Frustrating experience

Hi all,

Just wanted to share my experience in trying to find a suitable companion in Chicago / Dallas. I don't know that anyone cares, and am not out to offend anyone

I find the whole process to be incredibly frustrating for a newbie. I was about to sign up for P411 only to be told by a provider that I also need references. I don't do this or even plan to do this on a regular enough basis to request reviews from providers. I find it disappointing that despite my willingness to abide by all rules of etiquette / courtesy, there has been such a lack of response. I almost feel as if I need to sell myself. I understand the other side of the equation in terms of safety / screening - Just frustrated I guess.

Have any of the men on here had similar experiences? I am about to write this off as a failed experiment.

I was about to sign up for P411 only to be told by a provider that I also need references. Originally Posted by unreal23

I was a newbie when I signed up with P411. Having provider references is one way to go, but I had no provider refs, so I simply provided them verification info that allowed the P411 folks to approve me directly. It was very discreet, never a hiccup. Some guys don't like giving out any personal info, so that's a personal decision on your part.

BTW, that was five years ago and there has never been an issue for me. Once verified on P411, it's easier to find newbie friendly providers. Unless Gina has changed policy, that would be my recommendation.

If a lady won't accept your P411 verification, hell just move on to another provider. Its not like there is a shortage of ladies in either of those cities that would love to collect your cash. With all the hoops Gina and her staff make guys jump through to get verified, there's not much reason for a lady to turn it down. I mean how much more secure of a reference can you get than P411? Thats why its there after all. We all tell noobs that they must be verified and ladies won't see them without it. Then ladies tell them thats not good enough? No wonder its frustrating, I would say fuck it too!

Also, start a new post in the ISO sections of those cities for what you are looking for. Your PM box will fill up pretty quickly with ladies very willing to see you.

Many ladies take P411 withOUT additional references so you could still see many ladies. That provider was just speaking for herself.

However, if you had your heart set on a particular provider it was good to ask here what she required before signing up.

Also, there are ladies who are "newbie friendly" who won't require provider refs or P411. It will take a bit of searching but they're out there.

What Honey Rose said.... There are many providers on P411 who advertise as newbie friendly.

P411 is your best bet. Some women are newbie friendly and will do their own checks, but you will not find many that will meet you without some kind of references or P411. Your other option is backpage where you could probably find several that would probably go newbie friendly, but do so at your own risk because there are some great women on BP, but there are also many rip off artists.

Chica had it right, if at first you don't succeed, there are many beautiful ladies on this site and I image you could find one to work with you.

Good Luck,

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Thanks for the input Pyramider. Most helpful! But, I'm reasonably sure most guys know about that option

I almost gave up after a couple of bad experiences on BP. Finding ECCIE was the best thing I did for finding providers and joining P411 was like putting it in overdrive. Reps are not built overnite but there are a lot of ladies here to help. Glad I didn't give up and so will you.

Thanks for the input Pyramider. Most helpful! But, I'm reasonably sure most guys know about that option Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Maybe not . . . especially when thincking with the little head.

Maybe not . . . especially when thincking with the little head. Originally Posted by pyramider

True Sir, but I'm much more interested in hearing responses to the question the OP posed. I already know and when how rub one out, I learned about that one a loooong time ago!

I'm in Chicago frequently and live in Dallas. Although this post is a little self serving (I'm newbie friendly), I have to agree with the others here.

It's very simple to find ladies to your liking that are on this board and others. Although I love p411, it's certainly not a necessity. Go find a few ladies that seem appealing to you and write them.

At least a few should be amiable to your request! And when you get frustrated, take a break and try again!!! Also, as a last thought, there are women who can be difficult. I'm still almost positive that with a little study (not much, though) you can find someone that isn't so fussy with their screening requirements.

Good luck!

Warmly,
Elisabeth