I usually run. I look at the hobby as a quite hobby. Just me, myself and I know about this hobby.
If a provider has a loud presence, other than an ad, I pass. The bigger the presence the more attention she attracts when things go bad.
Originally Posted by Fizley
Many of the long term women have gotten hard, loudmouth, crude, stupid, gross and just plain difficult to be around; unless the hobby is not their main income that they give to a pimp. Study hard, that means pass on most of them because the experience will not be fun. However, there are quite a few, the very few, that are here for their own fun and satisfaction. When you find one, just be thankful and love her the way she tells you. She may not post an ad often, but there are those who just want to pick up some extra money along with the fun. The best ladies don't seem to even need the money.
For all the others: they are not worth the time and disappointment. It takes a lot of time weeding the hobby flower bed to finely find a rose. It can be worth the trouble and time.