Hmmm... I guess we 'hobby' (hate that term) differently I personally, would rather pay the rate asked instead of nickel and diming her. After all if I like her I would like her to be excited to see me, not just wanting to get it over with because she needs the money. Maybe, the ladies I've met were hard asses, I doubt it, but let's assume they were. If I started nickel and dining them they'd boot my happy ass out the door, ladies charge what they feel like their times worth, undercutting that seems disrespectful.
Originally Posted by RodTidweLL
Ladies charge you
WHATEVER YOU WILL PAY...I've heard it time and again..."he gave me this much, and I'm not going to say no...." But THANK YOU GUYS for always paying rack rate and more. It makes it financially viable for them to say "Sure I'd like to come hang out if you make me a Bologna Sammie, I've already got the rent covered".
There is no disrespect in saying "Hey I'd like to see you but my max rate I pay is $___, no harm no foul if you can't do that"...