once you go big...

@Averni. You've got a big one. And I sugar coat nothing. Agreed w/Diva on the AAs & Caucs having equality on the nice big ones. Some cities in particular have a high number of small dicks. I'VE noticed particular cities w/a majority of big dicks. Asians. ..eh. No comment. And I will not share which cities have the good, bad, and the ugly
You know those Tennessee boys are packing some big guns lol, you made me think Lisa. Must be something they feed them.
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What I gather from both this thread and conversations I've had in person with both providers and civilian women is that the answer to the question of whether size matters is "up to a point". Enough is enough, and more doesn't seem to matter very much
Crazy hearing guys talk about their dicks... I guess it's that athlete in me that rises up on the inside of me. Former college football player and one of the reasons I despised the Seahawks was bc I was the type of player that would knock the snot out of you and never talked shit/bragged. I would just give you that look like expect this all game. So, when I hear guys bragging on their penis or reading reviews and the guy is talking about "my big dick was killing her tight little blah blah blah" I just start laughing. You sound so silly. However I just realize that we all have different ways, thoughts and ideals, which makes us unique and good. I really had to deprogram myself into thinking every guy/person is like me. You are going to have some braggers, boasters and etc.. Everyone's level of expectation is different even in the provider world.
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Well, whatever size you are - why worry about it? Why would it really matter that much. "Looks like a needle - works like a sewing machine!" Etc.

Most of the girls I've been with on the "free" side tell me they like a big one - but it's not the main consideration when looking for a dude. They're looking at the whole package and they are also looking for someone they click with who's considerate, nice and fun to be with.

Pretty much same for me ... I like big boobs ... I like REALLY pretty girls ... but I have met many girls who had A-cups or were only "plain" in the looks department that just utterly drove me wild! Back in the 80's - I dated a "bikini model" named Sue. She did some "extra" work on the TV shows "Magnum PI" and "Murder She Wrote". She was about the finest girl that ever wanted to go out with me.

But man - in the sack - she was a piece of plywood - just laid there. Hot as hell but no effort whatsoever. She was like a 3D Playboy magazine where there girls look great in a pose but don't move!

I suppose if a girl finds a nice guy with a decent sized dong and he's pretty good looking and has a great job and he's considerate in the bedroom - she's hit the jackpot. But - I think most girls are realists and understand that the stars don't always align that way and they're perfectly happy compromising in some areas - including size.
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  • lat
  • 02-12-2014, 11:44 AM
That's why I say it's how you use it that count and I think at my age now I have perfected it !
I'm with you guys... All about how you treat the lady in my book..That's just me though... Kinda ole school even though i'm not older...
A REAL MAN with a not so big dick will trump an Asshole with a big dick any day.

I actually do not want someone well endowed again. Im just wondering if I will get off though. I thought that would ruin me, and since I still have not since October, well just curious. Ive had several offers to find out lol. I just want a connection too, something personal, not the love thing, but the animal attraction kinda encounter. If I just wanted a fuck, I would advertise here for FS, but Im not a gfe kinda person. I dont think it would be any fun if its a business transaction. And the local guys, even cubs, just arent what I am itching for.

Never know though with Chella, a mood might strike and I might auction out a session to let someone test the theory---does it feel just as good or get off just as hard with average?
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I'm pretty average...barely, but I make up for my inadequacy with my wicked tongue! lol
hmmm, a tongue, sounds good right about now
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hmmm, a tongue, sounds good right about now Originally Posted by chellachella


haha Dallas, I have wondered if a woman can do it better
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lol chella


BlakDynamite from lafayette has a nice tongue and tongue ring..and boy does she know how to use it!!!! mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....lol!
So what about when guy isnt that well endowed, and the woman has some booty action going on, junk in the trunk ya know. Im guessing the guy with the magnum size can hit it easy, but the not so big fellas are not getting in. Ive often wondered that when I see an obese couple, I wonder how they fuck. I wonder if he is packing, but in my experience when a guy is super overweight it kinda shrinks.
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So what about when guy isnt that well endowed, and the woman has some booty action going on, junk in the trunk ya know. Im guessing the guy with the magnum size can hit it easy, but the not so big fellas are not getting in. Ive often wondered that when I see an obese couple, I wonder how they fuck. I wonder if he is packing, but in my experience when a guy is super overweight it kinda shrinks. Originally Posted by chellachella
What measurement exactly is considered not well endowed?

But I see what you mean though......if you have to penetrate at least two to three inches inches of onion booty there's still plenty room to go. I think if a person is not well endowed they will mostly stick with spinners, or just do traditional mish variations.

As far as two person obese sex.......according to my fat cousin......

The women spreads her ass cheeks to allow for as much entry initially as possible.......while the guy advances toward her in doggystyle lifting his belly fat........when he gets it in he drops his belly on her back........slaps her ass and rides the wave. They do a lot of oral......and to help out who ever is receiving oral holds up the extra skin to help.

Its not so much that his dick shrinks. But the extra fat cut off as much circulation to that area as it used too.

Usually I will see very skinny men date big ole women. When they hold hands on the street they look like the number ten.

But ladys with big bootys can sometimes be misleading. It feels more supple when you are sexing them and the access booty claps on your balls each stroke which feels awesome. But sometimes big booty girls can't really take too much pounding. But even if they can't with lighter strokes each poke its gonna react by shaking sorta fast twice visually.....and it feels nice.