I was just thinking about this today. I don't think the providers out there realize what enormus pressure your average hobbiest is under on a regular basis. We have our local girls that we want to see, then we have travelers that we want to see, and even utr's that we want to see. Just this morning while I was looking at the ads for Corpus I got a text from a broke utr, then a call from another utr who I haven't seen lately. I counted 8 traveling girls who are either in Corpus , or planning on being here soon.
When you consider that most of us are juggling jobs, wives, kids, employees, customers, etc. along with all of these difficult decisions to make in the hobby on a weekly or sometimes daily basis, it is a wonder that we ever get anything done.
So ladies, next time you start to think what a bunch of jerks we are, try to remember the incredible pressure we are under and what kind of man you have to be to play this game. :-)