Dinner date suggestion:
Bohanan's Prime Steaks & Seafood. Classic steakhouse, amazing service. Start with a couple of cocktails in the downstairs bar.
www.bohanansbar.com
Then go upstairs for some of the best steaks in the entire state. If you really want to splurge, try the Akaushi beef (it's the same cattle that makes Kobe beef but produced in this country). It's a classic, old-school approach to a steakhouse but the staff here make it feel fresh.
www.bohanans.com
Also, Biga on the Banks.
www.biga.com
Or, The Sandbar.
www.sandbarsa.com
I like the Lodge and Citrus suggestions, too. Miss Molly's suggestions are nice for a quick getaway, also.
As for Capparelli's, the one near downtown, on Main, is the best one. It's a neighborhood red sauce kind of place. I'd always go there before any chain.