Donation before or after?

(Dont get me going about YMMV topic again, LOL) Originally Posted by cnym

The "Disclaimer" is the basis for YMMV. Otherwise, why is it used in Canada where legality is not an issue?

Caveat emptor!

It may be a matter of semantics the terms we wish to choose. Though what's wrong with treating yourself and those around you with class?

Aren't we all professionals here that either make a good living to afford or earn from this hobby? Why denigrate ourselves? I choose to respect myself and those I come in contact with here.

I have never been comfortable calling the providers here "hookers" because not only does it insult some women but it also insults ourselves. It makes us "tricks." Maybe I am fooling myself but I hold myself to a higher standard than "trick."

I don't care what you call me. I live in the real world. If I have a booger hanging from my nose, I want you to tell me.

I don't care what you call me. I live in the real world. If I have a booger hanging from my nose, I want you to tell me. Originally Posted by GP

I like hooker, I hate prostitute and provider. lol Ive never called a client a John or a trick, I forgot about the word trick until it was used a lot recently in a thread. lol I always refer to you as clients and well I do call myself a hooker. he he. As of late Im referred to as a "hooktard".

Bottom line Im actually business woman, call me what you want, call me god damn Shirley. I make mine and respect my clients.

Ok back on topic, do what a lady requires, do your homework, do a reputable lady.


You're on your own with most of BP and this thread is a moot point when venturing an unknown...

Bottom line Im actually business woman, call me what you want, call me god damn Shirley. I make mine and respect my clients. May I call You Hooker Shirley with Respect Please?

Ok back on topic, do what a lady requires, do your homework, do a reputable lady. Great advise on the "reputable lady"


You're on your own with most of BP and this thread is a moot point when venturing an unknown... I do not TOFIT anymore, way too much risk. But I do see some BP reputable ladies !!! hhmmm Originally Posted by LynnT

From now on, I am going to call it My Hobby with Providers! What do you think? Original Huh !

I forgot what the Original discussion was about! OH, Donation before or after?
Carry On

How about the donation in the middle?

Maybe give the money like you would a stripper. A little here, a little there, a little more later, all in small bills.

regardless what the general consensus is..

I'm still gonna handle my biz of collecting up front and counting it when dealing with new folks
and my regular gents are handled on an individual basis...

I have have issues with regulars that have shorted me because of my trusting them..

and its funny too..cuz they know they have done it..they never call me back to see me again afterward....guess that was their way of sayin "see ya bitch!!"

Anita, I have Never Ever shorted any Lady
Anyone that has shorted you unintentionally and did not come back to make it Right is an Asshat!
I will continue to place the envelop upfront in a visible location. She may count it ahead of time if She so desires.

Anyway, lets have some fun
I have an idea
How about we go back to paying for services on a Menu?

Just like going out to dinner, if you have a drink and an appetizer that is all you pay for, if you have a main course and then desert, then your bill will be more.
Some establishments could offer dinner and a movie for a discounted rate, or even Buy One Get One Free. Isn’t that how the free market works, LOL
To make it fair, maybe we should establish a base fee plus pay per menu. The Tip could be based on performance (P4P)

I love the last paragraph, especially;
Customers must enter with cash in one hand and tool in the other

regardless what the general consensus is..

I'm still gonna handle my biz of collecting up front and counting it when dealing with new folks
and my regular gents are handled on an individual basis...

I have have issues with regulars that have shorted me because of my trusting them..

and its funny too..cuz they know they have done it..they never call me back to see me again afterward....guess that was their way of sayin "see ya bitch!!" Originally Posted by anita germane

Now that's just not right. If I do not want to see a lady again, I rather no one owes ether one anything.

Ya never know who ya may need at a latter day.

I don't care what you call me. I live in the real world. If I have a booger hanging from my nose, I want you to tell me. Originally Posted by GP

Its not always about you. Others may like to be called cetain terms, so thats what you call them. Basic human interaction.

I see by your posts you feel a need to buck that. I think you must know there are women who don't like to be called hookers but for some reason you feel the need to throw it in there on every one of your posts. Thats a bigger head scratcher then wondering why some don't like to be called hooker in the first place.

Not at all, just trying to get into people heads and figure out what they are thinking. That my friend, is a life long adventure.

well I disagree, I think fanned out is incorrect..... not classy
its a business yes, But illegal in 49 states,
thats My opinion, and im sticking to it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is the nice thing about message boards. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Isn't it awesome that we can disagree and still remain friendly. I guess we will have to agree to disagree.

I never cease to be amazed at how some people can take a thread on any topic under the sun and turn it into an opportunity to do some ass kissing. ijs