Dinner Date

pickupkid's Avatar
Do you like paying an escort to have dinner with you and then sex for desert or do you just like to pay for sex?
pickupkid's Avatar
I like taking the escort out for dinner I but don't want pay extra for down time
cumalot's Avatar
I've never taken an escort out for dinner before but it is on my bucket list...If I did take her to dinner it woud be on the clock, I don't mind the down time...ijs
I like to schedule for mulit-hour dates so after BCD time, I like to get something to eat and always enjoy company.
bathwater's Avatar
I enjoy an evening date... some entertainment, a bite to eat, all mixed in with lots of flirting and teasing this is a great platform to role play from.

I just had a provider ask me if we could role play a bondage scene she is fantasizing about.
Brasky's Avatar
I've dinner with a couple girls, but it was after the date and off the clock. Kind of small talk "so what are you doing now...getting a bit, me too etc" One was a semi regular and one was a first visit.
Pink Floyd's Avatar
I often have lunch before our BCD time with my ATF, as a matter of fact we just had lunch today because we just enjoy each other so much. She is on a hiatus from the Hobby this summer so I am seeing another girl later today. Other than paying for the dinner I have never paid anything else for any lunch or dinner with anyone. I did have a waitress at a SC that experienced a tragedy in her life and I asked if she would like to go out to dinner, and I was honestly just consoling her and the next day she came up and asked for $40 to go out to dinner, I just smiled and walked away. She knows she fucked up royally with me. I was just being a decent person and letting her talk because she liked to pour out her troubles to me. Sex hadn't even entered the equation although it would have down the line.
Cpalmson's Avatar
Going out to dinner with a provider is kinda a no-no in my book. To much of an opportunity to be outed. I would only consider doing it if it was totally UTR. If I'm partaking in a multi-hour date, I wouldn't mind dining in, but she'd have to be one helluva cook
burkalini's Avatar
I actually took a couple of providers out for dinner off the clock and both ended in off the clock sessions. Of course I tipped them but one refused the tip.
LucadeJure's Avatar
A majority of my dates end up at a dinner table after BCD time ... I've never paid for that time nor been asked to compensate the lady for her time ... we always go to nice restaurants ... so I am paying in a manner of speaking.

This past winter a lady and I were sitting in a very nice Italian restaurant, after playtime, sipping Chianti and I asked her "What's that on your chin?". She licked the spot I was pointing at, tasted it, and calmly said, "OMG, I've still got your nut on my chin." I choked trying not to spew Chianti. Those moments are priceless.
I love dinner dates. I love flirting UNDER the table if you know what I mean...and of course, playing um...hand games while we're seated and the napkin is hiding the obvious. And when no one's looking, give him a flash of my lovely boobies. That's more of an appetizer though. Oh yes, the real dessert comes a little later. Maybe even in the car on the way back to the hotel for a double whammy dessert
bistraight69's Avatar
I have my SO, relatives, and friends to go out to dinner with. I just want some hot sex BCDs with a provider.
When I am out of town, I try to book a 2 hour date at the proivders' usual 2 hour rate. I request a one hour bcd appetizer, followed by a relaxing off the clock dinner at a nice restaurant (not Burger King!). Then we cap the evening with one hour bcd dessert. The timing matches my libido, so to speak.

I offer this arrangement to the provider in detail so there will be no misunderstanding. The only provider that wanted $$ for dinner was in Dallas, and I thanked her but went elsewhere... no hard feelings.

JME.

Huck
ForumPoster's Avatar
When we offer dinner date packages, we factor in the fact that we are ON entire time during said dates. We may not be performing sexually during dinner (hence discounted multi hour rates), but we still make sure YOU are having best time of YOUR life. We are not going to pull the usual girl stuff and bitch about you parking the car too far, wearing wrong suit, choosing wrong restaurant. We won't tell you that day's drama with another girl, or make you look at pictures of new comforter we want to buy on Amazon and definitely won't make you stop by the vet's office to get eye drops for Fluffy the Cat.

We make sure that all that stays in out personal life and bring on the A game.


So, question for all the gentlemen who are adamant supporters of "i don't pay anyone for dinner" line.

I imagine a lot of you routinely go out to dinners with your clients and business associates. I know I did when I was in corporate world.

Do you honestly equate having dinner with friends/family and having dinner with a client? Do you behave in same relaxed manner when you are dining for business? Do you express your opinions as freely? Are you looking forward to entertaining out of town corp exec just as much as having the night on the town with some of closest friends?

Lina
burkalini's Avatar
I agree if you offer dinner packages and someone takes you up on it then you are "on" as you put it, but to mention are you relaxed when we are on a businees lunch I imagine we are as relaxed as you are on a provider date since your putting on your "A" game as you put it. When the dinner is off the clock as I have experienced there is not game at all just real appetites with two people talking about whatever. When I was on off the clock dinners with a couple of providers the profession never came up. Just real bullshit. There is a difference.