I need advice on how to pick a provider/etiquette

Hey everyone - sorry if this is the wrong forum section.

I'm looking for some guidance/advice. I see sites like Eros and idk if they are safe or what.

How do I pick?

I've never used a provider except one time I was in las vegas. It was a horrible experience. The girl from eros showed up with a neck tattoo and said the donation as just to "reserve the room". Essentially paid her for nothing

So my question is - is that normal?

No not normal.

But you need to do your research first to determine what your comfort level is in asking one of the ladies for a date. Frankly, some of the ad sites should be ignored.
I suggest you start by reading some of the reviews here.
A 2nd step would be to realize if the same kc guy is writing decent reviews then consider the gals he has reviews on.
A joint 2nd step is to realize if the same gals are having decent reviews written about them by diff guys.

My point being, this will allow you to determine your comfort level (expectations) for your next date and more importantly, realize who the reputable ladies are here.

Or, pick a reputable lady and just jump into the deep end of the pool. The gals here have been known to rescue a guy that's nervous and put a smile on his face

Thank you for the response! If someone is "verified" on eros, does that make a difference?

Nope.
It doesn't take much to be verified there.

"How to pick a provider" is way too broad a question for anyone to answer for you.

Is there a look, activities, a budget? How comfortable are you with screening? Etc.

Also, there is no "one" site to use. You're going to have to do homework (depending on what you want) across multiple sites.

look thru reviews here
find a reputable and well respected/reviewed gal and go get ya sum!!!!!

good luck!!!!!

Hey everyone - sorry if this is the wrong forum section.

I'm looking for some guidance/advice. I see sites like Eros and idk if they are safe or what.

How do I pick? .....

So my question is - is that normal? Originally Posted by Rl1014772

The absolute answer is: Yes! This is normal and typical of the average whore. There are more woman who one wants to avoid than there are women you may want to date. It is you that has to decide.

If you want to have an experience that pleases you, you will find that you will reject about 90% of the available women. Selecting from the 10% that are not normal will give you a better experience: we refer to those ladies as "providers", a big difference. It is your choice and your money.

I reject ugly tattoos on a woman: Some guys like that, it is their choice.
I reject women who curse continually: Some guys like that, it is their choice.
I reject women who are really stupid: Some guys like that, it is their choice.
I reject women who bitch and complain: Some guys like that, it is their choice.

Keep records about the women to help you evaluate the ladies you would really like to call: let you big head do the thinking, not your little head.

No not normal.

But you need to do your research first to determine what your comfort level is in asking one of the ladies for a date. Frankly, some of the ad sites should be ignored.
I suggest you start by reading some of the reviews here.
A 2nd step would be to realize if the same kc guy is writing decent reviews then consider the gals he has reviews on.
A joint 2nd step is to realize if the same gals are having decent reviews written about them by diff guys.

My point being, this will allow you to determine your comfort level (expectations) for your next date and more importantly, realize who the reputable ladies are here.

Or, pick a reputable lady and just jump into the deep end of the pool. The gals here have been known to rescue a guy that's nervous and put a smile on his face Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

Listen to this guy!!! Unique is the best guidance counselor/advisor I know!!!

The absolute answer is: Yes! This is normal and typical of the average whore. There are more woman who one wants to avoid than there are women you may want to date. It is you that has to decide.

If you want to have an experience that pleases you, you will find that you will reject about 90% of the available women. Selecting from the 10% that are not normal will give you a better experience: we refer to those ladies as "providers", a big difference. It is your choice and your money.

I reject ugly tattoos on a woman: Some guys like that, it is their choice.
I reject women who curse continually: Some guys like that, it is their choice.
I reject women who are really stupid: Some guys like that, it is their choice.
I reject women who bitch and complain: Some guys like that, it is their choice.

Keep records about the women to help you evaluate the ladies you would really like to call: let you big head do the thinking, not your little head.


Originally Posted by JRLawrence

JR dahling, great response and hilarious too!

Listen to this guy!!! Unique is the best guidance counselor/advisor I know!!! Originally Posted by Zenovia

Thank you Zee.


Kc_engineer_816,
btw, Zenovia delivers vitamin Z.

a respectful attitude gets you hot damn fun!!!!!

And thank you Mr. Unique!!

+1 DallasRain that is #1 for me!
If I may add, being authentic and open minded gets the panties wet!

It’s easy but not easy. It’s easy if you have a plan.
1/ Get credit:
Choose a reputation provider here for the first time. Meet all their needs for verification except they require some sensitive information such as applying for a job or a deposit. I usually pick one in the middle level where the cost is not so high. Tip them a bit to verify you with others. You need at least 2. After that you should write a review about them here or P411. Most of the reputed providers will check your profile on any reliable forum or ask if you are a member of it. Take time to join some discussion in these forums to prove you are true and really in this hobby.
2/ After you have some good credit on hand then most of the things will be easier, and bring you more confidence whenever you want to have fun.
3/ Don’t be frustrated in case you have a wrong choice or are denied. Everyone here, for sure, has experienced at least 1 time like you. Because it is life. To avoid it, you should have more than 1 choice at the time you want fun.
I always plan carefully before I contact a provider, but sometimes I get denied because I don’t have much time to have fun.
But please put your security on top in any scenario. I'd rather do it myself than getting throbbed or arrested.
That’s all I know.
Most of the members here have much more valuable experience than me. Gather their knowledge for more experience.
Good luck.

Good luck, Mr. Engineer! We are cheering for you … and we have all been in your situation at one time or another