Message to lurkers-kind

I understand how hard it is to reach out through texting or emailing or through a site like this. It takes guts to join some thing it really desire and yet you’re hesitant. I want you to know when you message a provider it’s confidential. There are rules about that on this board. So you could message me here or on my email directly and tell me what’s holding you back or why you haven’tTaken the plunge yet. I just want you to know that your secrets secrets are safe with me and if you ever have questions or concerns or worries or you just want to tell somebody your deepest fantasy that doesn’t mean you want to come true necessarily but maybe it could. I’m just asking those of you to participate and take a chance you’ve got to start somewhere