David honey u can say anything about my session until u try me. I have a few reviews. I know how to treat a man & having fun as well. Your trying to make it seem like I'm very rude when asking for donations. Hell most of the time my clients already know and happily put it on the dresser. Most of you guys are not going to agree & so be it. My business will & forever run the same & I dont see it slowing down one bit. Hey it is what it is. Those who visit me know what I'm capable of. Originally Posted by Nina_LoveFirst impressions are everything in this business and when you come off as being all about that money, regardless of what you say afterwards, then that leaves a bad taste for me. Funny you should say what I put in bold because unless you know the guy, then asking for and even talking about the donation with a new client could get you busted by undercover LE. Laying an envelope on the dresser cry from giving you the donation upfront, unless you go get it and put it away, which is okay to do, but not in his presence.
First impressions are everything in this business and when you come off as being all about that money, regardless of what you say afterwards, then that leaves a bad taste for me. Funny you should say what I put in bold because unless you know the guy, then asking for and even talking about the donation with a new client could get you busted by undercover LE. Laying an envelope on the dresser cry from giving you the donation upfront, unless you go get it and put it away, which is okay to do, but not in his presence. Originally Posted by davidfree986David it is what it is. I accept donations before the session. Dont like it? Try another provider. I'm not gonna change..sorry:/
David it is what it is. I accept donations before the session. Dont like it? Try another provider. I'm not gonna change..sorry:/ Originally Posted by Nina_LoveNot asking you to change. I believe that we agreed to disagree on this issue, but I am making some valid and substantiated points as to why my opinion is different than yours. While this debate could go on forever of pay before or after, I think opening a thread a thread of this nature, while informative, it also puts a provider that has the same opinion as you and voices it in a bad way as far as the guys taking you off of their to do list, which is why just one or two of the 700+ providers took your side with prepay. Looking at your reviews, I do not see any repeat reviewers, and none for a few weeks so maybe you have one and done guys or you have guys that are repeat clientele who do not review.
Not asking you to change. I believe that we agreed to disagree on this issue, but I am making some valid and substantiated points as to why my opinion is different than yours. While this debate could go on forever of pay before or after, I think opening a thread a thread of this nature, while informative, it also puts a provider that has the same opinion as you and voices it in a bad way as far as the guys taking you off of their to do list, which is why just one or two of the 700+ providers took your side with prepay.Sweety u have no clue what your talking about. Speak for yourself. I just seen a new client earlier today. My business is running as smooth as before sweets! Anything else?
I think after this, you will be regulated mainly to your repeat clients and answering general ISO threads for business.
Good luck to you! Originally Posted by davidfree986
I usually leave my gift after but have left it when I walk in and really don't care. If that makes the provider more comfortable then fine. If I've done my research then I have nothing to worry about and have never had a problem.I mean I dont think it was a problem either
Nina, if you want the money up front then so be it!! Originally Posted by Randomguy
Usually I sit it down up front. There have been other times where I've sat it down afterwards. TCB out of the way up front tends to put the ladies at ease sooner and is probably seen as a green flag on the guy's character (haven't read all the posts in this thread...yet).Very well put!
Playing keep away with the funds, I'm pretty sure many ladies find annoying. They don't want to ask you for it. Don't MAKE them HAVE to ask you for it.
i've never skimped on a provider, even if the service was shitty, and never will. It's just not in my nature. Dirtbags like not paying upfront. It gives them a chance to bail with the money, even if the service was good. Dirtbags are going to be dirtbags. That's just who they are. If they are one, let it be known. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed
Usually I sit it down up front. There have been other times where I've sat it down afterwards. TCB out of the way up front tends to put the ladies at ease sooner and is probably seen as a green flag on the guy's character (haven't read all the posts in this thread...yet).Paying the donation before or after is not a reflection of one's character, and you are a dirtbag if you do not like paying upfront? Get real. I have never not paid the provider, even if the service was bad in my opinion.
Playing keep away with the funds, I'm pretty sure many ladies find annoying. They don't want to ask you for it. Don't MAKE them HAVE to ask you for it.
i've never skimped on a provider, even if the service was shitty, and never will. It's just not in my nature. Dirtbags like not paying upfront. It gives them a chance to bail with the money, even if the service was good. Dirtbags are going to be dirtbags. That's just who they are. If they are one, let it be known. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed