Okay, I got the following text from a provider I've seen and been in communication with. Our convo is mainly about kink in the sack. She's shared with me her desire to do strap on play, but she hasn't found a willing partner. The convo drifted between in and out of the hobby activities as we have discussed many different sex/dating type topics. She then texted me this the other day:
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I have several dilemmas here. Dilemma one, it sounds very interesting, but I've never come close to doing anything like this. Dilemma two, this is her fantasy. She is looking for someone to play with. It kinda blurs the line between on and off the clock fun. If it is her fantasy and I'm the only guy who is willing to help her take the plunge, should it be on the clock for her? Or, should this be something we do off the clock. Granted I don't mind participating, but it is something I'd never actually request. Comments?