Big Dicks in the Hobby: Accepted or Rejected?

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You want a sense of OWNERSHIP on something your dont really own. Originally Posted by gimme_that

Not sure how you come to that conclusion. I don't feel ownership over anyone. If anything...they own ME!!!

This is a very emotional business. You're right...it's fantasy. If she says something - doesn't even have to be about dick size...if she says anything about my weight, or my face, or anything else - it destroys that fantasy. I'll move on to someone else who can provide that fantasy. I am under no illusion that the provider digs me for any reason other than business. I've fucked some pretty hot providers who wouldn't spit in my direction if we weren't in the hobby.

Guys equate dick size with their manhood. It's been that way since early man saw another man's penis. If a girl intimates in any way that she prefers a larger guy, then what Mr. Average or Mr. Small is hearing is that if he doesn't measure up, he's less of a man. And that kills the mood.

I'm comfortable with my size...and I have enough skills at other things that I can show a lady a pretty damn good time. But if I get the sense that she's judging me for any reason, I'll call it off. I'm paying for that fantasy, the fantasy that she's into me. I know she's not. But it's my dime.

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Ha!

Big dick!!! Little dick!!! Who gives a flying fuck. This is pay for pussy not love on the range. I'll stick with a big brain and wallet. Dick size is immaterial

Guys equate dick size with their manhood. It's been that way since early man saw another man's penis. If a girl intimates in any way that she prefers a larger guy, then what Mr. Average or Mr. Small is hearing is that if he doesn't measure up, he's less of a man. And that kills the mood. Originally Posted by coachstl

That is the guys problem not the providers. Anyone that equates their dick size with their "manhood" is an idiot. I know some guys with big dicks think that makes them better but they are idiots. I suspect most guys with big dicks are not that stupid. How you take care of your family and treat others is a much better measure of your manhood.

We all have self image issues of some nature but we all have to accept what we are and make the best of it. I am sure the ladies have the same types of issues when hobbyists make comments about their physical appearance.

Nobody said it was the provider's problem. OF COURSE the better measure of a man is how they take care of their family. That's an entirely different subject...has nothing to do with sexuality.

However, you make a good point about the essence of a man and what a man should be measured by. Unfortunately we live in a different kind of world.

Big dick!!! Little dick!!! Who gives a flying fuck. This is pay for pussy not love on the range. I'll stick with a big brain and wallet. Dick size is immaterial Originally Posted by burkalini

Pretty simple because if your too big it hurts. Who wants to get paid for a painful experience?

Pretty simple because if your too big it hurts. Who wants to get paid for a painful experience? Originally Posted by brandilynn

Some of us providers are into heavy BDSM. lol

whatever your size is i have penis envy of you because yours has neen inside of shayla. id take a 3" cock thats been there over a footlong that hasn't been any day

Being from Canada, metric has its advantages when using numbers for measurement especially in my case..... Originally Posted by canuckvic

i have always noticed tats posts. while i generally go for the spinner types she has the look combined with the attitude that just makes you wanna have her one time. perhaps she will make the buffalo trip sometime soon and my average penis can explore that beautiful body

Thanks Darlin, Sorry I'm not down south to enjoy you southern gentlemen. You all seem like a great time Originally Posted by Tatiana M.

whether its 2" or ten it probably cant holdout more than 5 minutes anyways. wow spectacular

I think I've seen every variation of size. I've never turned anyone down. But I've popped a couple aspirin after a few sessions. LOL. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

I have to weigh in on Magnums. here is my humble opinion... they are bullshit unless your a giant cocked monster.

I myself have a pretty decent cock. Women in real life have told me that it is the perfect size. Long bout not too long, thick but not too thick, slutty chicks have said it is big and escorts have said it is big. Since I have read that 6 1/2 inches is the scientific median and most women claim 6 inches is the average, I am well over that.
So I said that to say this. I have always used regular sized condoms. Some are a bit snugger than others, but I once tried a magnum. It was more roomier but I was not impressed. not worth the extra money.
I am comfortable enough in my awesome cock not to need to stroke my ego about it. I just need a provider to stroke it...preferably with their breasts.

Why couldn't God have made me rich, instead of well hung.

Bumper sticker I saw once. Originally Posted by ripiceman

funny

Dick Badcock, Thank you for keeping your ego in check in describing your "pretty decent cock" that women say is "the perfect size." They would know. And it is nice to know that you don't waste your money on Magnums. In that vein we are very much alike.

Who gives a rat's ass how big anyone's cock is? Whatever size it is, it's what you were given through genetics. It's nothing to brag about and doesn't make you more of a man. If you want to brag about something, brag about your good education or your success in business or anything else that you had to work to attain. Cock size is not how you measure a true man. Are you a generous, charitable person? Do you treat others with respect and compassion? Have you raised your children to be responsible, respectful members of society? Feel free to brag about any of that.

Cock size is like having a full head of hair into your 60's or being tall. We are all given certain "gifts" at birth. It's what we do with those gifts that determines what and who we become as men.

Just for the record, mine is very average. However, it did father 4 children (and I adopted two more), and they are all responsible, productive members of our society and have blessed me with 12 grandkids. Yep, I'm bragging!!

Of course, this is just my humble opinion.

Well done SIR