Provider's fantasy question....

Cpalmson's Avatar
Okay, I got the following text from a provider I've seen and been in communication with. Our convo is mainly about kink in the sack. She's shared with me her desire to do strap on play, but she hasn't found a willing partner. The convo drifted between in and out of the hobby activities as we have discussed many different sex/dating type topics. She then texted me this the other day:

[private communication removed - GM]

I have several dilemmas here. Dilemma one, it sounds very interesting, but I've never come close to doing anything like this. Dilemma two, this is her fantasy. She is looking for someone to play with. It kinda blurs the line between on and off the clock fun. If it is her fantasy and I'm the only guy who is willing to help her take the plunge, should it be on the clock for her? Or, should this be something we do off the clock. Granted I don't mind participating, but it is something I'd never actually request. Comments?
fire engine red's Avatar
Okay, I got the following text from a provider I've seen and been in communication with. Our convo is mainly about kink in the sack. She's shared with me her desire to do strap on play, but she hasn't found a willing partner. The convo drifted between in and out of the hobby activities as we have discussed many different sex/dating type topics. She then texted me this the other day:


[private communication removed - GM]

I have several dilemmas here. Dilemma one, it sounds very interesting, but I've never come close to doing anything like this. Dilemma two, this is her fantasy. She is looking for someone to play with. It kinda blurs the line between on and off the clock fun. If it is her fantasy and I'm the only guy who is willing to help her take the plunge, should it be on the clock for her? Or, should this be something we do off the clock. Granted I don't mind participating, but it is something I'd never actually request. Comments? Originally Posted by Cpalmson
You should be asking her.
Or you can quote her your rates of her fantacy.
It could go either way.
Best of luck, Cpalmson
NachoN's Avatar
I'd do that for her!
If it is her fantasy and I'm the only guy who is willing to help her take the plunge, should it be on the clock for her? Or, should this be something we do off the clock. Granted I don't mind participating, but it is something I'd never actually request. Comments? Originally Posted by Cpalmson
For me, not only would it have to be off the clock but she would have to pay ME. A LOT!

torpedo69's Avatar
I would think if this is for her fantasy it should be off the clock.
Have her pm me, lol!
Okay, I got the following text from a provider I've seen and been in communication with. Our convo is mainly about kink in the sack. She's shared with me her desire to do strap on play, but she hasn't found a willing partner. The convo drifted between in and out of the hobby activities as we have discussed many different sex/dating type topics. She then texted me this the other day:

[private communication removed - GM]

I have several dilemmas here. Dilemma one, it sounds very interesting, but I've never come close to doing anything like this. Dilemma two, this is her fantasy. She is looking for someone to play with. It kinda blurs the line between on and off the clock fun. If it is her fantasy and I'm the only guy who is willing to help her take the plunge, should it be on the clock for her? Or, should this be something we do off the clock. Granted I don't mind participating, but it is something I'd never actually request. Comments? Originally Posted by Cpalmson
have her pm me also-i live for this type of activity!!!
The Slut's Avatar
So many unselfish volunteers.
Have her PM me too! Repetition is the mother of learning. Practice , practice, until she gets it right.
mm-good's Avatar
Hmmm, good question. IMHO, I think its is all 'on the clock' unless you are at a level of relationship that you are both a fwb and a client. again, IMHO, but even though it is her fantasy - unless you want to blur the lines more - keep it clean. if you go for blurring the lines , i recommend having that talk up front with her....
Ms. Athena's Avatar
Some many sweet lil sluts.......cum here naughty boys, Ill use your sweet lil ass's for my pleasure............yum!!
CajunGent's Avatar
Her fantasy was deleted before I read it - can't comment.
Cpalmson's Avatar
Her fantasy was deleted before I read it - can't comment. Originally Posted by CajunGent
She was getting herself off to porn where a girl was using a strap-on on a guy while the guy was jerking off on the girl. She wanted to live out that scene in real life.

P.S. I hope this doesn't break any rules.
Some many sweet lil sluts.......cum here naughty boys, Ill use your sweet lil ass's for my pleasure............yum!! Originally Posted by Ms. Athena
I am really curious as to what it is that you enjoy from it? Details please.
Have her PM me too! Repetition is the mother of learning. Practice , practice, until she gets it right. Originally Posted by nubuzz2010
She can practice on me