Guys before you hand money over for hotel, food, cars and etc ask yourself this question.....
What is the lady spending her money on? There are ladies working at Wal Mart, nursing homes, Mcdonald's, and etc that have food on the table, a car to drive and a roof over their head.
I had a nice guy offer to pay a bill for me a week ago. I told him No I do nt need the money just come visit.
I know some may nt find this an alert but maybe others will read what has happened and it will help them out. Take care. Hugs Taylor
Originally Posted by Taylor Sims
I am absolutely amazed at the bs some of you men fall for. I, for one, don't appreciate being lumped into the "all whore's can't be trusted" category. Most of us are very trustworthy. We have real world jobs, families, friends...we supplement our income here. I read the escapades described by the OP and mrredcat43....seems to me you wanted to be captain save a ho.
This girl didn't even have good game and she still schooled you. Rather than lump all whore's into her category, take responsibility for your part. She fed you a line and you swallowed it hook, line and sinker, several times. I would be embarrassed to admit that I allowed anyone, not just a whore, to take advantage of me like that. Just wow.
Originally Posted by Kendall4U
Thanks for taking your time to post the details. We can all learn something from this.
I just can't keep from asking you two gentlemen a question....
1.) What was so SPECIAL about this particular chic that took you to this degree of drama? Was it looks, personality, good BJ, tight VJ? WHAT was the hold she had on you? Please explain.
I certainly understand (first hand) that people that use (forbidden topic) can be very convincing, deceptive, manipulative, liars and thieves. It's been a hard lesson for me to learn, but you just can't help those that don't/won't help themselves.
Realizing that time is our most valuable asset...you wasted a lot of time that you will never get it back. Putting your "real world" life, relationships and personal safety in jeopardy should be a wake-up call. If you think about it, the money lost isn't the scariest part of this scenario.
KARMA is a Muther Fucker....
Originally Posted by alaine
some of you ladies post great advice....the one thing I notice with all 3 of you is you are in a different age bracket. Depending on how late you started this job, you may have a different outlook on life than someone who started at 18 b/c they wanted fast money. Or maybe ur motive for doing this comes from a different place. And also, I'm assuming ur not depending on (forbidden substances), which as one of you stated, substance abuser can be very manipulative & cunning.
Guys join the hobby for different reasons.
Some just want to mow thru as many chicks as they can in their life/fulfill desires, some join b/c they're nice/lonely guys looking for intimacy, and/or are just simply not a "ladies man" in the real world.
The latter group can come into this blind not knowing that this is necessarily 100% fantasy. And SOME of you all will go pretty far, beyond a visit/session, to blur that line if you see money & weakness in said client.
Some guys are blind to it all, some are blind to an extent, and some can sniff bs immediately. Some guys fall for the "baby's", "babes", "hun" "sweety", some are indifferent to it, and some (knowing this language is used with every guy) roll their eyes at it.
It takes time(aka lessons learned) to become jaded to this all in the "heard/seen it all before" sense, and unfortunately with that usually comes the "never trust these whores/they're all the same" sentiment. It's nothing personal, guys just have to protect themselves.
But I will say, there IS someone out there who, for whatever reason, can grab your feelings.... It may not be any reason you can explain or point to. And before you know it, you can be making a fool out of yourself....and the more dough have to blow, the bigger the fool you can be.