeling. I'll be thinking of when I can reschedule with you on the way home.


Oh last but not least...give a bbbj like a boss.


I could probably do pages of this.....

Listening to a provider talk about her boyfriend during a date.

Tara waiting for Drinks with Dougy Originally Posted by Tara Evans

on my way with a 6 pack of Budlight

on my way with a 6 pack of Budlight Originally Posted by doug_dfw

Sounds good to me. Bring some fresh limes.

This one pretty much killed my erection and led to my only "NO" review:

"I know my ads say BBBJ, but I'm only doing covered blowjobs this weekend."

My turn on is to hear her say I am into just about any thing.
My turn off is her saying You will like my new boobs.

Turn on - hearing her call me Daddy, come for me Daddy, her telling me she's been a bad little girl, etc.!
Hearing her and her acting like she is interested in seeing me and it's not too fake. Moaning, hearing heavy breathing, etc.

Turn off - Hearing anything about her next appointment, how much time is left, asking when I'll be done, hearing her yeast infection cleared up two days ago.