Drama, Highly Vocal posters, Disrespect, Trash Talk?... Why do YOU perceive ECCIE to not be a "friendly" place?

Leave my drama alone..... I happened to call Sixx when I saw you were here and let him know he needs to make time for you ASAP!...... You used to a have a pretty good rep for a quality very dear to his heart.......

Your one of the quickest ladies to go mean or lashy in post I've read from the past so I don't think you have much credibility here. Originally Posted by homer13

One one hand, I would think you can't read very well, because if you could, you would have noticed that the majority of my posts are merely replies to mean spirited insults in the first place. The rest are when I state an opinion or perhaps a plug for the club I am dancing at, and then have to defend not my opinion, but myself against personal attacks, and misguided accusations such as yours...but on the other hand, I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt regarding your exceptional reading ability, and just assume that you are one of those guys who gets miffed and can't get a hard on when a woman stands up for herself...hence your comment to me.

The thing is, what you (Whispers and the others) fail to comprehend, is...you boys are good for business. Whether you like it or not, there is a very LARGE percentage of men who do NOT like Whispers and his supporters and how they treat women who are not on their "list" of premiere ladies. For every guy like you who dislikes me because of the things I say on this forum, there are 20 lining up behind each of you to show me here how a true gentleman treats a woman...that's what keeps me coming back.

Whispers and his supporters reap what they sow...we all do.

Any provider supporting these mean people are only doing it because they want their business and money. The providers who support them just want to be invited to the Socials so that they can get more business. If they speak up? Then they aren't invited. Originally Posted by Ivory

I can say this is not 100% true..I have spoken up,stood up against these so called "meanies" and I was welcomed to a social with open arms in the past and had a damm good time without making or wanting one appt from it.....not to mention have spent non bcd time with a few as well..

Leave my drama alone..... I happened to call Sixx when I saw you were here and let him know he needs to make time for you ASAP!...... You used to a have a pretty good rep for a quality very dear to his heart....... Originally Posted by Whispers

Drama - Its all yours.

Sixx, its all lies.

I will corroborate that. I know for damn sure I'm not on his christmas card list but we get along at socials fine enough.

The after party i wasn't able to attend I was a tad nervous of though, I had a flashback to Lethal Weapon 2 where the guy shows up, looks around and says,

"Seeing if I was standing on any plastic."

I can say this is not 100% true..I have spoken up,stood up against these so called "meanies" and I was welcomed to a social with open arms in the past and had a damm good time without making or wanting one appt from it.....not to mention have spent non bcd time with a few as well.. Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

Thanks Victoria, I was not going to name names with regards to socials but thanks again for saying something. You are def not the only one to have differing views who has been WELCOME to "our" events, etc

Ivory must be having a slow night to an half empty strip club. Be sure to tip your DJ, since I am sure he has to change the lights to make you look a little better

sixx

Screw the stripper lights. Hotel/motel lights are bound to remind us all of our imperfections.

Egads.

Admission of being nice is admission that you're awful rest of the time? That really is some logic. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Don't play dumb. It only makes one look dumber than they really are.

I don't really see "them" claiming to be nice, and you are attributing one member's words/actions to the rest. If you're going to accuse someone, accuse them of something they did, not throw blanket statements around, then try to build your response to that. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Hey, if you are going to be backing up Whispers and those who support him and the disrespectful things they say and do, then you are going to be guilty by association…it's just the way things work, dude.

You insult more providers with that statement than Whispers ever did. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Quite the contrary. I would be insulting them even more if I didn't say that. Despite what you or Whispers thinks, these girls aren't your "family" like Whispers has an affinity for saying these days.

Retribution? Oh, you mean words typed on a forum. That truly is something to be feared. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Don't be silly, no one was ever talking about violence here. I am talking about the fear of speaking up. I am talking about those who won't register and just lurk.

You really don't post much, you said as much...but you sure are involved in a lot of drama threads. Strange... Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

It's also strange that you always are in those same drama threads doing exactly what you are doing…or perhaps, it's not so strange?

One one hand, I would think you can't read very well, because if you could, you would have noticed that the majority of my posts are merely replies to mean spirited insults in the first place. The rest are when I state an opinion or perhaps a plug for the club I am dancing at, and then have to defend not my opinion, but myself against personal attacks, and misguided accusations such as yours...but on the other hand, I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt regarding your exceptional reading ability, and just assume that you are one of those guys who gets miffed and can't get a hard on when a woman stands up for herself...hence your comment to me. Originally Posted by Ivory

Homer is not one to revel in the drama. He disagrees with you and you question his reading comprehension yet you bitch about how mean I am, etc. You are really no different than those you are bitching about. You are just trying to drum up any business for your stripping career that is nearing its end. Remember toots, time waits for no one....

sixx

Seeing if I was standing on any plastic." Originally Posted by budman33

The Girl Friend has been catching up on Dexter the last couple f weeks after never seeing one of them... She was wondering what the big roll of plastic wrap was for...... She thought it a bit much for keeping any left overs fresh.....

Kboy, ztonk and space were all liquored up and were not going to intervene this time......

I can say this is not 100% true.. Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

Of course you can. I was speaking generally.

But, if you think that what I said has no merit whatsoever, then you are either incredibly naive, or you are guilty of being a White Knight for the boys.

As an Administrator of many years I have found when derogatory terms are tolerated it creates the perfect storm for personal attacks and the threads written monthly about this issue only to result in the same outcome. Originally Posted by Miss Brienne

Yeah......

You popping up I think moves you way to the top of the list of ladies that know a little bit about me over the years......

The just don't seem to understand that when they take a shot at me I always have a comeback..... I I seldom let it just drop after a mild exchange...... I tend to beat them over the head with it for a while hoping it sinks in......

A few are slow to learn.... But you have been around log enough to tell these folks that I never back off or listen once riled up....

They really shouldn't keep hitting my "On" switch....

I think Ivory is just a older washed up version of Taylor Maiden....LMAO..

Has anyone noticed that the only time she comments on anything is when she is in town dancing? Originally Posted by sixxbach

No. I think you are the first to notice this. Nice detective work, Sherlock! What case are you going to crack next? :-)

But seriously though, Have you noticed that the only women who post here are "working" girls in some form or fashion? Have you also noticed that when those same working girls take a year off from the business here they usually post a LOT less, if at all?

Don't get confused Sixxbach, like your buddy says in his siggy:

"Some tend to forget that our time with them is a Hobby. Their time with us is a BUSINESS! Don't get caught up in the illusion."

Where did I question anyone's manhood in this thread? You said THEY which would include me. Get your shit right toots. Originally Posted by sixxbach

Look, your sidekick Whispers keeps telling guys here to "man up" and be "man enough"…and your other biddy Wyldeman keeps talking about the estrogen levels and whatnot, so I'll tell you what I told your buddy Rand Al'Thor…if you are going to be backing up Whispers and those who support him and the disrespectful things they say and do, then you are going to be guilty by association…it's just the way things work, dude….you're part of the problem, and I am not the only one who sees this, obviously.

You say that these women who support us "mean people" only want our business and money. That could be said for ANY provider who defends ANY hobbyist actually. Originally Posted by sixxbach

You're comparing apples and oranges. There are many many men that I genuinely like and see as friends that I met through stripping…but these men don't say the things you all do…and if they did? Of course the only reason I would back them up on a public forum would be for their money…what other reason could there possibly be?

There are several guys who have been to the socials who don't agree with myself and Whispers, etc. Know what you fuck are talking about before you make a comment on something that you know nothing about. Originally Posted by sixxbach

I was speaking generally. Know how the fuck to read between the lines before opening your piehole again, ok?

Oh yeah, that's right. Big bad sixxbach is going to fuck up a mothefucker who speaks up against me. Pssshhhh get a clue. I think all the smoke you have been inhaling over the 40 years you have been dancing to half empty strip bars has done some damage to your mental capabilities. Originally Posted by sixxbach

First of all, you're about 15 years off on your insult. Second? You need to calm down, you're going to give yourself a nosebleed.

Also, I won't question the mental state of your mind if you don't speculate on the medical reasons behind the mental state of mine...and besides, you as a former mod should know that you should not make a medical diagnosis, right Doctor? ;-)

I was going to be nice to you and not post anything but your post was so far off that I had to point it out. Are you going to finally hang it up in 2012? Originally Posted by sixxbach

Now why did you go ahead and prove your detractors right?

Sixx…you're just not very good at this game anymore…you let your emotions get the better of you!

Ivory must be having a slow night to an half empty strip club. Originally Posted by sixxbach

Actually I had a pretty good day and decided to come home a bit earlier than planned…I dance day shift from 11am to 7pm for the most part and will be until the middle of next week..not at night, but thank you for your concern…it warms my heart.

Be sure to tip your DJ, since I am sure he has to change the lights to make you look a little better Originally Posted by sixxbach

Be sure to keep those insults coming…you're singlehandedly defeating all your (and others) "arguments" regarding the point of this thread.

Homer is not one to revel in the drama. He disagrees with you and you question his reading comprehension yet you bitch about how mean I am, etc. Originally Posted by sixxbach

I actually didn't question his reading comprehension, but I am questioning yours because my statement was obviously hard for you to understand…what I REALLY said, was that he was "one of those guys who gets miffed and can't get a hard on when a woman stands up for herself" because I assume he DOES have good reading skills.

Besides, Homer has referred to dancers as "uggos" and "fatties" and oldies", in addition to hailing Whispers as a "natural leader", so we all know where his bias lies, which is why I commented on his ironic post claiming I had no credibility when he has none because he is simply pining for a pat on the back from his good old boy Whispers.

You are just trying to drum up any business for your stripping career that is nearing its end. Remember toots, time waits for no one.... Originally Posted by sixxbach

I don't have to try…you do it for me…thanks darlin!

I think Ivory is just a older washed up version of Taylor Maiden....LMAO.. Originally Posted by Wyldeman30

Please don't insult Taylor like that......

sixx