Why do ladies think it's necessary to lie???

Oh, I see.

So you show up looking like Fred Flinstone but in an attempt to boost your ego, I say nice things to you to make you feel better about yourself. I moan during DATY even though you're sucking my pussy and biting my clit and it hurts. I DFK even though your mouth smells and tastes like an unwashed asshole. You slam your cock into me in a vain attempt to perform like a "porn star" even though it's clearly rough on me.

Yet I still try to be nice and say things I think will make you feel good about yourself, because that's my job.

And that's a bad thing.

I guess the better choice would be to lay as completely still as possible, as you do what you will to me, and keep my mouth tightly closed during our session.

And then wait for the review that says "She lay there like a cold fish".

We can't win. Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

I guess the better choice would be get a better line of work if thats the case

Why is it that the need for money for college is inherently different than the need for money for food or a place to live? I have never understood why so many people view college student providers as scam artists... Originally Posted by China Doll

Maybe because over 50% of providers tell me that they provide to pay for college. I really doubt that one

that's bullshit man, i'm in school, why do u think they lie?

Geez I really try not to put much thought into whether a provider is telling me the truth or not. If I ask certain questions as to whether or not what I am doing is right or if it feels good I would prefer to know the truth. You can't change what you don't know right?? If it just questions in general then it's up to her whether or not she tells me the truth or not. 9 times out of 10 you won't ever be in her life enough to know the truth anyway.

Carefull what you ask cause you might just find out lol. I was involved with a provider once and behind the scenes was heartbreaking to see. Then there are a couple that are truly friends and I can talk anytime I want and it's a great friendship. In the hobbyist/provider world that is what I would call a bonus

I'm still waiting on VNurse to pay me a visit and make with the proposal!

Oh, I see.

So you show up looking like Fred Flinstone but in an attempt to boost your ego, I say nice things to you to make you feel better about yourself. I moan during DATY even though you're sucking my pussy and biting my clit and it hurts. I DFK even though your mouth smells and tastes like an unwashed asshole. You slam your cock into me in a vain attempt to perform like a "porn star" even though it's clearly rough on me.

Yet I still try to be nice and say things I think will make you feel good about yourself, because that's my job.

And that's a bad thing.

I guess the better choice would be to lay as completely still as possible, as you do what you will to me, and keep my mouth tightly closed during our session.

And then wait for the review that says "She lay there like a cold fish".

We can't win. Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

I guess the better choice would be get a better line of work if thats the case Originally Posted by burkalini

It sounds as though you don't like reading the truth. Not all clients qualify as a Prince Charming. If you leave thinking that you were the best thing since sliced bread, we have done our job.

It sounds as though you don't like reading the truth. Not all clients qualify as a Prince Charming. If you leave thinking that you were the best thing since sliced bread, we have done our job. Originally Posted by Ansley

It's not that you lie to the guy to make him feel better that made me say that. It's what you were thinking that makes me think it's time for you to try something else.

It's not that you lie to the guy to make him feel better that made me say that. It's what you were thinking that makes me think it's time for you to try something else. Originally Posted by burkalini

I would imagine you have a bad day at work every now and then. Does that make you quit? It's the same thing. The good far out weighs the bad.

Well maybe some of the ladies tell us what they think we want to hear, so what?
As a counter-point, I wonder what the ladies would think about the veracity of the ROS portion of many of the reviews we post. I'm sure there is no lying or exageration to be found there LOL.

Well maybe some of the ladies tell us what they think we want to hear, so what?
As a counter-point, I wonder what the ladies would think about the veracity of the ROS portion of many of the reviews we post. I'm sure there is no lying or exageration to be found there LOL. Originally Posted by ammonite

I always give honest reviews

Maybe I'm a freak! (It's possible!), but I have never intentionally lied to a provider and my reviews are as true as I can make them. Does that make me better than the average Joe .. NO, but at least I can say the truth and it's amazing how many women (not just providers!) open up to me.
But, then again, I've always said that that I have WAY too many female hormones in my body ... maybe that's why I've always said " I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body!!!" LOL Most women seem to agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Tiffany...I am still TRYING to get up there! And any proposal I make is definitely going to be indecent...you okay with that?

I promise I won't lie to you! About ANYTHING!

I don't have this problem except in rare circumstances.

Any woman who knows me knows that I don't need ego stroking or any of that jazz.

Now, most certainly, I would like to be a good lover for her to the extent that circumstances permit -- because if I'm going to see her, it's because I like her. But that doesn't mean I need her to lie -- quite the contrary, because in order for me to be a decent lover there has to be an honest feedback loop in place. My ego isn't crushed to discover I'm not some particular lady's dream lover. But honest feedback can make me better for her the next time; or at least spare some other lady my faux pas.

It has been nearly two years since the last time a lady pulled the "you gave me dozens of orgasms" act. And on that occasion, it was a woman who didn't know me at all, and I had given her my very convincing "poor dumb farmer" act -- so she might have been responding to her perception of that persona.

You must be an amazing actor to ever come across as dumb, sweets!

if a woman wants to lie and say she is going to school to save baby seals...or baby whales...or waterever baby animal needs saving these days...fine....maybe that is part of the 'fantasy' they would like to portray. i dont expect them to give to much honest detail bout their lives. but using old, innacurate pics...maybe the worst lie of all.