On the topic of kissing... I always, ALWAYS, treat others the way I want to be treated. I want to be kissed, and often, with absolute abandon, until nothing else matters but the two (or three!) of us. I have two triggers - intellectual discourse, and KISSING. There is no better sex to be had than with someone who truly knows what they're doing when they kiss; a man or woman who knows their way around a mouth will certainly know their way around the rest of a body, I guarantee it. Make me feel like a teenager, back when necking in the car until the windows fogged was par for the course, when jeans strained with the stress of heavy petting. So many want to just cut to the chase - where is the memory of the slow tease, allowing passion to build until it finally explodes? Take my mouth with yours and claim it for your own before you take it in any other fashion. Remember that the whole body is covered in nerve endings from head to toe... Something as simple as twirling a nail across the palm of your hand with a come hither grin could be all that's needed to set the fireworks off again.
But, I guess blowjobs are nice, too.