fair is fair

People who live in glass houses should not throw stones.....

You mean english. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Gold Z !! The only way that could have been any funnier was if he said "engrish"


@IV, come on girl, you gotta admit that's ironic and funny as shit. I got nailed for a typo in here so I get a freebie

So here's a thought..... If a provider harms you on a date, ruin her by blasting her in a review. On the other hand if we get harmed were less likely to live to tell about it.

Another thought.... We providers have reviews, board personas, reviewing hobbyist that you can utilize to research us. What do we have to research you besides a board persona & a screen name?

THATS WHY WE REQUIRE MORE INFO FROM YOU!! We are risking our lives by seeing someone we've never met. And yes you may be risking your family & career but I think death is a much bigger deal!!

The only hobbyists I've ever known unwilling to give personal info were the ones who have ill intentions or are possibly LE. Either way no info = no appointment in my book. What good would having her info do you? You get arrested & you give her name so she gets in trouble alongside with you? That's what it sounds like to me.

Do you really think she's going to overpower you & harm you? That's why I require real info. Safety. If she has a pimp that hurts you god forbid, what are you going to do. Report her name to LE? "yes officer I was seeing a provider for so & so amount of $ and her pimp robbed me. Do you think they'll let you walk away cause you know her name?


Thanks for your service & I say the sincerely but get used to the sound of the dial tone. Anyone willing to see you after reading this is seriously jeapordizing her anonymity & possibly her life. This just strikes me as very "stalkerish" Originally Posted by ali*cat

Ali,

Unfortunately he neither comprehends nor does he care. He has defined his idea of “fairness”, and he ignores the fact that the rest of the equation is inherently not equal. People have patiently pointed this out to him, and have even given him several good options on how to avoid giving out his personal information—but he is being intentionally obtuse.

I am willing to be he read your post and files it as unimportant, wrong, or not his problem.

By the way—great smile! J

The only idiot here are people like you speak before you understand the question make a cone sided comment and have no ideal what the other is commenting about Originally Posted by onedaddy

One daddy,

A few things for you in no particular order.

You are beginning to get stuck in a rut. You have now claimed multiple times that disagreeing with you is the same as “not reading what you post”. Everyone here actually does understand what you wrote. We are just informing you—over and over, much as we would a small child throwing a tantrum—that most of us think you are not correct. That’s all. I doubt any of us will post our degree from remedial reading on here, but trust me, most of us can read quite well.

Second, thank you for being my morning amusement these past few days. I find myself rushing to see if you posted a new comment embarrassing yourself even more. I know that isn’t very nice of me—I admit it—but it’s like reading the comics in the newspaper. You have gone from posting a contrarian view of screening to becoming a sad, comedic caricature. The man who refuses to use a spell checker, keeps throwing out red herrings, and does not address the arguments most people have raised. I don’t recall reading your posts on other threads, but trust me, this thread is doing very little positive for your image on here. You have become the Eccie equivalent of Charlie Brown kicking the football—we know what will happen, but we are still eager to see it again and again.

Third, you have fixated on ONE part of the screening/trust building equation, conveniently ignoring the bigger picture—even though it has been mentioned to you more than once on here. But, contrary to what you might think, I am a nice, helpful guy so I offer you a possible solution. See below.

Finally, let me suggest one way you might actually get some ladies to agree to give you the information you want. Somehow I don’t suspect it will be acceptable to you, but we are eight pages into this and you have not liked the less drastic suggestions. So, try this:

1. Get yourself a web site. Put your photos on there (of course make sure they are current, show your important assets including your face. Pick out some revealing underwear, and have them professionally done. Besides the photos, tell us your age, stats, phone number, etc.

2. Next, ask the ladies you have seen to post reviews of you where the ladies you want to see can read them. Make sure they comment on your demeanor, whether the photos were accurate, how well you DATY, kiss, etc., how long and thick you are, etc. Were you fresh smelling? Did you show up on time? Would they see you again? Just read a number of the reviews here and I’m sure you can get a good idea what they need to address. But make sure they are well respected ladies who have some board cred. You don’t want only a couple ladies who have no other reviews otherwise we might think they are just your shills and that won’t do you any good.

3. Join P411, D-C, etc. so the ladies can have some confidence that you are safe.

If you do those things then you will build some credibility that you really DO want to make screening an equitable process. You might find a lady is more willing to treat you “fairly” in screening. Or maybe not—but it’s worth a shot.

really people coming down on someone because of a typo...this is what I mean this board has changed so much and instead of being nice people are attacking people...I am sorry I see his point and with stand by it in my opinion certain personal information does not need to shared on either side... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Dear Lady, I think most people have agreed with that point. That is why so many told him, politely, to just skip over the ladies who ask for info he is uncomfortable giving out. Unfortunately that does not seem to be what his issue is. He seems fixated on telling ladies that they need to tell him their personal info.

Personally I agree with you, and I do not give out my personal info--but I would NEVER ask a lady for hers. This is an odd business in many ways and I would never tell someone how they should feel safe, but for him to be stuck on wanting a lady to make herself even more vulnerable than she already is is--in my mind--wrong.

Irish you can agree with him, I know I respect your opinion, even though I disagree. That is the part it seems onedaddy cannot understand. everytime he points his fingers at how wrong the whole world is, he has three pointing back at him. I thnik he does not understand that we simply and respectfully disagree with his position, that's all. He keeps telling the world to read, and telling us what is wrong with us and our difference of opinion. No one here told him he was wrong at least that I recall. He was the one telling ALL of us we are wrong. When the whole world is telling Joie he has problem and Joe says it is not him, Joe is prolly wrong most of the time. It is not that his opinion is wrong, it is just that anopinion and how can that be wrong. What is wrong is telling us our opinions are wrong.

I can read and I can write, i just disagree that's all.

Also, wanted to comment that no provider ever gets my personal info beyond first name only, if she wants more than that, have a good day. I have plenty of refs. I thnik the man has a lot to lose in gving his personal info, blackmail, especially for the married guys. Once a lady has your personal info she can easily blackmail, and men get robbed as well. I had a friend show up at an incall and three guys were there, beat the crap out of him and took his money. He did not get laid either, lol. So, a lot at stake on both sides. My opinion only is that if onedaddy requires personal info on a lady to see her, then he should move on to another lady willing to give it, not blast one that did not meet his self proclaimed all encompassing and FAIR rules, that's all.

really people coming down on someone because of a typo...this is what I mean this board has changed so much and instead of being nice people are attacking people...I am sorry I see his point and with stand by it in my opinion certain personal information does not need to shared on either side... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

I've never known this place as the place to go for polite discourse, but they may not have come down on him about typos if he hadn't been telling someone else they didn't understand English.

Your screening method works for you. Cool. Some ask for more information. If it works for them, cool. There is some information I won't give. If someone else is willing to provide more information, cool. Basically, like the real world, we live with the consequences of the choices we make.

Iv saved god speed to y'all I guess y'all don't understand english so ill break it down so y'all can understand it
good by Originally Posted by onedaddy

Saying goodbye won't end the feeding frenzy. That's that everyone-can-say-what's-on-their-mind thing at work. If the mod tires of the vitriole, he can lock the thread. You can also ask the mod to lock the thread.

Other than that, the feeding frenzy can continue indefinitely. FYI.

Now that's much better!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

This thread is dying a quite entertaining death

Something that puzzles me is if a Provider has already come accross as being a bitch, why the heck would you want to spend time with Her? In case you haven't notised, there are a LOT of Hookers out there. In fact, there are quite a few nice ones.

If you don't like her, move on. You are better off in the long run.

No y'all are wrong ask a question 20 ways get 40 different answers
make a point 10 ways get 30 points of view
what you have proven to me is who to trust and not trust
who's reviews to believe and which one to through out

Yes I do listen yes I can read.
Best advise is check your on 6 before you check mine

Thank for the leason

I've never known this place as the place to go for polite discourse, but they may not have come down on him about typos if he hadn't been telling someone else they didn't understand English.

Your screening method works for you. Cool. Some ask for more information. If it works for them, cool. There is some information I won't give. If someone else is willing to provide more information, cool. Basically, like the real world, we live with the consequences of the choices we make. Originally Posted by emptywallet

I have stated numerous times if you want certain information from me then you should be willing to provide the same information
if you want my first name give me yours

I have stated numerous times if you want certain information from me then you should be willing to provide the same information
if you want my first name give me yours Originally Posted by onedaddy

and we have stated no girl on here will give you her name.

So why are you still whining?

really people coming down on someone because of a typo...this is what I mean this board has changed so much and instead of being nice people are attacking people...I am sorry I see his point and with stand by it in my opinion certain personal information does not need to shared on either side... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

I sorry people are coming down on you because you understand where im coming from
im man enough to publicly apologize to you

What? You could not come up with a pic of a cat licking the windows on the short bus?

and we have stated no girl on here will give you her name.

So why are you still whining?


Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

That's why I choose ladies and not girls by definition

That's why I choose ladies and not girls by definition Originally Posted by onedaddy

Perfect! Your all set then!!!!

however ...........