Providers that ARE NOT reference friendly

After a session with me the ladies are happy to refer me to other ladies ... Originally Posted by pyramider

Now that's just patently false. Nobody wants to share you. After all.. its hard to share when there is only 1.3 inches to go around!!

Now that's just patently false. Nobody wants to share you. After all.. its hard to share when there is only 1.3 inches to go around!! Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Nice burn!!

Lol-- not a burn. A long running joke on Eccie, dear. I don't go for the easy burn-- that's just no fun.

Pretty obvious alt account.

I ended up having to get on 411 because alluring Stacy and pistol marks would refuse to provide references for me. The girls would complain these two never got back to them and when I would contact them they would claim they never received the messages even though I had proof several messages were sent.

Odd.. I never ever ever had a problem getting a reference back from Pistol. Never tried with Stacy.

I don't use pistol anymore. she's never replied to my inquires that I can recall.

Rayne is a great and quick response with details too.

Allow me to play Devil's Advocate here, some may understand, yet not agree to this:

My (extra) income from this NEVER depends on the word of a stranger much less a woman who I have never met before conducting illegal business. No, we are not all "friends". This is illegal business. I am a reference friendly companion, and as THN noted before, I respond to references promptly and always respond professionally. When gents send me their references, I sometimes send them a link to my screening form also known as my "Reservation Form". I do this in case none of the references respond in enough time (or at all). By all means, It's not the references fault, and like clients, I am not entitled to the references time (hell, they could be at work, with family, a multi-hour, court, none of your/my business) because I don't want to (learn how to) do my own homework or *develop* a screening process not involving other parties regarding me and intimacy with a gentleman. Not only that, I am very discreet. This means I don't want providers and companions knowing who I am fucking... or who the gentleman is about to fuck for that matter, *counting my pocket and possessive over *his wallet.

References definitely do make screening easy, especially when the gentleman has no online presence or even a couple reviews to "prove"he is safe (which doesn't). But again as mentioned before, what may be polite, safe and generous to one companion, may be the polar opposite to another. That's why I feel it's IMPERATIVE for *professional* companions to develop their own screening process fitting their business and personal preferences/Personality/needs. Can't do it? Join an agency. Just like references, they do all the redundant screening for you! Just expect to split your money

In addition to regarding WHY some ladies are not reference friendly because she intends to have the client for "herself. There are even more professional companions who simply don't feel it fair that they took their time out their day to screen him through her lengthy screening process or Database Subscription she *pays for just to tell another woman a simple "yay or nay". She gets a new sugar daddy, or generous and consistent regular - you get a " thanks" and a warm fuzzy feeling inside - if that.

Keep in mind that we sell our time and it takes time to give and respond to a reference from looking up *accurate records. It also takes time to compose these records in case another escort inquires. On the other hand sometimes I don't like asking for references or contacting references when they are provided in case the gentleman does not follow through with an appointment. Not only have I wasted my time screening, but I've wasted the references time in responding to me and going back in her records and notes to see if he is safe.

Do you really think I'd pass on a pleasurable experience and profitable opportunity because so and so provider happens to have her family day the same day I want to screw a man's brains out for my mortgage and need a response within the next couple of hours?? Nope. I'm not the one, the two, or three. As a seller, it's up to me to close the deal.

I would be living in a fantasy world expecting another Criminal (prostitution is illegal thus making buyers and sellers criminals) who lives 500 miles away to care about my safety. It's naïve. If somebody is already doing something underhanded and illegal for survival or red bottoms, I don't expect them to have any moral obligation to me, again that would be naïve.

Being reference friendly doesn't make one less of a criminal than another. It's simply inconvenient.


#Evolve

Affectionately,
Eva J Damita

PS - I apologize for the lengthy post and appreciate those who took the time to read it. I made sure for those who did read it, they didn't waste 2 minutes of their life reading BS Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Eva,

I would never trust a reference, nor personally request a reference from you. You will do anything for a break.

You have shown up to doubles whilst on your period and also with titty milk spewing out of your breasts.

Big props to TNTAngie for calling this one out. Eva presents herself as an 'extraordinary' provider, but is basic just like the rest of us.

And I thought my ride home was gonna be boring....

Eva,

I would never trust a reference, nor personally request a reference from you. You will do anything for a break.

You have shown up to doubles whilst on your period and also with titty milk spewing out of your breasts.

Big props to TNTAngie for calling this one out. Eva presents herself as an 'extraordinary' provider, but is basic just like the rest of us. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Daaaaaamn!!! Lol

Just wanted to make me a Jules sammich.

Eva,

I would never trust a reference, nor personally request a reference from you. You will do anything for a break.

You have shown up to doubles whilst on your period and also with titty milk spewing out of your breasts.

Big props to TNTAngie for calling this one out. Eva presents herself as an 'extraordinary' provider, but is basic just like the rest of us. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Lol



Are you mad because I blasted your *scam on other ladies???? Am I supposed to brand myself other than great?



That's the only reason you bumped this thread.

You had milk lumps forming in your tits that can't even be motorboated ...don't forget that

Oh. And ya don't get periods while pregnant. Of course, you should know this one by now. Remember how you'd call me damn near monthly EXCITED about your period?

Your disgusted by YOURSELF. Your vagina is a massive graveyard. Don't be mad your milk glands were never put to use and stiffened. Your East/West coast boobs were HARD that day... girl stop !!!

Aren't you branding yourself as the "Sweetest" GFE? Im not going to attack that one

Now, go tie those orangutan flops in a knot or bow. Throw them over your shoulder since they hang so low. Also learn to clean your ass before offering anal. Shitty condoms galore!

Stop fucking with me Flatiste. You change your name but not your brand? What are you hiding from SEO w your other names?

You're obsessed on every platform. Gangbang Orangutan flippity floppity boobs...since you're obsessed with mine, its fair I observe yours

You girls need to take lessons from honest abe. This was a highly disappointing display of bitchery.

Edit: that's a little better.

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You girls need to take lessons from honest abe. This was a highly disappointing display of bitchery.

Edit: that's a little better. Originally Posted by DentBick

And heaux WONDER why ladies aren't friendly w refs. Vendettas, that Flatiste alludes to. Props? I have One name - 7 years. Great rep. No __ allegations at all that I won't say BC I don't get banned ... EVER from boards from something to hide. Search me. I also have NEVER fucked for stellar relviews she admitted to Anything for "breaks" ? Lol name ONE! I JUST named *one of hers

Let this be an example as to why ladies don't respond to refs. Flatiste CANNOT attack my clout, reputation, or character. I can to her. She's the Naomi Campbell of the biz...bullying and threatened by every black attractive entertainer and blogging at 1pm behind a LAST ***STAGE NAME

Other black women had to threaten a cease and desist order against her to stop her harassment. #Facts + receipts.

She blames me for her fucked up reputation from hobbyists ignoring the fact that hobbyists TALK. WE never even "fell out" , argued, or anything of that nature. Her hate and mom shaming is COMPLETELY unwarranted. We are very much alike...except I'm no serial killer, get banned from VH, TER or here, and we got along. But hey, much luck to her. My props to her for *trying to reach a larger audience. I don't try, struggle dance at strip clubs in make-shift attire, or screw for reviews. I don't try, I just DO it, no scheming or drama for a "break". She's on "Ignore" now. I guested my account for a year nearly, and she still LOVES to bring me up.

I'm Out.

I'm going to bed. Church starts early. My sermons suck when I haven't gotten at least 7hrs of shut eye. If anyone can translate wtf I just read that'd be great.