But M-o-o-m, he started it.
I could not find a post in this thread calling Whispers fat. Could you highlight it, please?
Whispers has acknowledged he is overweight. I am sure Observing was only expressing the same concern for his well-being as Whispers expressed for FP's; only Whispers can share why he thought it important to add a question about her therapeutic choices to his post. What do you infer from that?
Originally Posted by saustin
Pretty sure there's only one inference that counts: making a reference, even a veiled one about drug use on this site is explicitly prohibited.
RE: Whispers=Fat...The diet plan comment was the one I'm referring to. And no; it has nothing to do with the "power of Whispers:" it's about not being a bully. Pointing out flaws in bodies is about as juvenile as possible. Whispers is perfectly capable of being a respectful leader in this place--a Lion--but instead he has been forced into the role of Pitbull, because others keep poking him with a stick. There's only so many times you can kick a dog before it turns viscous. I'm not suggesting he's a dog or a sociopath, but seriously, he wasn't always so acerbic. *Sort the COED threads by number of views: the top ten are conversations mostly started by Whispers. He is a valuable member of this board with intelligent things to say until someone insults his body, then you can observe the switch. That's normal defensiveness and/or offense, but the name-calling and tear-downs, whether to him or providers is textbook bullying. Not cool. Y'all are the closest things to honest friends I have..you share my secret life, where only one other person in my life knows about this world. I want us to bolster each other, not bicker.
Listen, people: we couldn't even turn this into a TITS thread without tearing someone down!! WTF?! What does it take to get you ALL to just be nice? Seriously; let us know. If more socials would help, I'll try to arrange them. If specials are in order, I'll talk to some providers. If funny memes would help I'll google-it. If pictures of MY dick would help, I'll get out my camera.