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Frankly, I'm shocked that anyone would question SG's age, or be dissatisfied with her appearance in any way, I think she's stunning! Also, I have followed her profile for a long time, because I love the artistic nature of her photos and she does update them frequently, so the fact that someone would call her out on any of these items almost beyond comprehension.

I will say in my experience being on these boards, 99.9% of the time a 1 in 250 negative review like this is written, it's by a half hr bargain hunter. SG easily commands her $300/hr rate, as evidenced by her 249 yes reviews.

Since Mick had no issue with her service, I'm thinking maybe it's time for an eye exam, lol.


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This whole thing reads as if it was calculated to me. I don't think she actually minds at all.

Interesting... you complain all the time about ladies with NBA policies and to be honest up until this point...I have always felt a great deal of sympathy for you... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

I can tell you did not read the that particular thread in its entirety. I don't blame you. If I hadn't of started it I wouldn't of either. How it concluded....

Originally Posted by Wakeup

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Y'all are still playing...after you have learned it's just a troll...

This is why I love this board... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

If you were a regular to the Houston forums you may have a better understanding that drama is an effective tool to generate business. It is commonly know that when a well know provider gets a negative review a few things will happen. She will either post a rebuttal like you have & the WK's jump out of the wood work. Second, would be a maelstrom of Yes reviews. Either way it seems to be the norm for 'tards to flock towards the drama or negative like lemmings.

I see men of color and to me racism is deplorable and even in our day in age it has the power to hurt so many... and the idea that you... a gentleman that I have never met was hurting bothered me... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

This is not germane to this thread.... but thanks.... I guess.... Why are we even discussing this.

But now... I just don't know... I am Calculated? Why? Because I have enough self control to not take this gentleman's words personally and I chose to take the HIGH ROAD and REFUND his money? Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

You could of just sent him a PM. Why did you feel the need to start a rebuttal thread, in open forum?

My degree is in science and the law of averages would indicate that at some point someone would not find me attractive... I am a big girl and I can put my big girl panties on deal with this situation in a calm and rational manner... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

Where did I say you were not being calm & rational?Why do I need to know you have a degree?

Isn't that what you guys are always asking us to do? To be logical and rational? Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

Once upon a dream. Yes. I gave up on the premise that logic & rationale existed on SHMB's long ago. It was on a sad sad rainy day

Isn't that how all these rebuttals turn out? With a bump in the ladies business.

I did not need nor did I want this kind of attention... However, when faced with any obstacle in life we have a choice... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

One "No" review in 250 is not an obstacle. In my opinion at least

But.... but.... but you've seen reviewers like that. Who have done it to other restaurants & gladly took their money. I believe one repeatedly bashed a restaurant it never even ordered from.


Interesting... I have not... That would be illogical to continue to bash a restaurant that returned your money... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

That entire comment was directed solely at CarolineDavenport.

So why you decided to defend yourself over that statement is beyond me. That aside, I don't follow the San Antonio forums so I will take your word that you do that.

However, I do not watch much tv and as we all know I do not spend nearly enough time on the internet... Otherwise, I would be a bit more skilled with the computer... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

I'm not sure why you felt the need to tell me this, & I do not need or want to know.

DG...at the end of the day I have to look at myself in the mirror and I have to answer to myself... and I carry a very high standard for myself. I am rarely happy or satisfied and I am constantly pushing myself to be better in every aspect of my life.... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

I will refrain from asking why your standard is so high that it results in you rarely being happy or satisfied in life.

I have not whined, bitched or stomped my pretty little foot at getting a NO REVIEW... I analyzed the situation... I implemented a refund policy that I will keep in place for any gentleman that feels like he did not have a good time with me or who does not find me attractive... and I had hoped to move on...

However, for whatever reason the gentleman in question continues to bash me and refuses the refund so what would you like me to do? Luckily for me I know that social darwinism will kick in and will in the end will take care of this little issue for me... Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere

Yes. I will agree by comparison to how Mickdicker has handled this situation you have been nothing but cordial. He is/was digging his own grave. Without the need for this thread by doing so in the review he wrote. He furthered it by not simply stating, "I stand by my review. I humbly accept/decline your offer of a refund" That's all he needed to do. Anything after that is his own undoing.

Is it admirable that you offered him a refund. Yes. However you can not force him to accept the refund. You extended him an olive branch. He rejected it. The character of the people on both sides has been revealed.

It's pretty simple. All he had to do was walk away at first sight because since he's a player that's what players do. Seems to me as soon as he saw her he decided he was going to write a bad review no matter how good the service was. Based on this simple action he could have taken (walking away) his review ended up sounding more like a hit piece than an honest review.

It's pretty simple. All he had to do was walk away at first sight because since he's a player that's what players do. Seems to me as soon as he saw her he decided he was going to write a bad review no matter how good the service was. Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

For Carolina devenport. If I want to see you I promise you I will see you in a week I have so many ways. Originally Posted by Mickdicker

I see he changed his original reply to me. I appreciate you capturing that little gem, monkey man. Very different from what he changed it to once he realized how f*cking rapey that sounded.

Anyways, Mickdicker, you keep insisting that you had every right to write a review. Which you did. No one can take that away from you. And actually my beef (and possibly others') with you is not the review at all, it is how you have spoken to and about SG and other people on this thread. You seem to need some level of superiority or authority here. The way you keep whining about what she should or should not be allowed to do or say. You said your piece... why can't she say hers? You seem to love the concept of open honesty when it comes to what YOU can say, but you freak out when she exercised the same right. Why is that? And frankly, she was admirably tactful and nice about the whole thing, while you've been insulting and incendiary at every turn. I can only imagine how the ROS in the review reads, but I'm pretty sure it's not very tactful.

If you're allowed to write a review just because she wasn't your type, then I don't see why she wouldn't be allowed to put you on VH because you weren't hers. As long as she tells the truth and doesn't lie, then that should be her right, shouldn't it? You write reviews so other gents can make an informed decision about whether or not to see her. Very admirable. We write alerts for the same reason. No one is FORCING anyone not to see her because of your review, right? No harm, no foul? Well, it works the same way with VH. No lady would be forced not to see you... she'd just see an example of how she could expect to be treated. And that also goes for the rest of you guys that freaked out at the idea of her posting something to inform us ladies, but vehemently defend his right to his review. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Edit: Oh, and I find it slightly amusing that you writing a "no" review about her, in what I can only assume is not very flattering language is totally fine in your mind. But her writing an extremely polite rebuttal, probably the nicest one ever written, throws you off so much that being an asshole is completely understandable in your mind. I can only imagine how wounded you might be had she been as rude and insulting as you have been.

Well I dunno about all the he said she said and some of the sword fighting is...well kind of gay and not funny gay but queer gay.



but his is

Nice socks??!!

I'm just here for the pictures.

This thread only makes me want to see SG....that's one smokin hot body....mee-wow...

Always try and find the positive. So the positive in this thread is at least we are saved from the DM threads for a while.

Always try and find the positive. So the positive in this thread is at least we are saved from the DM threads for a while. Originally Posted by Goatnipples

No comparison as far as the visuals. I know DM gives (or did anyway) good head, and I would imagine that anyone as tasty as SG would also, although she has not invited me to the experience. Of course, SG's body invites "reciprocity" in that endeavor and activity, which might increase SG's enthusiasm and attention.

I'm just here for the pictures. Originally Posted by Sonya

Yes.

[QUOTE=Dorian Gray;1056007701]

I can tell you did not read the that particular thread in its entirety. I don't blame you. If I hadn't of started it I wouldn't of either. How it concluded....


Sir DG...

Thank you for taking the time to reply... Alas, you are correct I did not finish reading the thread because I tend to become rather passionate when discussions of racism are brought up and if I cannot converse in a calm and unemotional manner then I will not speak at all...

What touched me was your own personal pain that you so eloquently conveyed in your original post... it made me very sad... I hate the thought of anyone being in pain...

However, I was taught to never speak of something unless I understood the subject in its entirety so I apologize for commenting without having fully read that particular thread...



If you were a regular to the Houston forums you may have a better understanding that drama is an effective tool to generate business. It is commonly know that when a well know provider gets a negative review a few things will happen. She will either post a rebuttal like you have & the WK's jump out of the wood work. Second, would be a maelstrom of Yes reviews. Either way it seems to be the norm for 'tards to flock towards the drama or negative like lemmings.


Ahhh... I see... Well, it is kind of you to explain that to me... Trust me after the last year I have had more than enough threads written about me and the last thing I wanted to do was start another...

However, in any business you have to make changes to your business plan and model as your practice develops and grows... I had not had a "No" review and so, I did not have a policy in place on how to address it....

Now, I have a concrete plan in place and in the future if after a gentleman has met me and decides that for whatever reason he did not find me attractive or he had a bad time then I will offer to refund his money...

I rarely take things like this personally... it would be completely illogical to think that everyone is going to find me attractive... I am ok with that... What concerned me was that he did not have a good time and as a responsible business owner I wanted to try and make amends...




This is not germane to this thread.... but thanks.... I guess.... Why are we even discussing this.

Hmmm... you are correct... that particular statement was not really relevant... Sometimes, I do not understand the social rituals of our modern day society and I can sometimes be a tad bit awkward socially..

I find you to be a rather intriguing individual and in my own way I think I was opening up a bit more then I normally would because I like you ... Apparently, I have not mastered the art of FLIRTING... Lol...



You could of just sent him a PM. Why did you feel the need to start a rebuttal thread, in open forum?


You are correct I could have sent him a pm but then that would have left the issue of how was I as a business owner going to handle a "No" review... I was also getting a lot of positive and negative pm's after his review was posted so, instead of answering the same question over and over I thought it would be more efficient to post it in the coed section...

I am always trying to streamline my computer time... I did not want to bash him and I am not angry with him... Were my feelings hurt? Yes, on one level because I am human but overall the idea that I failed at making someone happy bothered me more than him not finding me attractive...

I recognize the each gentleman on this board has only a limited amount of time to play and that hobbies of this nature are very expensive... I felt like I wasted both his time and his money so, I wanted to make amends...

Last but not least I was always taught to apologize if I have upset or let someone down... I was prepared for a public lashing and I was willing to go through that since, in this particular incidence I failed...

Where did I say you were not being calm & rational?Why do I need to know you have a degree?

I do not think that you did say that I was not calm and rational... I think that I took offense to you saying that I was being calculating...that was my fault and I apologize that I let my emotions color the tone of my words...

I do not think that you needed to know that I have a degree but again, since I find you to be interesting I think that I was trying to explain how my mind works in an effort to connect with you in some way...

I will definitely have to work on my GAME!!@



Once upon a dream. Yes. I gave up on the premise that logic & rationale existed on SHMB's long ago. It was on a sad sad rainy day


LOL.... One should never give up on the dream of having a Utopian society where only logic and reason are allowed to play...


One "No" review in 250 is not an obstacle. In my opinion at least

Well, I certainly hope not... lol.. again, I think that it was bound to happen sooner or later... now it has... got that out of the way!!!



That entire comment was directed solely at CarolineDavenport.


Ahhh... I see... thank you for the clarification...


So why you decided to defend yourself over that statement is beyond me. That aside, I don't follow the San Antonio forums so I will take your word that you do that. I'm not sure why you felt the need to tell me this, & I do not need or want to know.


I will make a note of that and I promise not to blunder in this manner again... It would appear that in my awkwardness that I have offended you and that was never my intention...


I will refrain from asking why your standard is so high that it results in you rarely being happy or satisfied in life..


That is an interesting statement... I was not aware that my desire to always be the best that I can be would give the impression that I was not happy or satisfied with my life... Do you mind if I ponder that concept for awhile?

I have always loved a challenge...puzzles... scientific experiments etc... In general I like to push the boundaries that both society and science have in place... I enjoy exploring my own inner curiosity to the fullest extent... it never occurred to me that this particular idiosyncrasy of mine might imply that I was unhappy...

Thank you for that feedback... I will ponder on that today...

Yes. I will agree by comparison to how Mickdicker has handled this situation you have been nothing but cordial. He is/was digging his own grave. Without the need for this thread by doing so in the review he wrote. He furthered it by not simply stating, "I stand by my review. I humbly accept/decline your offer of a refund" That's all he needed to do. Anything after that is his own undoing.


That was a very kind thing for you to say... Thank you...


Is it admirable that you offered him a refund. Yes. However you can not force him to accept the refund. You extended him an olive branch. He rejected it. The character of the people on both sides has been revealed.


You are correct... I cannot and I will move forward... Thank you for taking the time to both respond and to instruct me on some ways that I might improve when interacting in the Houston Forums...

I'd really really love to see Slave with a hot pink ass after spankings. Giggle, public lashings indeed.

Nice socks??!! Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Lol...

I have a SOCK FETISH... I particularly love thigh high socks and short fuzzy socks!! I can't tell you how many men love to bring me coffee from Starbucks and a cute pair of socks!! I am like a kid in a candy store when I get either of those two things...

What can I say? I am amused easily...I actually have a few sock companies that follow me on twitter because of this particular fetish of mine...

Here are a few that might amuse you: