Cancellations 😡

Hey guys,
So I really just need to vent about my trip to Tyler today. I was so excited bc I love coming to east Texas/ Tyler area. I was all booked for today and looked forward to enjoying myself and having a great time .. BUT this trip has been an utter disappointment after I had THREE cancellations in one day!!! I have never had so many people cancel on me in one trip. I am so upset idk what I should do. I know a lot of high-end ladies enforce a deposit and cancellation fee to ensure they aren’t screwed over like this and after this visit I am seriously thinking of doing the same. I know guys get very upset whenever this happens to them but just imagine when us girls are looking fwd to seeing you and then here I am alone in my room waiting and get stuck with 3 different cancellations. Like what the hell is going on?!! This is not good business! I have to re-evaluate my scheduling strategies and make sure I have a back up plan bc this is bs. Anyone have suggestions?

This is the reason we cant keep good things in Tyler...

Bad form brothers, bad form.

Come on guys!!



Janelle, not sure what type of advise to give you on this.

Sorry this happened to you, if I wasn’t all the way in Shreveport I’d give you some company.

It sucks for sure. Deposits are a sure way to not get any business. Were these guys you've seen before and have a history with. If not I would be very leary of new guys to you. Just my 2 cents. Sorry for wasted time and money.

This thread is over on the Main Eccie Board.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=1...post1061520651


Thought it might also add some insight. Unfortunately, it happens everywhere. The ladies just need to make the adjustments to their way of doing business. Guys will then have to decide if they want to conform to that way of business. As in all changes to various business practices, there are pros and cons. There definately isn't an answer that will make all happy.

It is common courtesy to keep an appointment when you make it. We have all experienced this but my take is when you make an appointment and do not want to go through such BS you should keep the appointment if at all possible.
I would say to just stick to reputable clients and providers and your chances of this kind of thing normally does not happen.
Sorry this happened to you Janell as what I have heard about you, you are a provider that keeps up your part of the commitment.
When this has happened to me in the past it was normally due to using less than known providers.
Happy encounters all and may your week end be special and you find the special one.

That’s true. Deposits would only be necessary for longer stays but as far as cancellation fees go, I had a serious conversation with all of the guys who bailed on me last night and 2/3 have taken care of the fees for standing me up. Not all of them were guys I’ve seen before but we’ve talked back and fourth a lot, I spent time screening each of them thoroughly and the providers I contacted told me they were good to go. Just for future reference if I go through all of that and we set something up that’s suppose to be solid but I get stood up, I’m requiring a 200 �� cancellation fee.

Put 'em on blast

A little late on this thread, but how do 3 guys cancel on a stunning young woman like Janell? Bad form indeed. I think a cancel is better than a NCNS, but if they are sincere and things were beyond their control, they should pay a cancellation fee of some kind for last minute to try and make the provider whole in some way: To show respect for her time.

I think this is one of the biggest problems in the Texarkana area & has been the reason for the decline in providers visiting.

Even the coin has two sides. There is no nice way to say it and I do apologize in advance if I offend anyone. But perhaps we should talk about this. Janel is a beautiful woman, most likely the prettiest in E TX but has a very tedious screening process in my experience. Maybe the guys got spooked. Of course a provider has the right to do any kind of screening she wants, and I respect that. I tried to see her multiple times, I never could. After the last time finally I gave up. Like an auditor wanted to check both of my references, both of my references are reviews on this site, the providers not only approved them but supported my P411 membership. I even gave her my P411 handle. Yes it is also true my reviews/references are from last year, probably the girls did not respond back to her, I do not know, but this is exactly why we have P411, by they way I have not renewed my P411 because I am at the point it is useless if girls do not accept it. So, when a guy wants a company, he is not going to wait weeks for an approval. Again, with all respect, I know the provider has the right to screen any way she wants...

The other issue is that why would a provider schedule 3 guys for a day? I had sessions with providers like that in the past, it was a clock watching experience. Again, I am not saying Janell is a clock watcher, I have never been with her and her reviews are nice. I simply say guys can "detect" when they are being queued up in a production line. Of course one could argue that Janell worth it even this way. She is very pretty.

I have never written a review about "34E Whitney Weston" (probably you guys know her) but let me say this -base on my wonderful experience - she would never schedule 3 guys for a day, or if she does, because of her GFE skills you would never know......

It seems as if you’re trying to find ways to blame me for the cancellations which is ridiculous lol

Yes, I screen thoroughly and make sure I am 100% comfortable meeting up before we set a date. This keeps everyone safe and relaxed during our visit. I’ve never heard of someone complaining because I screen too much but I’m trying to see where you are coming from. My safety and comfortability is number 1 and that’s just the way that I am.


Also, I’m not sure what other providers are telling you but when a woman takes the time and money to invest into screening, scheduling, booking location and traveling out of town because she has several requests in one day SHES GOING TO GET AS MUCH AS SHE CAN OUT OF THAT TRIP. Whether it’s seeing 3, 4 or 5 guys in a day! I’m not going to sit at the hotel by myself looking hot as fuck and just be lonely. And if you don’t like knowing that providers do see multiple people in a day then maybe this hobby isn’t for you. I suggest you settle down with a good girl-next-door type.

I waited for a very long time to see janell. She screens for her safety as well as yours. I appreciate a woman who screens throughly. It means she is real, and legit. I finally got to meet her yesterday, and she is the most gorgeous woman in Texas! You're time with her is about you, and her not the next hobbyist. You treat this woman like the queen that she is, and I promise you she will definitely go out of her way to treat you like a king. She is full of energy and enthusiasm about you only. You can't expect this masterpiece to set idol and only see 3 hobbyist a day. She is one the most clean, and classy provider around. You just canceled on a one of a kind. I will see her once a week when she is available. You don't find many providers that has a face, and body that she possesses. She is very talented, and very skilled.

At least they took the time to cancel.

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