fisting

ok, so i have been watching porn a lot with my SO. the one that looked interesting and we had tried was fisting...
OWWW!!! btw. he kept hitting bone and could not get his whole fist int here no matter what we did... or position we did it in...
what is the right way of doing this? And are there girls out there that like it? ( not afraid of stretching out like am) lol.
guys... does this turn u on? just curious..


licks and kisses
Been there once with an Austin provider many years ago. Her request and she got real juicy over it.
Got close with a SA provider who stopped when the pinky was added.
The Bear ;-)
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Fisting's not for everyone. Especially if your vaginal canal is small.
If you wish to enjoy this with your partner. Make sure his fist is saturated with lube as well as your pussy lips. The wetter the better. Less friction.
Have him insert 4 fingers (straight-not bent). Then slowly have him insert his thumb. And as he's slowly inserting all five fingers have him gently close his fingers into a fist position. IF you feel pain. Try to get yourself into a different position (while inside). Sometimes laying on your back can cause the muscles in your vaginal canal to be too tight. So try it in doggie position and have him insert his hand from behind. Your vaginal muscles are a bit more relaxed in that position. And then slowly have him move his fist in & out. building up to a faster rhythm that your body can handle. All the while doing your kegel exercises and putting a grip on his fist.

Afterward, have him insert some ice cubes and or a frozen Popsicle. To cool you down inside and to bring the tightness right back.


Fisting is a feeling like no other. The bone structure in the hand lends to a totally different feeling unlike anything else. It heightens ones climaxes and massages the vaginal canal in ways a cock doesn't.
It's just another sex toy of the human kind!!
Aftershock's Avatar
Get an SO with smaller fists! JK MsLove, seriously though I occasionally love watching some hot girl on girl fisting or solo fisting and it looks like it works for them because their hands are smaller. But thats just an observation heh heh, well several observations of several hot videos heh heh. In the mean time heres a link with some tips http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesb.../HowtoFist.htm

I read another site with a more detailed tips and directions but I cant find it atm . If I find it Ill post for you. Good luck and have fun with the experimentation!
we have tried different positions and more lube... seems like he gets 4 fingers in and it hurts like hell.... lol.... even three hurt sometimes...
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Sorry to hear that. The last thing you want, is to feel discomfort or be in excruciating pain.





we have tried different positions and more lube... seems like he gets 4 fingers in and it hurts like hell.... lol.... even three hurt sometimes... Originally Posted by mslovebjs68
Willen's Avatar
I suspect fisting is one of those activities where the physical combination makes a ton of difference. I've only had one lady, now retired, ask for it. She was petite and I am not, but I have fairly small hands. We did this after a lot of fooling around, and she was soaking wet by the time we began. Otherwise, we began just as Wicked Milf has indicated. She had a fabulous time, and I had my first experience with squirting.
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Um I have big hands... and if I could get my fist inside something, I seriously doubt it would be too much fun putting something else in after.