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Well,there's that... Originally Posted by Taskmaster

The key word here may be tipsyness. Originally Posted by Taskmaster
I was thinking two peas and all....
Welcome back, BrookeB.

My only recollections of a poor review was of your dog. No big deal. Put the dog in the next room or pay a walker; Of course mine would be of my weight variation as well as tipsyness. haha

It is nice seeing you back.

It's not like you stole publicly with a gimmick like some unnamed women here who were welcomed back with open arms...

You seem to be direct and enthusiastic - I like that!

I look forward to your posts.

Good luck!

Liz Originally Posted by SweetElizabeth
Thank you Liz!! I provide a lot differently now. Dog stays home and I have an incall that is not my home. No longer welcome gents into my personl space and it so far has been going great.

Apparently being a 31 almost 32 year old who's body has matured is a problem for some. Oh well!! I'm not the 120 spinner I was at 25 but frankly at 5'9 I looked extremely unhealthy. I am no where near fat or over weright. My bust size went up a full cup size and are natural and like you know, women in their 30s are more in touch and more sexual with their body!! Thus far being welcomed back has been extremely enjoyable.

Glad to see a friendly and professional yet also respectful and kind provider face is still active on the boards to help give advice. This thread not threAD (never been my style) was more to ask how others handle the collection of donations. But I got an idea of what I'm gonna try out this week!
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Apparently being a 31 almost 32 year old who's body has matured is a problem for some. Originally Posted by BrookeButtons
uh it ...done be a problem fer them jimmies nots wantin ta pay ta fuck ...funnel thats be middle ...aged soccer moms
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When I've had this happen I've always contacted the gentleman after and they have either immediately corrected the issue or they get blacklisted and put on my wall of shame.

If I haven't seen someone before I always count up front, rude or not, business is business.
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I generally have them put it somewhere I can see it and let them freshen up.
That's when I at least verify it's all there. I've never counted it in front of anyone and never had to.
That time they are off washing hands, showering etc is when I can discreetly do it.
9 times out of 10 it's usually there when I do verify it but those 1 times out of 10 can really add up by a lot if i'd waited to verify when he was long gone.
I've heard of ladies not founding out until the guy is long gone finding envelope or card full of frickin' paper (some of them have even been their long-time regulars)....that will not be me. A few seconds to verify beforehand when he's off freshening up can save you a lot of headache later on.
uh it ...done be a problem fer them jimmies nots wantin ta pay ta fuck ...funnel thats be middle ...aged soccer moms Originally Posted by Plastic Man
Not a soccer mom or mom in general. Anyone that knows me knows I hate kids.
Do you hate puppies and kittens?
I might be able to get you a gig....
But I draw the line at children....
And it's not one of those oblama lines in the sand
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Not a soccer mom or mom in general. Anyone that knows me knows Originally Posted by BrookeButtons
even the most polite and respectful loyalists have revealed details that fall outside the boundaries of flattery. Whew

I've been ripped off a few times by providers over the many years I've been in the hobby. I figure it's just a "thing" that's going to pop up from time to time. Women selling their bodies for cash is usually a sign of desperation. Desperation in a provider can lead to ripping hobbyists off.

I think it's quite the opposite for a hobbyist to rip of a provider. Both actions are criminal, but one isn't out of desperation, it's a premeditated crime to get something for a discount even though the hobbyist knows he's ripping the provider off. He's basically saying, "getting my rocks off is more important than giving this provider what she asked for." The provider is trying to make both ends meet (or maybe feed a bad habit) but they certainly aren't (in most cases) getting pleasure out of it.

I'm really sorry you got ripped off Brooke.

My MO these days is to show up with an envelope and put it someplace. I tell the provider she can count it, but I prefer it stays there until my time is up and services are delivered. 9 out of 10 do this. The last time I got ripped off, they just ignored what I said and took it. So, it doesn't work every time. Most of the time, they check it and leave it there. Other times, they just leave it there.

Getting ripped off is part of the hobby. People are assholes or desperate. Getting easy money or easy pussy isn't always going to be easy.
I have never been offended when the lady counts the money up front.
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Women selling their bodies for cash is usually a sign of desperation. Desperation in a provider can lead to ripping hobbyists off.

LMAO where do people get this shit from

Anyways, I do things pretty simple.
Cash up front, write it in my ledger.
Commence appointment
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Do you hate puppies and kittens? Originally Posted by Paulwantsya
I hate (dislike) puppies and kittens. I love CATS and pussy but dislike the others. Lol
And I generally dislike children as well. Lmao