Whisp-why am I having to defend myself on a thread about hobbyist time wasters???? and people wonder why ladies dont report problems.....
Originally Posted by Ms Francisca
You knew from the beginning you would have to answer questions when you posted. Some harder than others.....
But getting out ahead of the story is not a bad thing to do at times.
As Men we all tend to use what we have, that you need, as leverage to get what we want. In playing the Sugar Daddy game I definitely do.....
It's kind of like "nature" I guess but at some point it can become predatory.
If you were the 23yo college girl vs the mean old man with something you needed luring you into his bed there would be a more sympathetic group I think.
In this case though..... I would have to ask..... What were you thinking?....
That being said..... As you have described it..... We only have details from you..... it would seem his actions were calculated and designed to get what he wanted......Yours were more of dreams being fulfilled.......
But was that wrong? I don't know... I would like to hear more from him.....
In regards to statements you made in regards to the house get counsel. What you do for a living is irrelevant if there is a lawyer there to keep it out. You have described a number of conditions that it are simply against the law to allow. There should be a Tenants Counsel there.
For anyone with an eviction pending you definitely need to know your rights. They are easily challenged and can backfire in the best of Landlord's Faces getting them in deep shit with some judges.
Eviction Court is Small Claims Court and some of those Judges throw out the law and find a reason to do what they want. Very few WANT to put someone out of a home in freezing weather.
Check your PMs for more info.
Back to the thread..... there are more stories here than just Ms Francesca's experience with Laz.....
Although this one is a pretty good example of the pitfalls for any of us on one side to get involved with the other.....
I have simply never understood the passion and fervor that goes into some of the guys pursuit of a hooker for a girlfriend.