Minimum GFE standard vs PSE

I’ve seen the terms thrown around and have the basic concepts.

But what is the technical, working definition for “girlfriend”?

Like, I read a review posted where someone else commented the review didn’t really meet the “technical standard” of girlfriend...

Just curious if most use the term the same way.

GFE is a very subjective term. It means different things to different people the same as PSE does. Generally GFE includes DFK, LFK, fondling, cuddling, a passionate make out session, where as PSE usually refers to just hardcore sex acts including FS, BBBJ, COF, COT, CIM, hair pulling, BDSM activities, ect.

Thanks. That subjectivity was what I wondered about.

Want to know what providers mean and don’t mean when they say “girlfriend”. Sounds like it’s a bit up to interpretation.

To me a girl friend experience is just that. The girl is always freshly done on her make up, responds to outfit requests or has something sexy on, hang out, chat, drink wine maybe, perhaps dinner on an extended date or overnight, passionate bcd, kissing, foreplay on both sides (bbbj and daty), cfs, etc. Cim is debatable, but I know a lot of girls who wouldn't want it there, so up to you if you think your style requires it or not. I personally don't think so. Maybe post convo pillow talk, then departure. Just like hanging with a girlfriend. Goes beyond a list of activities, but essential activities are required to be a true "girlfriend" experience. You can go deeper as you repeat visits with a regular. Seeing them frequently like a girlfriend, and things get better with chemistry as the girlfriend experience develops. Just keep in mind, they aren't really your girlfriend.

If just immediately going into kissing, foreplay on guy, and bcd ensues with minimal activity for cfs, or cbj is involved in any way (girlfriends wouldn't give a bf a cbj), it's just a nice session or limited gfe. Not really anything gfe about it although some activities might be present. But the pre and post bcd plays a huge part in the girl friend experience also. Quickies and hhr sessions rarely are gfe. Usually reserved for 1 hour or longer sessions. If companionship of a girlfriend is your goal or need, you might invest in longer sessions and make sure menu is up to par for the preferred session.

Porn star experience may include a gfe setting before or after the session or not. In any case, the musts for pse are during bcd with a bbbj with gag, deep throat, spit, sloppy. Lots of dirty talk throughout and vocal. If the provider receives might foreplay, may include multiple fingers with squirting, fingers in ass, etc. Maybe toys too. Strap on in doubles settings used for dp. Cfs would include greek and perhaps porn scene like fucking. Mfm and mff doubles are often more pse in nature. Finishers must include cim, facials, cof, cot. A much heavier and dirty session. Not one you would have with a girlfriend. Or maybe? I would.

BDSM is in another realm altogether. You have Gfe, Pse, and bdsm. I know many sessions that don't even involve penetration. Some just tie ups, whips, floggers, exercising pain for pleasure, kissing, dom/sub role play, pet play, ransom fetish. These can be added to a pse or gfe session for role play purposes. Dominate boyfriend needs control, guy that likes to be dominated in bed, etc. The same pre and post bcd and bcd activities apply in both cases. Pse with bdsm might involve restraints while performing greek, or receiving an edging bbbj in a gfe where gf dominates her bf. They require much more energy and work, which is why girls may charge more for their time in these instances.

There are girls who are great hybrids of the two, and if so lucky, all three realms of pleasure. I personally gravititate towards pse in the sheets. Others are one or the other. Some include all or partial activities. Depends on the lady and your personal definition, as well as chemistry. Face it, if you don't click, a gfe isn't happening. I do find pre and post bcd plays a huge part for me in a girlfriend experience. I personally find a real gfe session is very rare and more commonplace with the milf crowd, but does exist with a few young girls also. Collegegirlforu should of opened a training school in art of gfe. Hope this helps.

Very good description RogueOne!

Thanks there titties and beer.

Also even more rare, I once combined all three realms into one session in a Cuckold fetish session. One of the best experiences I've had to date. Just check my reviews for an idea.