Ripped off by a provider

No I'm not AA, but I am a child of the 60's &.70's where we were all brothers. So yeah, the term "brother" is just a figure of speech. And it's true, racism is alive and thriving here in the South and on this board. I was just commenting on the thief automatically said it was two black guys who jumped her. Is that supposed to make it more believable? The study of human nature sometimes amazes me as I watch it unfold here in these threads. Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

I was hoping that you were a brother so that you could use a different avatar, something along the lines of this:

I for one can say that I have met the OP twice in person, he's a sweetie, and respectful. SOME ladies would see him as an "easy mark". And I fear that is what happened with the lady in question, she contacted him,and sadly took him for a bill.
Fancy has been nothing but graceful, helpful,and full of love to not only the providers on the board but to the hobbyist as well. (All hail queenfancy)
I wish the best to the lady in question, but hope that the hobbyist will see that she is capable of causing drama,and the classic I need money but don't want to work for it scheme. Maybe she should go back to bp given her behavior. Considering that both the OP and '
Ms fancy have given there two cents and the lady has not responded speaks volumes. Originally Posted by nikkivikkisix

Sweetie....respectful....hmmmm the dreaded codewords used by women for a 'nice guy.' And we all know where they finish.

I am an animal lover.
And I grew up with a black lab in the house,
though I'm not quite ready to change my avatard just yet.
But I'll save this guy for later though.
my brotha from anotha motha.
Thanks MW.

I was hoping that you were a brother so that you could use a different avatar, something along the lines of this:
Originally Posted by Mexxxican Warrior

Phoenix Sky Phoenix Sky is offline
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Last Activity: Yesterday 08:06 PM
08/13/15
And still haven't heard "her side of the story"

Wait...Which non OP topic on we currently on?

Ms Brown thank you too. I have enjoyed our time immensely. Thank you for taking me to lunch the food was great and the conversation better. I said it before and I'll say it again. The good times I have had completely over shadowed that unfortunate incident. I will continue to hobby because of the good times. Thank you. Originally Posted by bon69

I am not sure how this alert about a thieving whore became a threAD about the "a whore needs to get paid so I will see a newbie right now" threAD.

I will say this about that threAD..........I am not sure where Fancy, the Houston modtards, and the retarded masses got the impression that they could set narrow parameters concerning who could post in that threAD (if they have that impression)........that threAD is in open forum and anyone may comment in a threAD in open forum........as long as they are on topic.

I have not posted in that threAD. Because, I do see the good info it provides and I CHOOSE not to wreck it. That in no way denies me the ability to wreck it if I choose to. You do not get to move the goal post.

I say this as an example to Fancy of exactly what PistolPete is trying to explain to her. His position as a modtard does not give him Tebow-Like status in determining who gets access to what. There is a process for that. Fancy gets no special Tebow-Like status in her threAD just because the local modtards look the other way in giving her the threAD.

If I want to post in the threAD, I will.........if a modtard wants to go to war over it, I will meet him in modtardville and enjoy the fuck out of that exchange.

I am not sure why you (Fancy) felt a need to make the comment about removing her from the list. To someone who does not know you is has the appearance of a power demonstration. You would have been better served to simply have removed her from the next update without comment. Now, that is not possible. Originally Posted by dearhunter

I never wanted to make any power play. I could not care less. I will add and leave any lady on the Houston Newbie-Friendly Provider List who is verified, but she must conform to the guidelines laid out in the thread since the beginning. Not scamming people wasn't one of them, so admittedly, I had no right to say a thing in the first place here. I was taken aback that this warning came out about someone who I thought was reputable, and worried about what it might do to the integrity of the list and how it may affect other providers on it. Excuse me for being concerned.

ANY gentleman can make a comment in there. I never said otherwise. Suggestions are also welcome from both fellows and ladies. However, just so I can check out the validity of providers actually BEING newbie-friendly and NOT using the thread as an additional advertising tool undeservedly, I have indicated that ladies should send info to me first before they are added to the carnal compendium, and that commenting there does not mean they are automatically included.

(And yes, I simply should have stayed mum and just dropped she-who-may-or-may-not-be-getting-maligned from the HNFPL as I have others for various reasons of non-conformity. I admit my stupidity in being so transparent and thinking out loud, and I appreciate DH and other gents for not wrecking what is and can still be a valuable research aid to newbies. Coed is a better arena for debate, anyway.)

At any rate...

Phoenix Sky Phoenix Sky is offline
GreenEyedGoddess-GFE/PSE
Last Activity: Yesterday 08:06 PM
08/13/15
And still haven't heard "her side of the story"
Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

THIS is on topic. Nothing else matters now. As Spice Hippo mentioned, since the OP actually DID meet her in the flesh that night, he can review her. I sincerely hope that he will go ahead and write one as a public service, as that will turn up more readily (in Reviews and in her Showcase) when gents are researching a provider, whereas warnings in Coed might get overlooked.

I am not sure why you (Fancy) felt a need to make the comment about removing her from the list. To someone who does not know you is has the appearance of a power demonstration. You would have been better served to simply have removed her from the next update without comment. Now, that is not possible. Originally Posted by dearhunter

Reread this Fancy , dh (and others) was doing you a good.


Remember the key to this business is always DL. If there is any question , have your auto default set on Down Low.

IF the OP should write a review of the incident, he should edit the "NO" recommendation to mention the cash and dash. Just saying, many see the NO and don't bother reading the review.

IF the OP should write a review of the incident, he should edit the "NO" recommendation to mention the cash and dash. Just saying, many see the NO and don't bother reading the review.
Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

That's on them...

I never wanted to make any power play. I could not care less. I will add and leave any lady on the Houston Newbie-Friendly Provider List who is verified, but she must conform to the guidelines laid out in the thread since the beginning. Not scamming people wasn't one of them, so admittedly, I had no right to say a thing in the first place here. I was taken aback that this warning came out about someone who I thought was reputable, and worried about what it might do to the integrity of the list and how it may affect other providers on it. Excuse me for being concerned.

ANY gentleman can make a comment in there. I never said otherwise. Suggestions are also welcome from both fellows and ladies. However, just so I can check out the validity of providers actually BEING newbie-friendly and NOT using the thread as an additional advertising tool undeservedly, I have indicated that ladies should send info to me first before they are added to the carnal compendium, and that commenting there does not mean they are automatically included.

(And yes, I simply should have stayed mum and just dropped she-who-may-or-may-not-be-getting-maligned from the HNFPL as I have others for various reasons of non-conformity. I admit my stupidity in being so transparent and thinking out loud, and I appreciate DH and other gents for not wrecking what is and can still be a valuable research aid to newbies. Coed is a better arena for debate, anyway.)

At any rate...



THIS is on topic. Nothing else matters now. As Spice Hippo mentioned, since the OP actually DID meet her in the flesh that night, he can review her. I sincerely hope that he will go ahead and write one as a public service, as that will turn up more readily (in Reviews and in her Showcase) when gents are researching a provider, whereas warnings in Coed might get overlooked.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

This threAD has morphed into a discussion beyond the OPs stupidity. That is a good thing.

Fancy, you are making a very common mistake that modtards make. You are policing your threAD. Modtards are not the police, and neither should you try to be. It is a trap.

Yes, I have left your threAD alone. Because, it is actually useful to a newbie hobbyist and it is in a forum designed to help hobbyists. If it had been in here, I would have made it my little playground.

I know you were not making a power play. That is not in your nature. What you do not understand is it was a power move none the less, albeit unintentional. If PistolPete had allowed your comment to stand, there are some here who would have ridden him like an ass on ash wednesday.

I suspect you felt attacked. I would suggest PistolPete was saving you and your threAD from the circling sharks. Your blunt comment forced him to respond in kind. Perception is reality.

Lastly, removing Pheonix Sky from the list is a checker move. Leaving her there with a linck to this threAD under the title of "Buyer Beware" would be a chess move......ijs

From some time now Ms. Venus has been trying really, really hard to get my attention by following me around the board throwing insults, racial remarks or just plain negativity towards me, to which I have just ignored, but since she has tried so hard I decided to reward her today by giving her Just a tiny pinch of my attention, which I'm almost positive made her really happy, because now she has an excuse to keep going and be a bad ass and fabricate all theses "mean" gifs and try to insult me in every way she can possibly think of.

Which to me is completely fine, insults or "mean" comments towards me will do nothing else than put a smile on my face, they're simply just more blessings coming my way
So, my point is it wasn't just about her "LOL"

Like I said at the beginning we all have insecurities, but I have learned to EMBRACE mine, every time I look in the mirror I LOVE what I see, with my imperfections and all I love who I am if I could look at my soul I would LOVE what I see too. I also love every single aspect of my life family, friends, material possessions, so I really don't have any reasons at all to engage or feed negativity, and be part of the circus or have pointless arguments with the "mean squad" of this site.

If is not some type of motivation or positive shit I won't be part of it. If it doesn't make me any money, why even bother??
Yall can knock yourselves out with that though.

Not that I'm gonna read it but I wouldn't try too hard to make a 2 page post in reply to this, really sweetie is NOT that serious.

Hugs,


Back in topic:
The OP has taken my offer and we'll be meeting by the beginning of next month.
We'll let you know how it works out Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

Trying to get your attention. Bitch I don't give a fuck about you. If the OP wants you to suck his dick WHOOPTY FUCKING DOO, you're not curing cancer bitch.... All I posted was a meme for your comment because it was hella cunty to say to someone that just got robbed, and grossly self promoting. Now while that is not a crime, it was the time you chose to interject it, and I commented. You didn't like my comment.. boo fucking hoo. Baby girl don't post shit in the women's room, then try to act like you're a saint or victim out here like someone is "targeting" you.. you put yourself on the wheel.. because I have NO respect for a lying two faced cowardly bitch, because that's EXACTLY what you're being right now by acting like you ain't said shit to nobody. You just thought you'd get away with it. Good luck with that. . My personal opinion is that you're a slow, basic bitch, but I'd at LEAST have more respect for you if you didn't try and act like a victim in public while talking shit behind the scenes... Yes.. let us know how your session with the OP went. You two should be a match made in fucktard heaven.

But have no illusions, trying to get your attention? I don't need to address you to do that. "Try and be a bad ass".. I been that. It didn't start just because your ass came.The next time you call yourself "going off on somebody" know who you're talking to first. And that.. is on topic. Kisses back atcha..

That's a lot of words for somebody you don't give a fuck about.
Only thing I'm going to make clear, is that I NEVER, not even once approached you first, YOU approached ME FIRST, in a rude way and I reacted.
Everything else I have to say to you is in my pm in reply to yours.
And I stand by it.

LOL this is funny and I am going to pop my popcorn now.

This threAD has morphed into a discussion beyond the OPs stupidity. That is a good thing.

Fancy, you are making a very common mistake that modtards make. You are policing your threAD. Modtards are not the police, and neither should you try to be. It is a trap.

Yes, I have left your threAD alone. Because, it is actually useful to a newbie hobbyist and it is in a forum designed to help hobbyists. If it had been in here, I would have made it my little playground.

I know you were not making a power play. That is not in your nature. What you do not understand is it was a power move none the less, albeit unintentional. If PistolPete had allowed your comment to stand, there are some here who would have ridden him like an ass on ash wednesday.

I suspect you felt attacked. I would suggest PistolPete was saving you and your threAD from the circling sharks. Your blunt comment forced him to respond in kind. Perception is reality.

Lastly, removing Pheonix Sky from the list is a checker move. Leaving her there with a linck to this threAD under the title of "Buyer Beware" would be a chess move......ijs Originally Posted by dearhunter

I agree; it is a trap, and a deep one.

I would make a very poor mod, it seems. I don't think that I have the world view that is required. I concentrate too narrowly on my own country. And I have never been good at chess. Give me a good game of Naked Twister every time.

To get back on topic... I see that the OP went ahead and posted a searchable negative review. http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1468756

I also note that the provider in question is currently online and logged in to ECCIE. Will she respond NOW, I wonder?