If I Wasn't Controversial... Who Would I Be?

Bcpl it was not that long ago that Dahlia defended you in another thread. Now you talk this way about her. WTF? btw I do have more but you are not worth it today.

Dahlia,

I'll always remember the wonderful times you and I have had. You're truly a diamond in the rough. Thanks for the great and fun times and may you find the happiness you seek.

N2

PS. (Just for the heck of it)----------God Bless You.

That's awesome. Anyways, I do not discriminate The more married, the better! Originally Posted by Gemma34

Crawl back under your rock troll. It's her decision, just like any other decision that any other provider has to make. Whatever makes her feel comfortable. It's not discrimination. Originally Posted by swarmyone

I'm wondering if I missed something here. Gemma has an opinion and I don't see where her opinion is critical of Dahlia...oh and not being a WK here, just stating an opinion.

I wonder if a guy who lives with and has children with a woman but never takes the step to make it legal would be considered married?

I wonder if a guy who lives with and has children with a woman but never takes the step to make it legal would be considered married? Originally Posted by malwoody

Quite a few states have laws related to, and define "common law marriage" so in those states they are.

I'm wondering if I missed something here. Gemma has an opinion and I don't see where her opinion is critical of Dahlia...oh and not being a WK here, just stating an opinion. Originally Posted by malwoody

Dude, nothing but respect for ya, but you got some blindfolds on if you can't see that. And no, really not interested in rehashing this thread, just couldn't help but comment on this.

Dude, nothing but respect for ya, but you got some blindfolds on if you can't see that. And no, really not interested in rehashing this thread, just couldn't help but comment on this. Originally Posted by JS42

Respect here as well.

I just don't see how Gemmas initial comment was in any way disrespectful. Dahlia is not going to see married guys and Gemma does and will.

Can somebody tell me what I missed..maybe I am going blind.

Quite a few states have laws related to, and define "common law marriage" so in those states they are. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

What if it is not in one of "those states" ?

Try page 3.

Try page 3. Originally Posted by JS42

Page 3 came after her initial comment. My focus is what is wrong with her initial comment and what prompted swarmyone to attack her based on her initial comment..yeah, I know things got quite contentious after that but I still don't see why the initial comment drew fire. If someone, anyone would explain why another provider can't have an opinion that differs from the provider who started the thread I will understand. Respectfully not trying to rehash anything, just looking for an answer.

Quite a few states have laws related to, and define "common law marriage" so in those states they are. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

Another reason to stay east of state line,

Dahlia, it's obviously your choice who you decide to see. And I support that. But why make a post about it? Were your wondering how people would feel about your choice? Why not just add this as a line in your ads /showcase?

What if it is not in one of "those states" ? Originally Posted by malwoody

Ignoring child support, which is covered regardless, in "non-states", when those relationships go south, attys sometimes get involved as well, and the drama and mudslinging can be more interesting. Thus, is there really a difference? Frankly, it's a karma thing to start with (and I sleep very well at night).

Dalia,
I've never had the pleasure of meeting you but I understand and respect your decision. Your original post explained everything well. You made your decision, and a lot of people support it. Those that don't, have plenty of other options!

Dahlia, it's obviously your choice who you decide to see. And I support that. But why make a post about it? Were your wondering how people would feel about your choice? Why not just add this as a line in your ads /showcase? Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

Plain and Simple...

Because that is what I Chose to do. This is my business, and I will run it any way I Choose.

If someone does not like the Choices I make, they are completely Free to put me on their ECCIE Ignore List OR simply just Stop reading any/all of my posts, ads, website, Blog or anything else that I put up on the 'ol world wide web (internet).

I have added this information to ALL of my ads, website and Blog so there should be NO reason that someone could say they were not aware of my decision to stop seeing married men.

Thank you to All of you who understand the Journey of Life, Free Will to make my own Choices and all of its Value.