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@London

I feel sorry for you.

@London

I feel sorry for you. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Why? She is being honest, the gents she sees seem to have a really good time, doesn't sound like she suffers either lol

Well for me it IS about the money overall yet I am still low volume, and make what I need. I have another job, attend school full time, and I still would not raise my rate to a grand in every city knowing it would not allow me to save and invest AS MUCH.

I don't pay rent, have never paid a car note in MY LIFE, and since I was around 21 have been very savvy with investing and saving. When I am done here the biggest debt I will have are my student loans, and my child will never have to worry about money as long as I am alive....even less when I am gone.

I want to make a certain amount of money, and I really don't care to spend long periods of time with the same one or two people over and over. Quite frankly, I can't be nice that freaking long lol. If I wanted that type of relationship, I would have a Sugar Daddy or just get married again. I am not even 30 and already own my own home, and am a partner in a few other properties. I see this as a business and my goals are clear.

Rates are not always based on what someone can or can't do....sometimes they are based on what they want to do. I love offering an hour to tell you the truth...love it! Some love longer dates, and more power to them lol. I know I am a small doses type gal, and trust me I get annoyed pretty quick if I have to be with someone I don't like for any amount of money.

Good thing there are all kinds of women and men in this business, or we would all be bored to tears trying to fit one mold. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I heart you seriously London. I love your honesty woman! Very refreshing!

Why? She is being honest, the gents she sees seem to have a really good time, doesn't sound like she suffers either lol Originally Posted by discreetgent

Thanks for this! I love that she keeps it real unlike alot of ladies I have encountered on this board!

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Here's my take...

The long dates don't bother me. I just did an overnight last week and what I found was
I worry about how people feel about ME too much. I spent most of my time thinking too much about him
and what he was feeling and not really enjoying the appointment.

One thing this job has thought me is how to look past physical appearence and judge people by character. This has rubbed off in my personal life big time. I no longer date guys because they're hot but how they make me feel. Don't get me wrong.. being hot is a plus but I've come to find that the hot ones usually turn out to be assholes so I don't go for them as much lol

As far as money is concerned, I just love how some ladies will tell you it's not about the money.
Really? Why not find something else to do? This is risky business.. lol. For me, It IS about the money but do I enjoy the job? Of course. I am 21 years old. I'm a lot younger than a lot of ladies here. I think that's why I get yelled at alot lol. My family is overseas (Nigeria). I have been saving money since they left before I even entered this business.
This job has allowed me to live very very comfortably and not have to worry about a thing so yeah I'll be lying if I said it's not about the money. Most guys would like the lady to tell them what they want to hear but the ones I know and have had the pleasure of spending time with like hearing the truth.

Rates are funny. I have seen everything from $50 t0 $1000 on this site. I too have wondered what the hell is
the difference? However from what I've noticed, The $300/$1000 girls are much more cleaner, can carry a conversation, they're/their pictures are beautiful, they don't indulge in drugs and seem much more approachable. The $50 girls (The ones I've encountered at least) .....I won't get into that here

As far as HDHs are concerned, $300/$400 Is pretty midrange. This is the standard here in the Carolinas. When I think HDH I think about Pearl elite independents: Chelsy Heyden, Bianca Beauvais, Sara Prescott and my fave Holly Brooks. Do I think these women are any different from the $300/$400 girls? I'll keep that to myself. I imagine that they have other jobs that support them and don't have to work as much. As far as MY rates are concerned, They ARE based on what I am willing to do not what I can't do. There are somethings I choose not to share/do with the world and keep for my SO (Yes I said it ). I also charge based on the market that's just what smart businesswomen do I will never be one of those girls that feel they have to stretch their boundaries to make money. So I agree with London this world sure would be a boring place if everyone was the same.

Rates are not always based on what someone can or can't do....sometimes they are based on what they want to do. I love offering an hour to tell you the truth...love it! Some love longer dates, and more power to them lol. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I hope you don't feel like I was judging the one hour dates, I did that for many years and at the time loved them. However, after five years it lost it's thrill for me.

Actually I happen to agree with you. Rates are usually based on a woman's lifestyle choices and not quality of woman or date.

Actually I happen to agree with you. Rates are usually based on a woman's lifestyle choices and not quality of woman or date. Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

Charles you don't have to feel sorry for me hon...I am just fine living my life. I am single and probably much younger than you, so my goals and ideals are a bit different. I'm sorry if I don't "get off" on the fact that I am with random women's husbands, but that's just me lol. This is not something I want for the rest of my life, nor would I want it for my daughter...oh well call me a realist. I am not here to form deep, intimate, long lasting relationships...that's what I want in my real life one day. I just like to keep things in perspective and for me, when I am done here...I am DONE!

Lauren, no worries love....I am not the easily offended kid here. Even if someone does down hourly dates I am not naive to think that's a direct representation of who the person doing them is....that's elementary. I know what works best for me, and always has. If I wanted to make demands for my time I very well could, but to be honest I am not always interested in longer dates when I make the same amount of money with a variation.

Some of you ladies have the patience and the drive to be the best at your craft....I tend to excel in mine as well because I know what I am willing and capable of doing. I need variety I suppose.

I'm sorry if I don't "get off" on the fact that I am with random women's husbands

Now, now some of us gents are single

When I think HDH I think about Pearl elite independents: Chelsy Heyden, and my fave Holly Brooks. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Mmmm, good; try a double with them

Now, now some of us gents are single Originally Posted by discreetgent

Mmmm, good; try a double with them Originally Posted by discreetgent

Never I will lust from a distance.

Chelsy is pretty hot though LOL!

Never I will lust from a distance.

Chelsy is pretty hot though LOL! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

LOL; I have a couple of really good stories with each of them that I think highlight some of this discussion on what constitutes an HDH. Pity that I won't share them.

LOL; I have a couple of really good stories with each of them that I think spotlight some of this discussion on what constitutes and HDH. Pity that I won't share them. Originally Posted by discreetgent

Well If you change your mind, I would love to hear it. Feel free to PM me.

I'm sorry if I don't "get off" on the fact that I am with random women's husbands, but that's just me lol. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I'm in my late twenties and single as well.

And as DG pointed out: some men are single. Only one of my long term arrangements has been married, but they lived separate lives in separate cities - the rest have all been single and completely uninterested in marriage (they get tired of giving away half their stuff apparently).

I understand the ethical issue of married men - however I have learned over the years not to judge them. It's easy to say they should just get a divorce if they're unhappy, but life is complicated and it's not fair to judge them when we don't know the details or haven't walked a mile in their footsteps. People can just as easily judge us, when once again, they haven't walked in our shoes, or don't actually understand the details of our lives.