I try to hold back enough to cover expenses & short travels. I'm low volume enough sometimes cancels truly hurt but not enough to sink me by no means. That said if I'm traveling and have never met you before a deposit gurantees I'm not going to completely loose out if the gent flakes.
Originally Posted by yourdesire
Really? Your argument is one sided . Some don't seem to understand the vast number of rip off people, even guys pretending to be women, who ask for a deposit with no intention of ever showing up. It is straight profit by only working on a computer.
If a guy doesn't know you, why would he be stupid enough to advance money to someone he had never met? This is especially true in the age where arrangements are made, and deposits requested, without ever having voice contact with the other person. Wow, if I don't get to talk to a lady first: how do I know it is even a lady?
If a guy shows interest, he deserves to be able to confirm some information.
There are two side to the coin.