Ok, enough is enough. I have been polite, respectful, firm, even mean....and apparently I'm talking to a wall. So perhaps I'll ask for some feedback from the group here as I know some of the ladies have had similar experiences.
What started as a fun hobby relationship has devolved into what feels like a nightmare! Had a few sessions with the client, developed a good rapport, all good. One thing bothered me about him always pushing for more time, keep playing, even well after our scheduled visit. But I figured that's on me to control. Also had a couple off the clock times that were pretty good....with the exception of the keep pushing for more and wanting free sessions.
Fast forward to a night when I text to see if he wanted to play, I was bored. Long story short, he said yes, then lied about why he didn't show up. Really only realized it when I had dinner with the lady he had been with lol. Not really a big deal, we laughed, talked about shared experience with him then took a selfie of the two of us and sent it to him. I figured this along with a brief note stating I had no interest in seeing him anymore, would be the end of it.
Apparently not. Numerous PMs asking the see me, repeated PMs of me saying no. And yet another local provider shared even more craziness....seems he did all this and more to her as a different handle, pelicanboy, and is up to the same thing again. Add to that, hes complaining that IM the reason no one will see him.....WTF??
As I said, I had no hard feelings, just no interest in ever spending time with him, paid or otherwise. But it seems he just won't stop. I finally figured out the ignore button but not sure what all that hides/shows.
So....since in this town, there are those of us who DO talk with each other and look out for each other, it stands to reason if you mess with too many of us, word gets out. Works that way on the guys side too. I try very hard to maintain a classy reputation and to be respectful and kind always.
What do you do when that doesn't work?
Thanks for letting me vent...just so frustrated over this, truly never had a guy refuse to take NO for an answer