Thank you Bob.......and I totally agree with your comment. Very well said!!So you are saying that no provider with an NBA policy thinks that AA people are beneath her? Because we are supposedly the worst acting race in this country... i.e. Pimps ((which you admit that ALL pimps are black, maybe there is a white pimp pimping a white girl and they both agree blacks are nasty) , hagglers, big dicks that pound you to a pulp, disrespectful, mean, etc etc... are all reason that have been compiled for the NBA Trend.
It all boils down to choice. A provider is only NBA for 2 reasons:
1) her pimp (ahem...I mean handler, manager, scheduler, Daddy) doesn't want her to see other AA's.
2) it's her body, her choice, her attraction, her preference.
It doesn't get any simpler than that. Originally Posted by TrailBlazer
So you are saying that no provider with an NBA policy thinks that AA people are beneath her? Because we are supposedly the worst acting race in this country... i.e. Pimps ((which you admit that ALL pimps are black, maybe there is a white pimp pimping a white girl and they both agree blacks are nasty) , hagglers, big dicks that pound you to a pulp, disrespectful, mean, etc etc... are all reason that have been compiled for the NBA Trend.The OP simply asked for a list of ladies who like to see black clients and some of you Hoes and Fucktards went and turned this shit into a debate about how the NBA policy is this or that. Who the fuck cares why they list it, I for one don't care and if she does list one and will still let me tap that ass, even better OP if you need to know about some ladies on the board that will show you a good time, feel free to shoot me a PM and I will gladly hook a brother up. To the ladies that posted to his question, thank you.
I'm sorry when I see NBA I think, Blacks are beneath me/ i'm better than a black person, period. But hey maybe i'm just an "Angry black woman" who is mad because I was born black and belong to a race that has been portrayed on TV as the most problematic race in our society/ despite the fact that I am the nicest/ cooperative person you can imagine. Also On this website we are portrayed as the most problematic in "this hobby" ... I cant change any of that, and nothing said on this website will change anyones mind about how they feel about black people... good/ or bad throughts.
Also no one can explain why no one has a "NO Mexcians" allowed sign in their ads, those guys are pretty ruthless when it comes to violence, especially coming from mexico with the cartel, they are decapitating people and mutilating children down there. Kidnapping and forcing women to do sex work. Us being so close to the border I am surprised this isn't a more expressed concern.
but I guess since they have silky long hair and fair skin they are just assumed to be up there with the more desirables.
No I think NBA mostly is a TREND, not a pimps orders, or personal preference. I think its TREND because when it comes to intimate relations a lot of people want women who do not have anything to do with black people. Plain and simple there is a huge market out there that these women are catering to.
They can cater to it I could care less, but the fact that they support the NBA Trend goes to show their true colors. The black men whom continue to visit them and support their business are simply victims of self hate, because as society has convinced most everyone in America that black people are the root of all the crimes in America, They have also convinced educated black men and women that their "race is a problem" and they in turn become disinterested in their own race because they think of them as beneath them as well. So many black men will not give black women the time of day because they figure they are not up to par with the general society. Black educated women do the same thing.
I myself, being one of the black men who has seen ladies both white and black that advertise an NBA policy, find this shit to be more offensive than a lady posting a NBA policy. If a lady has to advertise a NBA policy to increase her business, but will still allow me to see her UTR, I fully understand that. It is all part of the game. Lets not forget that you are a hooker trying to get by, just like they are. To me it is no different than the countless number of self promoting shit that you come on here with all the time. You continue to complain about black men seeing NBA providers instead of seeing black women. Have you ever stop to think that maybe some black men want something different from what they have at home, like the old saying goes, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. How about maybe some black men just happened to be more attracted to white women than any others, nothing wrong with that either. The fact that you come on here and saying it is self hate for me to see a lady with a NBA policy, just really shows your ignorance to me. Instead of you spending so much time worrying about what other ladies are doing in the business and knocking their hussle, maybe you should focus on you and why obviously not many of us "black men" want to pay to FUCK you. Just a thought. You might want to start with, stop trying to tell us black men who we should or shouldn't be paying to fuck
The one thing 400 years of slavery has successfully done to black people is divide us!
The more money a black person makes the less he wants to support his community.
As a black provider I have worked my ass off to prove that I am not some dummy who barely graduated high school and can barely think in a logical order, and has no writing or reading skills. I have had to work my ass off to prove I am NO ONE's puppet (non-managed, avid pimp protester which a lot of women on here who have pimps do not appreciate at all) and am a free spirited provider. I know that my business should have way more clients but my skin color eliminates me from a lot of people list.
I don't know if it is just like this for AA in the hobby in Texas or what/ maybe one day I will try being an escort somewhere else and realize for myself. I have never felt more prejudice from my experiences on this site than i have in my whole life. Never the less I will continue to work my ass off, express myself and prove to the world that I am worthy of all that I receive.
I know who I am, I know what I stand for and that's all I need to believe. I am on a journey through spiritual awakening and really no racist/bigots can get in the way of what I am doing right now. You are in control of your life, and negative energies are small obstacles in the greater picture.
On that note I am going to try to refrain myself from arguing in any more of the NBA threads/posts because it doesn't matter, nothing is going to change, all I can do is try not to read the BS so I don't get upset by it... I am sure it is so easy when you are any other race besides black to see your race be the only race subjected to this singling out TREND.
That would probably be the smartest thing you have done all year
Yea so just be happy you're not black and Get Over It, you are more mad than the black people who are the ones being discriminated against. So what if we think you are racist, just be glad you aren't Black. you have it much easier
... "atleast on eccie.net" Originally Posted by Mya Michelle
I'm sorry when I see NBA I think, Blacks are beneath me/ i'm better than a black person, period. But hey maybe i'm just an "Angry black woman" who is mad because I was born black and belong to a race that has been portrayed on TV as the most problematic race in our society/ despite the fact that I am the nicest/ cooperative person you can imagine. Also On this website we are portrayed as the most problematic in "this hobby" ... I cant change any of that, and nothing said on this website will change anyones mind about how they feel about black people... good/ or bad throughts. Originally Posted by Mya Michelle
As a black provider I have worked my ass off to prove that I am not some dummy who barely graduated high school and can barely think in a logical order, and has no writing or reading skills. I have had to work my ass off to prove I am NO ONE's puppet (non-managed, avid pimp protester which a lot of women on here who have pimps do not appreciate at all) and am a free spirited provider. I know that my business should have way more clients but my skin color eliminates me from a lot of people list
I've had this discussion so many times over its ridiculous. In my opinion, having a prescence and voice on this board almost requires us to employ the concept of dual consciousnesss and being able to conform to what society (or in this situation, eccie) deems appropriate or acceptable. Its almost as if we have to prove that we, as black providers have value as well. Its disheartening to know that as a provider or a hobbyist we are constantly trying to combat prevailing stereotypes and prove to be different than what some people have come to expect of African Americans. We have to be extra careful in our word choice, our presentation, our tone and our behavior. We have to be exceedingly cautious and create a distinction between what they expect of us and who we are. Unfortunately it creates a type of self fulfilling prophecy, because if you already have an idea of who i am... all of my behavior will support your preconcieved notion. The most dismal aspect the situation is the fact that so many otherwise intelligent and reasonable people are so staunch in their attitude towards blacks that no amount of proof contrary to their opinion or in-your-face logic will alter their perception.Very well said!
Great point Mya, I think you presented a very valid discussion in a very articulate an passionate way.
To the OP, I think your thread was a great idea and I do wish more women could speak freely but nobody wants to hurt their own business or *open them selves up to harrassment from dissenters. I hope that at the least you received a few pms to fill your query. I for one see all who can successfully pass my screening.* Originally Posted by sensualsanaa