Unprofessional

Can we resort to me being under you this time??

Now I'm under her

So Olivia, you approve of this?



This person (can't call him a man) just admitted in his own writing to a crime. He stole money from this lady who had it in her possession.

He's a member of a very small percentage of guys in the hobby that are among the very worst this 'thing of our's' has to offer.

If anybody thinks I'm taking a hard line, there are reasons.

As far as I know, I don't know either of the people involved in this fiasco.

For those who understand my hard line thoughts, then don't bother reading my thoughts. For those who don't, I'll explain it for you. Here goes.

As members of hobby sites (I've been on hobby related sites since early 1999), we should be held to higher standards than the guy who makes a rare or occasional visit with backpage girls. As members of hobby sites, we are able to see a lot of different thoughts and conversations not only with other men in the hobby, but other ladies as well. Not only do we read about different things in the hobby from a guys perspective, but we also read things from a ladies perspective. While the guy who doesn't know about hobby boards has a 6th grade hobby education, guys who read hobby boards should have at least a high school hobby education.

These hobby boards are not just a review site per se, but it goes way deeper than that. I think that we all agree that being involved in the hobby is illegal. I think we all agree that we need a safe haven to share our thoughts about what goes on in the hobby. We can't (for the most part) share our thoughts, brag about who we saw, as questions about the hobby to our co-workers, friends, or family. These hobby boards are also a gigantic support system, feeling safe and secure we can post about all hobby related subjects without the fear of losing the respect of those in the real world. For the most part, we don't judge people here.

Now when a person who is a member of a hobby board, takes and steals money from a provider, then bullies his way out of the door, yes, I take a very hard line.

If a session goes south and goes to hell, there are reasons. Reading his original post, it appeared the session went south due to his actions, yet he blamed it on her reaction to his action. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

As always, Dear John gives consistent and well thought out advice to those in the hobby. We should be held to a higher standard than those who aren't on the hobby boards.

If nothing else, he should have given her the money for the time he used her place. Doesn't matter if he didn't get to enjoy himself in this situation, since she was there the whole time and he obviously was happy she provided a place to relieve himself. At the very least an apology to her is warranted and she should be made whole as well.



Olivia, I can only imagine how this thread would have gone had you been the female in this scenario...............I'm just saying!......

Olivia, I can only imagine how this thread would have gone had you been the female in this scenario...............I'm just saying!......

I can agree with that

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Most businesses like for you to buy something if you are going to use their restroom. He used up time that she could have used to see someone else that would have paid her. She didn't have to be calm for him to leave all or even some of the money. Yes we pay for a service but we also pay for the time. Time has value on both sides of the fence.

Actually I wouldnt have cared my fingers arent broken to flush it everyone has to go at times... He took a shower so what is the problem I seriously would have not made a big deal because I would be to embarrassed to tell him anything about it.... Im just saying I have caught people peeing in my trash can and I never kicked them out I was weirded out but hey at least they didnt pee on the floor

Really?? In a trash can? Wow Olivia the least you could have done was start a thread on that, the entertainment would have been so worth it lol.

I will give this update and then I am washing my hands of this.

After getting in contact with D and realizing I know the provider. I contacted her and she told me her version of the story. It is pretty much the same BUT she says the reason she is still pissed is that when she offered him the initial shower, she told him the toilet in that bathroom has been having issues so use the half bath down the hallway if needed.

She didnt feel like she should've refunded him all his money cause he was there for over an hour. She also pissed at herself and embarrassed. She just wants the situation to go away. Even though I did not vouch or reference for him to see her, I did mention to him that she was a good time and very low volume cause she is only part time. I felt some responsibilty, silly thought I know.

BTW, she got her money back + .5, I won't say from who, we all got reps to protect, lol.

Can we resort to me being under you this time?? Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

Hmmmm....Okay, I guess if you have to have you way we can do that. Just gotta tell me when and where.

You can't make this shit up.

she told him the toilet in that bathroom has been having issues so use the half bath down the hallway if needed.
Originally Posted by internet_inventor2

the ol' half bath story, heard it a thousand times, maybe he shoulda gave half a shit.

Sometimes the ladies have problems too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kN8GULsUDIw

i think the real kicker here is that he seemed totally shocked that she vomitted in the sink and if SHE was sick then SHE should have cancelled... apparently the toilet was full and HE was the ill one!

This is madness!

I will give this update and then I am washing my hands of this.

After getting in contact with D and realizing I know the provider. I contacted her and she told me her version of the story. It is pretty much the same BUT she says the reason she is still pissed is that when she offered him the initial shower, she told him the toilet in that bathroom has been having issues so use the half bath down the hallway if needed.

She didnt feel like she should've refunded him all his money cause he was there for over an hour. She also pissed at herself and embarrassed. She just wants the situation to go away. Even though I did not vouch or reference for him to see her, I did mention to him that she was a good time and very low volume cause she is only part time. I felt some responsibilty, silly thought I know.

BTW, she got her money back + .5, I won't say from who, we all got reps to protect, lol. Originally Posted by internet_inventor2

Now wait a minute. He took a shit and a shower and that took over an hour?

As usual we are getting the full story here.

Disgusting, you were wrong; you owe her the money plus punitive damages for Mental Anguish. Second mistake you made is to post such a dumb ass thing. Sounds like a scene from Dumb and Dumber.

from the Seventh Day Adventist handbook

"no shitting on Saturdays,or at the provider's incall"