A going be a trick. Take what u get and dont throw a fit!

No one asked LOL
But here's my outlook on this particular thread.

I agree

All this finger pointing and bashing is nonsense.

Some act like it's unheard of to bbfs.
It happens

Newsflash we all chose this risky business no one is holier than thou.
~ I don't give a dang if you only offer CBJ, have a degree or dropped out of high school, In societies eyes you're no better, you're still a prostitute, whore, escort or lady of liesure selling yourself and time.

It's up to you to decide how far to go and when to leave & retire if it's so bothersome what other ladies do BCD.

It comes with the business rather covered or not.

Happy Holidays
No room for Grinch's Originally Posted by Italia DiBella

I agree with you mostly; it's her body, her business.


However, when people openly and brazenly advertise that they provide uncovered services, it puts us all in danger and makes for a weird/uncomfortable/dangerous atmosphere for us all.

Looking down on someone not wanting to be smart and use safe and hygienic practices is not a bash to her or anyone else; it is simply holding someone to a higher standard as we all should be at.


The more ladies that start to offer this sort of thing, normalize it and guys will start pestering for it more and more.

Her kitty her business, her clients "paying" his business..

We all run our business the way we want, her making the choices to run her business the way she wants, is not our business...

Once again, I got better things to do with my time, then to go looking at another provider showcase.. Am I about to book a girl on here? Nope! Folks just nosey, bored, and looking to argue..

Don't say she puts us at risk either, when we signed up for this we knew going in we put our selves at risk in the 1st place.. I'm sure there's more girls that do it, but don't make it public..

Just do what you can to lower your risk ladies, wrap it up.. Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

No one asked LOL
But here's my outlook on this particular thread.

I agree

All this finger pointing and bashing is nonsense.

Some act like it's unheard of to bbfs.
It happens

Newsflash we all chose this risky business no one is holier than thou.
~ I don't give a dang if you only offer CBJ, have a degree or dropped out of high school, In societies eyes you're no better, you're still a prostitute, whore, escort or lady of liesure selling yourself and time.

It's up to you to decide how far to go and when to leave & retire if it's so bothersome what other ladies do BCD.

It comes with the business rather covered or not.

Happy Holidays
No room for Grinch's Originally Posted by Italia DiBella

Imma need to agree with botha ya'll. You can't control what anyone else does, only what you do. You know what goes on-hell any of these providers with "managers" you know are bbing him on the dlow-find your risk tolerance, and run with it. bbfs=bad and bbbj=good doesn't matter 2 fucks in the world of Microbiology. Mother Nature will have her say, come hell or high water.

I respect providers who offer only cbj. as long as that shit is in ur showcase/reviews, aint no bait-n-switch. and i don't consider providers who offer bbfs scum of the earth either. we all have to make choices about acceptable levels of risk. Every time you get in your car, you may die. Mother nature could give 2 fucks whether your conduct is "socially acceptable" or not.

Providers, you do you. Realize that not every bbfs session is a death sentence, and not every bbbj session will not give you throat cancer in 10 years. (Btw, everyone in the hobby should get the hpv vaccine.) I'm not speaking as a hobbyist who does or doesn't want a bbfs menu, I'm speaking as a Ph. D. in microbiology. Nature could give 2 fucks about social norms. Know the risks, find your risk tolerance, and stick with 'em.

I expected to be a part of drama today, but this wasn't the drama I was expecting. Well this is more education, actually. The other was just some un-thought out bullshit; I'm happy to share anything and everything I've learned from my time in the Ivory Tower.

Carry on..

I hear they have a thread with list of providers that provide bbfs. How long has that thread been up fellas?

I think some yrs, my environment still feels the same..

Married men "typically" do not seek for bareback full service, its the single guys you have to worry about.. Most guys that walk through my door married, and don't ask for it.

I guess y'all ladies should start dragging the hobbyist as well, while y'all browsing showcases since y'all got the time, look who's reviewing them, put them on blast too (I bet you won't).. It takes two, heh

I completely agree with this. None of my friends care that I only offer CBJ, they think I am a crazy hooker and when I "attempt" to argue myside, they could careless.

In their eyes, a hooker is a hooker is a hooker. Not one service is more safe or less safe to them.

Our looks or the services we decide to provide should not define us on the board. How we treat our clients on and off the board should be what defines us here.

The thing that errks me about the OP is her disdain towards her clients, or as she would call them "tricks". All she has been doing is bitching about how awful this community is, okay, bye. No one is making you be here. You hate these "tricks" so much, in my most impolite voice - get the fuck on.

~ I don't give a dang if you only offer CBJ, have a degree or dropped out of high school, In societies eyes you're no better, you're still a prostitute, whore, escort or lady of liesure selling yourself and time.
Originally Posted by Italia DiBella

But I agree with VOH even more. And stand by everything I said earlier in this thread which I reposted below.

However, when people openly and brazenly advertise that they provide uncovered services, it puts us all in danger and makes for a weird/uncomfortable/dangerous atmosphere for us all.

Looking down on someone not wanting to be smart and use safe and hygienic practices is not a bash to her or anyone else; it is simply holding someone to a higher standard as we all should be at.


The more ladies that start to offer this sort of thing, normalize it and guys will start pestering for it more and more. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

And yes, I'm very much against you offering BBFS to the masses for a little upcharge, and yes, it effects me and all providers.

Desperate women like you are desensitizing the dangers that come with BBFS.

Years ago no one would PM a provider seeking BBFS, you'd get your ass blacklisted and dogged out.

Now it's as polite and normal as asking "do you accept credit cards" and it is because of weak hookers like you that this is happening.

Businesses' set the rules and the tones for their industry and you are making things worse for the rest of us.
Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

now help the OP love Originally Posted by Cendell M

Why do you hate me so much?

Imma need to agree with botha ya'll. You can't control what anyone else does, only what you do. You know what goes on-hell any of these providers with "managers" you know are bbing him on the dlow-find your risk tolerance, and run with it. bbfs=bad and bbbj=good doesn't matter 2 fucks in the world of Microbiology. Mother Nature will have her say, come hell or high water.

I respect providers who offer only cbj. as long as that shit is in ur showcase/reviews, aint no bait-n-switch. and i don't consider providers who offer bbfs scum of the earth either. we all have to make choices about acceptable levels of risk. Every time you get in your car, you may die. Mother nature could give 2 fucks whether your conduct is "socially acceptable" or not.

Providers, you do you. Realize that not every bbfs session is a death sentence, and not every bbbj session will not give you throat cancer in 10 years. (Btw, everyone in the hobby should get the hpv vaccine.) I'm not speaking as a hobbyist who does or doesn't want a bbfs menu, I'm speaking as a Ph. D. in microbiology. Nature could give 2 fucks about social norms. Know the risks, find your risk tolerance, and stick with 'em.

I expected to be a part of drama today, but this wasn't the drama I was expecting. Well this is more education, actually. The other was just some un-thought out bullshit; I'm happy to share anything and everything I've learned from my time in the Ivory Tower.

Carry on.. Originally Posted by pxmcc

No one asked LOL
But here's my outlook on this particular thread.

I agree

All this finger pointing and bashing is nonsense.

Some act like it's unheard of to bbfs.
It happens

Newsflash we all chose this risky business no one is holier than thou.
~ I don't give a dang if you only offer CBJ, have a degree or dropped out of high school, In societies eyes you're no better, you're still a prostitute, whore, escort or lady of liesure selling yourself and time.

It's up to you to decide how far to go and when to leave & retire if it's so bothersome what other ladies do BCD.

It comes with the business rather covered or not.

Happy Holidays
No room for Grinch's Originally Posted by Italia DiBella

There are some great responses on here! Its not our jobs to dictate whos above who when it comes to what a provider offers. As long as everyone is safe doing it.

I guess y'all ladies should start dragging the hobbyist as well, while y'all browsing showcases since y'all got the time, look who's reviewing them, put them on blast too (I bet you won't).. It takes two, heh Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

Not taking sides per se, just bringing up the point, that as far as my screening goes, I do look at posts and reviews a guy has posted (if he has any) as part of my screening and consideration if I want to see him.

If he has certain tones in his posts, or certain behaviors listed in his reviews, that make me uncomfortable, I will decline him. This has happened on several occasions. I also generally like to post warnings/heads up in the ladies room when this happens.

Not all ladies do this, though.

Why do you hate me so much? Originally Posted by cabletex7

aw sweetheart i don't hate you that's just my humor i meant no harm trying to be funny being i know i dont have the best grammar but THE OP O LAWD ,,,,silly i don't hate you babe

Cendell M silly

I hear they have a thread with list of providers that provide bbfs. How long has that thread been up fellas?

I think some yrs, my environment still feels the same..

Married men "typically" do not seek for bareback full service, its the single guys you have to worry about.. Most guys that walk through my door married, and don't ask for it. Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

women im not knocking know one hon, simply saying i rather not know babe ...of course it goes on and i def do not troll providers showcase unless a gent wants an appt as i stated

i satated to each is own but when open talked about in co-ed of course ppl are going to comment babe


sorry if you took what i said wrong...

women im not knocking know one hon, simply saying i rather not know babe ...of course it goes on and i def do not troll providers showcase unless a gent wants an appt as i stated

i satated to each is own but when open talked about in co-ed of course ppl are going to comment babe


sorry if you took what i said wrong... Originally Posted by Cendell M

I'm getting ready for this photo shoot, but taking the moment to respond to you luv.. my posting comments were not directed to you at all babe.

Not taking sides per se, just bringing up the point, that as far as my screening goes, I do look at posts and reviews a guy has posted (if he has any) as part of my screening and consideration if I want to see him.

If he has certain tones in his posts, or certain behaviors listed in his reviews, that make me uncomfortable, I will decline him. This has happened on several occasions. I also generally like to post warnings/heads up in the ladies room when this happens.

Not all ladies do this, though. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I most definetely do excatly that. You can tell alot from reviews and posts. Its a part of my screening process.

I'm getting ready for this photo shoot, but taking the moment to respond to you luv.. my posting comments were not directed to you at all babe. Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

Aw ok thanks girl i appreciate that....

ok have a great evening beautiful

Cendell M