Sexy Fem DOM in the making

I have been an exceptional gf for the past couple of years and now I have ventured in a new world thanks to one of my suitors.

I have always been insterested in FemDom but wasn’t sure how to become one. I started seeing a gentleman who has patiently walked me through how to dominate a man. I was eager to learn and have learned very quickly. He has become my faithful submissive boy toy. I love dominating him and feel like I’m ready for the next step. I have grown an insatiable need to dominate & I want MORE!

My question is... where do I find more submissive boy toys to play with? What sites/forums work best? Also any pointers/advise on how to be an excellent Dom is greatly appreciated.

PS I also love having my feet worshipped so if anyone knows of sites that are focused on that please also send them my way.

SalmaXO

You are a very attractive woman, and I’m certain you will find many submissive minded guys on this site.

My question is... where do I find more submissive boy toys to play with?

SalmaXO Originally Posted by Latin DollXO

Right here 😍🔥. Obviously you can join forums on FetLife. There's also forums on max fisch as well as advertising.

Depends on your clients, some (IMO) like the thought and feeling of having you in control. I imagine some are deep into the submissive role to the point of their giving you full control of their senses and would like to be in your servitude. For me, I have a fantasy of someone tying me up and having her way with me with no pain involved just a sensory overload. I like the book “Screw the Roses give me the Thorns”, it describes the best practices in BDSM, although I don’t think my fantasy counts as that, I think it’s a great read.

You might want to join fetlife. Multiple forums and local activities to join, learn from and search

Subby boys for your personal life -- Fetlife and attend local events.

Subby boys in your stable for work -- Update your p411 to include those activities (also other sites where you advertise); perhaps an add in OH2s section for domination (ECCIE does not have a particular section for such advertisements, only discussions), perhaps add some photos to ECCIE, OH2, other sites that include Femdom dress, gear, etc.
Read and learn. Find what YOU enjoy in this activity and study and play with in that area. I find if my Domme is enjoying herself, I am happy. :-) Listen to your boy toys. Everyone is different.

http://www.femdom-resource.com/femdom-fiction/

Travel my way sometime, sure we have something in common.

http://www.femdom-resource.com/femdom-fiction/ Originally Posted by bigmiketwo

Great resource, Thanks!