Donations BEFORE or AFTER The Session..

I do not have to worry about you performing (bringing you A game to every session)? Well, that is like going to a strip club and one of the dancers sits with you, and then suggests a lap dance, when you are not sure or say no, then she says, "I am very good and do not have any complaints". What else would you say? ALL providers can talk a good game cuz they want that money, but not ALL can or refuse to perform well when it comes to BCD activities. History shows that is a well documented fact!

So is it my fault that after research, I set an appointment with a provider, get ready, drive all the way across town (at least 45 minutes one way) and after I get to the area I was told to drive to, she goes radio silent on me? Is it my fault after contacting and she sets an appointment, again wanting that money, but knowing full well that their personal problems or whatever else will negatively effect they way they do a session? Give me a break!

I never said ALL providers bullshit nor ALL hobbyists play providers. I think you and I need to agree to disagree. Originally Posted by davidfree986

Yes we do need to agree to disagree because first off.. Why u cant go to providers in your area? U took it upon yourself to drive 45Mins. ITS A WELL DOCUMENTED FACT THAT HOBBYIST MAKE FUCKED UP CHOICES WHEN IT COMES TO PROVIDERS

I myself always donate up front. I honestly thought that was the protocol.

I think it is much easier for a man to walk out after and not pay. then a women preform bad and get blasted on here behind close doors. ( which happens a lot ) I see this as their territory, we play by their rules even though we may not agree to them... and there is a lot I don't care for.
But if you have a lady that allows to pay afterwards that is her choice.. but do not get bent out of shape when another lady says pay upfront. At that point if the session is no good she gets bad review, and lets be honest 50 good reviews and one bad review...she will lose clients.


Be Safe

I myself always donate up front. I honestly thought that was the protocol.

I think it is much easier for a man to walk out after and not pay. then a women preform bad and get blasted on here behind close doors. ( which happens a lot ) I see this as their territory, we play by their rules even though we may not agree to them... and there is a lot I don't care for.
But if you have a lady that allows to pay afterwards that is her choice.. but do not get bent out of shape when another lady says pay upfront. At that point if the session is no good she gets bad review, and lets be honest 50 good reviews and one bad review...she will lose clients.


Be Safe Originally Posted by ghost901

Exactly baby! I didn't think guys would actually trip about paying upfront. Some guys won't even see me after this lmao! Oh well

Hmm signature says more then any words.. lol

With someone I have never seen before, I tell them (before they even come in the door) to leave the roses on the desk and then get comfy. Otherwise it doesn't bother me before or after. Yes it is a business, but there is a reason I am considered the true GFE. It's all about the gent, the second he walks in my door. Donations (or asking for them) makes it too formal or business-like. And personally, I am there to have a great time. Different strokes for different folks I guess.

With someone I have never seen before, I tell them (before they even come in the door) to leave the roses on the desk and then get comfy. Otherwise it doesn't bother me before or after. Yes it is a business, but there is a reason I am considered the true GFE. It's all about the gent, the second he walks in my door. Donations (or asking for them) makes it too formal or business-like. And personally, I am there to have a great time. Different strokes for different folks I guess. Originally Posted by Sweet Taffy

If u were only here for a good time, u wouldn't ask for donations. U could b doing this for a good time but I promise you wouldn't "have a good time" without asking for a donations so back to what I was saying at first. Donations r the most important

I generally always lay the donation down when I get in the room, just so I don't forget when I leave which has happened and I had to go back with it.
However, hearing someone say I don't get wet until I get the money is one of the worst turn offs I have heard in my many years of the hobby. Bad saying for sure.
Sometimes I wonder how some of these people get on this site.

If u were only here for a good time, u wouldn't ask for donations. U could b doing this for a good time but I promise you wouldn't "have a good time" without asking for a donations so back to what I was saying at first. Donations r the most important Originally Posted by Nina_Love

While that is true and we all know the score in the hobby world, the ATF type of providers are the ones that the hobbyists they see BCD feel like they are more than wallets or next one up. You can think whatever you want, but at the very least, portraying to a hobbyist that sees you for a BCD session that he is the most important person in the world during the time he is with you is what is the best trait a provider can have IMO.

Even though it may be one of the biggest reasons why many providers started in the business, believe or not, there are plenty of ladies that do not feel the donation is the most important, but rather giving a quality session; if they thought like that, the donations would come with more frequency than the providers who make a guy feel as if he were nothing but a cash cow.

Obviously, you seem to be the kind of provider who makes a client feel like he is nothing but an ATM machine. Especially having the gall to tell other providers they are 100% wrong if they say it is okay for the client to pay after the session is over. So as I said, if you have to get the money upfront, you must not screen very well or your BCD sessions are not that good as you tell them it will be, both being big reasons, along with others, why a guy would not pay or short you.

Yea the signature does say a lot. For me it is stay away.

IMO the providers that demand the money first, are doing so because they are sub par and wouldn't be getting the repeat business anyway.

Hey Nina? Should we leave the donation before or after the session?

While that is true and we all know the score in the hobby world, the ATF type of providers are the ones that the hobbyists they see BCD feel like they are more than wallets or next one up. You can think whatever you want, but at the very least, portraying to a hobbyist that sees you for a BCD session that he is the most important person in the world during the time he is with you is what is the best trait a provider can have IMO.

Even though it may be one of the biggest reasons why many providers started in the business, believe or not, there are plenty of ladies that do not feel the donation is the most important, but rather giving a quality session; if they thought like that, the donations would come with more frequency than the providers who make a guy feel as if he were nothing but a cash cow.

Obviously, you seem to be the kind of provider who makes a client feel like he is nothing but an ATM machine. Especially having the gall to tell other providers they are 100% wrong if they say it is okay for the client to pay after the session is over. So as I said, if you have to get the money upfront, you must not screen very well or your BCD sessions are not that good as you tell them it will be, both being big reasons, along with others, why a guy would not pay or short you. Originally Posted by davidfree986

David honey u can say anything about my session until u try me. I have a few reviews. I know how to treat a man & having fun as well. Your trying to make it seem like I'm very rude when asking for donations. Hell most of the time my clients already know and happily put it on the dresser. Most of you guys are not going to agree & so be it. My business will & forever run the same & I dont see it slowing down one bit. Hey it is what it is. Those who visit me know what I'm capable of.

Hey Nina? Should we leave the donation before or after the session? Originally Posted by L.A.

I'm Not Going To Speak For Every Woman But if You Want To Come Me You Absolutely Have To Leave The Donations First. Period Point Blank . No Exceptions.

I'm Not Going To Speak For Every Woman But if You Want To Come Me You Absolutely Have To Leave The Donations First. Period Point Blank . No Exceptions. Originally Posted by Nina_Love

Oh OK...I wasn't sure.....you've only said it about 300 times so far.

IMO the providers that demand the money first, are doing so because they are sub par and wouldn't be getting the repeat business anyway. Originally Posted by pink taco

Too Bad I Have Many Regulars. Speak for Yourself